I broke up with my girlfriend and was confused, my girlfriend was disappointed and broke up with me,

For a while, just do it as before, if she's still like this after a while, if you can keep your distance.

Then you give up, it means that what she needs is not real love, but also the care of others and the gaze of others.

Sometimes give your loved ones a little space.

Love will not get tired.

You also have to be confident in yourself.

Even if it doesn't end well, you have to keep going confidently.

Why do you mention breaking up? Have you considered any of the reasons?

If the two of you are breaking up, then you don't have to send her any more messages and look for her, after all, there is no need to find a woman who doesn't love you very much, if you are only temporarily separated, then you can ask her relatives and friends about her situation.

You can reach out to your mutual friend, go to her home and ask her neighbors, or go to her workplace to find her.

Try to find a mutual friend of both of you to find out about her, and you can go to her place where she works or studys.

Girls cherish her first time. Maybe she doesn't love you, but she will remember you for the rest of her life.

It seems to me that your attempt to forget her is just a choice out of desperation, because you feel that it is irreparable, and that things are beyond your control.

Now you, I don't know if it's crazy, but at least it's not sober. Do you fight ** because you love her and don't want to lose her, or is it because there is something missing around you, and there is a third party appearing, so you are psychologically unbalanced? I guess you didn't think so much about her when you were together in the past, people always have to wait until they lose to learn to cherish it, alas.

Whatever the reason, I advise you not to suppress yourself. Cry if you want to, fight if you want to hit **, just cry as much as you want. What followed was a period of numbness, and countless touches and injuries.

Pack up and destroy what belongs to her, including what she once gave you, so that you can have a little better. You can find something to do during the National Day, such as going on a trip to relax, or finding an online game to indulge in (what a bad idea I have, hehe), and just survive this time. Be careful to meet new people, people are always curious about new things, and traveling with new people will ease your pain a little.

If you can, you can also change your living environment, such as going to live alone in an unfamiliar city for a few days during the holidays.

Don't stay at home, the more you hold back, the more you think about her, the more unwilling you are to lose.

In fact, since she often quarrels, then she must not have a better temper, are you blind to all her shortcomings because you lost her?

In addition, I don't know if I will feel this way in the future about what you said. I'll tell you the truth, probably not anymore. However, mature love is a different feeling, a different feeling from first love.

First love is a green apple, and love and hate are quite strong; Ripe love is a ripe fruit, sweet and moist, and the taste of happiness spreads throughout the orchard. So you don't have to worry, your future is left to the god of fate.

Remember, when you lose, it doesn't have to be a loss.

Hello, there is a misunderstanding between you, just say it. Besides, as a man, you should be generous, patient, and care more about her. It's okay, I have a feeling that there will continue between you, but it requires you to take the initiative. Let's do it. Come on.

You must have drunk too much and said something wrong. Otherwise, your girlfriend wouldn't be like that, everything is expensive to insist, if you love her, try to chase her back.

If you voluntarily admit your mistake. Maybe it can save her heart

Didn't your girlfriend say a specific reason for the breakup? If she really likes it, you shouldn't break up because of a fight, don't worry too much, just create a romantic opportunity to apologize to her.

In a word, whether she loves you or not.