If so, what do you do, what if it is you?

Updated on educate 2024-04-07
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It doesn't matter what else is, what matters is that you like it and that he treats you well.

    His family is all secondary.

    If he doesn't treat his family well, then he probably won't be much better than yours.

    Now I feel unhappy, but after getting married, I will have to live a lifetime, and of course I will be happy in such a short life, and I should break up.

    Be brave and pursue the happiness that should belong to you.

    Don't worry, if he is not your fate, he will always find your fate. Hehe.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    We were in a similar situation! I can't help but want to break up. Get married, he can't give you a sense of security!

    As a person who has come over, I advise you, there are so many men in the world who want to love you, why not give them a chance! If this man loves you, it's worth it! But he doesn't love you, you say that his family is good to you, and you are reluctant!

    You're so stupid! Your own family is the one who loves you the most! Go back to your family and they will forgive you for anything you did wrong!

    It's not worth giving up a forest for a small tree!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I hate his words when you say it's your birthday, what does he say about him... I wonder if he hasn't graduated from elementary school yet, and he's still playing Superman Diga? Even if it's a friend, it's not enough to say that.

    And I feel disgusted that he is so cute. It gives me the feeling that you're, he's playing with Superman's toys.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not happy together! I know he doesn't really love you. So why are we still together? Dizzy!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You have to be yourself.

    If he really loves you, he will let you go by himself, and help you when you are in trouble, such people are good.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If it were me, I would choose to leave, and it is a painful choice to live with someone I don't love for the rest of my life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Break up, the way is different, not conspiratory.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You have to be assertive and don't listen too much to others.

    Sometimes sad things are self-inflicted.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you don't leave, you'll kill yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is not necessary that people who love each other will get married, and I won't talk about the second half of the sentence.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    So what's the point that you don't love him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If it were Fang Datong, I would consider thinking about staying...

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't like it, forget it, and if you like it, you can stay.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You have to respect your inner choice, if you do love your current girlfriend, you don't want to treat others well, if you think your current girlfriend is not beautiful, don't be ashamed, and have other thoughts in your heart, you have to make it clear to others as soon as possible, don't delay others, pain is better than short pain, if you think your girlfriend is very good to you, I'm embarrassed to say, I can't open my mouth, this is a greater harm to your girlfriend, people's lives are long and short, people should know how to cherish, If you think you are a boy who loves vanity, you will break up with your current girlfriend, if you think you are a down-to-earth boy, not a boy who only pays attention to the surface, then you should treat your girlfriend in front of you well, otherwise you will regret it when you are in your old age, regret losing this beautiful relationship, people must know how to cherish and be grateful

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on what your ultimate goal is. For example, are you looking for a partner who loves each other in harmony for life? Or do you want to be selected as a public judge for the beauty competition?

    There is no doubt that you should be looking for your own happiness. And the pursuit is to complete the process of holding the hand of the person you love and going through the second half of your life. Everyone has a love for beauty, and there is nothing wrong with your pursuit of beauty. But have you really thought about it?

    If you abandon this girl who is good to you now, then what is it? So when you were together, did you go with the mood to have fun? I don't think so, you should be a man with a sense of responsibility and conscience.

    It's not like mentioning any pretty money worshippers here (although there are, but there are also beautiful women who don't worship money), or you may encounter the difficulties that the next girl will have, (maybe unilaterally you love her, and she treats you in general.) And so on.

    Whether you pursue or have an idea, you end up choosing to stick to the present or pursue the future. I hope you will take a rational look at the big problem of life and marriage. There's a lot of responsibility involved.

    Brother, do you care about a beautiful skin or a beautiful heart? Which is more important, where to go, you just have to find your personal answer.

    Good luck to this friend who asked the question, I wish you happiness and I wish your current girlfriend happiness.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If I were you, I wouldn't look for someone else.,I'm back with my current girlfriend.,What's the use of being beautiful.,Just find a good one for you and be able to see the past.,It's not safe if it's too beautiful.,I hope you choose carefully.。

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on whether you really like him, and besides, a person's appearance is not so important, the important thing is to look at the person's personality, and whether the heart is compatible with yourself? If they all get along, there's no need to spend any more time looking for someone you think is beautiful, maybe pretty, a lot for you, but not necessarily one that can get along with you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What I want to say is that appearance is not the first choice, the right personality is the most important, eating together, chatting together, is the most important, I wish you happiness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Beauty can't be carried on your back, there will always be a day when you will grow old, so cherish the people in front of you. It's easy to find someone you love (others don't necessarily love you), it's hard to find someone who loves you more than he loves himself, cherish it!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Your girlfriend is not very beautiful, you just want to find a beautiful one, then after you find a beautiful girlfriend, you find that there are more and more beautiful girls, do you continue to change one by one, the two get along, appearance is only a factor.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Of course, you cherish the person in front of you, and you still love each other so much. If you can still choose someone else in this case, prove that you don't really love her, if you are separated, it will be difficult for you to find a woman who loves you so much in the future, don't have half-hearted thoughts, what is around you is the best, cherish it!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I'd rather find someone who loves you than someone you love!

    This has a deep meaning!

    Wishing you happiness!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't be born in the blessing and don't know the blessing, you don't cherish someone who loves you, it's hard to meet if you miss it, why spend so much time and money to find someone who doesn't love you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Of course, you cherish the people in front of you, and you should be glad to find someone who treats you sincerely.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The wife doesn't have to be too pretty. A girlfriend can be beautiful, my wife is not good-looking, and I can find a girlfriend after marriage. My wife won't say anything if she finds out, and my girlfriend doesn't mind. I often ask them to eat and sing together.

    Get along harmoniously. You don't have to learn from me. A woman is willing to do nothing more than two things with you, either you have money, or you have another skill.

    If you don't starve to death in the future, you have to feed them!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What you think is beautiful may not be suitable for you;

    What you think is average, may help you.

    If you look beautiful now, you will find disadvantages later, and if you look average now, you will find advantages later.

    It's rare that she loves you and cherishes the present.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Now that you're shaken, break up as soon as possible if you don't love, so it hurts less, after all, your girlfriend loves you deeply.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    By the time you start thinking like that, you're no longer worthy of this girl.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Find another one, or you'll find it in the future, and it hurts the feelings between you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's better to find someone you love than to find someone who loves you, and come here to recommend it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    As the saying goes: a person is not as good as a heart. You should cherish what is in front of you, it is your blessing!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It is a question of whether you love her or not, and you can't ask for advice.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This is often how you lose your true love and then learn to cherish it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You can try it, the more beautiful I feel, the less considerate it is.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    For the recent graduates of secondary school, your education is not high, although your current choice is not satisfactory to you, but I think you need to analyze, what is your ability or expertise? What can I do? Do you have anything better than your academic qualifications?

    What are your own needs? What are your goals for the future? Make a list of these, and if you feel you have the capital, then you can go out and break in.

    I hope you don't go out with your friends, and then run outside into the workshop, do assembly lines, do mechanical work every day, and you can't learn useful knowledge and skills. It's easy work, but you're using your youth as a bargaining chip. I hope you will think carefully.

    It is recommended that you: 1. Learn construction technology in a down-to-earth manner, and read more college textbooks when you have time, and find a correspondence or other way to upgrade your academic qualifications. After two years of work, you can take the national examination for registered second-class constructors, and with the registration certificate, then your strength and experience will be recognized by others.

    2. First of all, think about supporting yourself, before you can think about getting married and having children, what else is there to think about if you can't support yourself.

    3. When you have your own ability and economic strength, you can open a store or something by yourself and do business by yourself, so that you can have a way out.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Listen to your parents, if you have a good income, you can earn more money now, and it's not too late to find a wife in two years!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Tell you to go out to do it, if there is no purpose, or do it well, after all, step by step, in fact, the construction worker is good, learn a lot of things, it will be very useful in the future, including your experience in the first class construction engineer is still very helpful, in the construction industry, take our company as an example, take the test of a hanging company, a year to the minimum salary to 8w, their own salary 5-6w, a year is also more than 10w, not worse than other industries, in the saying that when you are old, to evaluate the engineer or senior engineer, it will be much easier to work with high wages in the future.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Everyone's thinking is different, first consider your current financial situation and your current ability to allow you to go out and break in? It's not allowed to learn a skill by yourself, and you really don't have any interest in your current job, so you can consider changing jobs. But you have to consider that changing jobs can also be problematic.

    Think clearly for yourself and plan your future well.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I am a designer, if you don't want to develop as a builder in the future, you can be a builder first, and then choose the path of design.

    This is very helpful for future design paths.

    Also, when I was a construction employee, I took all the certificates of the builder.

    Then you can be attached to the company, and you can easily become a designer.

    Ask your parents again!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Generally, there will be an opportunity to change majors when you move from the first year to the second year, but depending on the situation, you have already missed it.

    Now there are two ways out:

    1. If you don't care about the graduation certificate and degree certificate, learn some knowledge and skills that you are interested in and useful for your career development in the future, and you must not let yourself be immersed in this kind of troubles and entanglements and do nothing, wasting your youth in vain (Bill Gates and Jobs have not completed it!). )

    2. If you are very concerned about getting a graduation certificate and degree certificate (after all, many units value this), then you must have the mentality of "what you have come to be safe", adjust your mood and state as soon as possible, strive for the help of teachers and classmates, and strive to pass every course. I really can't do it, and there is another choice: drop out decisively, retake the college entrance examination, and choose a major you like.

    It is important for your parents to know and understand your situation and mood in a timely manner, and they will definitely help you find a way to get through it.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If it comes, it will be safe.

    Don't have too much of a burden and face it calmly.

    You don't need to take the score too seriously.

    The important thing is to learn a little more today than yesterday.

    That's progress, that's hope.

    There is a gap between most of the theoretical things in school and the real society.

    So learn with peace of mind now and read with peace of mind.

    After graduating, you will have much less pressure than those who work hard in society.

    Find the right reference, and you'll find that you're actually happy right now!

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    With an indifferent attitude, live a life of peace with what happens, go to graduate school, for the sake of your family.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    As long as you are really determined, then there will always be opportunities. As long as you are really confident, then everything can be started all over again. However, when making this decision, you have to ask yourself, you are really determined, confident that you will make your choice a good one, and you will not regret it, and you will not give up halfway.

    However, the most important thing in life is to be happy, so do what you like to do and choose your interests, maybe the process will be very hard, but there will be a rainbow of sunshine after the wind and rain. So, think about it. When you are too tired, you can change the environment or take a good rest, thinking about nothing, people need mental rest.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    1. You can take the postgraduate entrance examination and cross majors.

    2. You can take the second major by yourself.

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