Why is our family very discordant?

There is no way, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies. Mother-in-law is never a mother. If it were me, I would be very polite and respectful to my mother-in-law, but I wouldn't be like my mother, so let's save face. There are no issues of principle.

Although I am not married. But I'm fine with people my mom's age. Hee-hee. In fact, they don't ask for a lot.

First of all, the daughter-in-law felt that her mother-in-law was not her mother, so the mother-in-law was unhappy when she said a few words, and then she remembered it in her heart, and it was easy to explode after a long time.

There is also the mother-in-law, who always feels that her daughter-in-law is not her daughter, so she doesn't need to love her, and then she is a little bit that and that in words.

In fact, it is very simple to get a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I think my mother-in-law and I are doing a good job in this regard, we always buy each other something delicious and beautiful to give, and praise each other from time to time, so that everyone feels very happy, get along very naturally, and the relationship is good!

My mother-in-law and I get along very well. There must be some generation gap between the old man and the young man, and the young man should not hear it, keep silent, you can always be open-minded, and don't embarrass your husband. In the middle, you speak more good words and do more meaningful things.

I believe that one day it will get better!

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a special and difficult interpersonal relationship. It is neither a marriage relationship nor a blood relationship, but a special relationship based on the above two relationships, so the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law plays its special role in family interpersonal relations. Differences of interest, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living in the same family, will often have some differences and contradictions in the management of family affairs, domination, and so on.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law originally lived in their own different families, each with their own life background and habits. If you don't adapt well and can't accept each other, you will have a tense relationship and many conflicts. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and son plays a very important intermediary role.

If the son does not handle it well, it is easy to become the focus of conflict.

How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

This requires the son's double-sided tape to deal with it flexibly, learn to take responsibility, instead of shirking the responsibility to his mother or wife, and not to stand idly by. It is also a good idea to seek help and mediation from a third party or a professional marriage and family counselor. Maybe they have already taken care of each other's face, and they need to have a step down.

Therefore, the involvement of a third party will make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law more insipid.

The first thing to deal with is to avoid quarrels and communicate more, and most of the conflicts are due to the lack of effective communication. Then see the essence through superficial behavior, for example, the mother-in-law's wordiness may be expressing her concern for you, but the daughter-in-law does not appreciate it. Learn to respect each other's habits, and try to integrate with each other through communication.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law need to cultivate common interests and hobbies, and only when they have common interests and hobbies will they have a common language, so it will be easier to get along with each other. Playing the role of his son's double-sided tape means that if our relationship has really broken down, we can try to separate for a while. When necessary, separation, and appropriate time can accelerate the run-in with each other, which is also called distance produces beauty.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult, and most of them are very good. A daughter-in-law is not born to a mother-in-law, so she doesn't have to be domineering, and it is also necessary for a daughter-in-law to treat her mother-in-law well, and she must respect the elderly. There is a lot of family harmony and happiness, everything is prosperous, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must understand each other and care for each other in order to get along.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is much better, but there are very few that are not good.

Not every family's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a bad relationship, because some mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law know how to make the family prosperous, but if they are more tolerant, the family will be harmonious.

That's not all, let's just say that most of them aren't very good.

I have seen good things in reality, but the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law really can't stand the test, even if it's better, if a person does it a few times, it will really deteriorate.

In fact, calm your mind, don't think about what the other party should do to you, just keep your heart.

After all, it's not about what a relationship.

Is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law very bad? Not necessarily, you have to treat your mother-in-law as your mother, then you can get along well, you must tolerate each other, understand each other, each mother-in-law has no malicious intentions, maybe the way of speaking is different, treat each other and pass, they are all kind.

Not necessarily.

But it has been difficult to get along since ancient times.

It all depends on the mentality of both parties.

If there is a man who does not act, then there must be.

The reason why the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can become a family is because they love the same man, and the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is particularly important for this man. However, many men don't understand this, and just be a hands-off shopkeeper and let the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law develop on their own. Just imagine, can such a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship be so good?

No, there are also many families where the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very good, this depends on the personality of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and more importantly, it is related to the man sandwiched between the two of them.

The living conditions of modern people are much better, there are not many people who live with their mothers-in-law, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has eased a lot. Most of the sharp contradictions are in families that live together in rural areas and need to be supported.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in each family. There are all sorts of things going on. Some are east winds pressing west winds, some are west winds pressing east winds, hope.

This is said to be an enemy of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but in some families, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is handled very well, and if there is a family, it is indeed very bad.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, it does not happen in every family, some families have a particularly harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law treats daughter-in-law like a daughter-in-law, and daughter-in-law treats mother-in-law like her own biological mother, imagine that this relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be bad?

You have to think about it, as the saying goes, every family has a difficult scripture, everyone cares about the point differently, the mentality is not the same, and there are still most of the good relationships.

Is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in every family not good, and it is best to have most people's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so only the next door is mostly out? Polite and caring, only two people can get a good relationship.

Most of them are good. The part that will be self-centered and not ask for anything but only for something in return will definitely not be good.

That's not all, some families have a relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law like daughter and mother, and the way to maintain this relationship is mutual respect.

Hello! Personally, I think that many families have contradictions. It just depends on how to solve it.

At present, the proportion of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family who have a harmonious relationship is very high, and the relationship is generally good.

No, the harmonious family relationship is good, and I really help you look forward to it

That's not necessarily, there are many families where the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still good.

How important emotional stability is for families.

1. Emotional stability is the best feng shui for a family.

Some people say that the feng shui of a family depends on the state of the family, but in fact, the real feng shui of a family depends on the emotions of the family.

When the family is emotionally stable, the family is happy, when the family is emotionally stable, the hearts of the family are together, and the daily life is also happy.

However, if the mood of the family members in a family is not good, and the relationship between the family members is not good, then in such a family, the members will only become more and more painful, and the members will only become more and more uncomfortable.

Therefore, many times, we have to know that emotional stability is the best feng shui for a family, and only when we achieve emotional stability can a family be happy.

2. Emotional instability, a family will only be unhappy.

In a family, when the mood is unstable, the family will only be unhappy, and the important thing is that such a family will only go downhill and will not be happy.

My friend Xiaoling's husband is a violent temper, he gets angry at every turn, and he gets angry at every turn, and every time he is scared, Xiaoling and the child tremble, but the husband doesn't take it seriously.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is one of the problems that often arise in marriage, and the quality of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will have an important impact on the direction of marriage. In traditional Chinese culture, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a special relationship, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is directly related to family harmony and will also affect the relationship between husband and wife. Therefore, how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a problem that every couple needs to face.

First of all, the quality of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will directly affect the relationship between husband and wife. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious, there will often be some small frictions, such as conflicts in housework, disagreements over children's education, etc., if these small problems cannot be solved in time, they will gradually accumulate, and may eventually lead to conflicts between husband and wife. And if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well, the husband and wife will have more time and energy to pay attention to each other, so as to maintain the stability of the couple's relationship.

Secondly, the quality of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will also affect the harmony of the family. If the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, it can cause tension within the family, which can have a negative impact on the emotions of the family members, which can lead to escalating conflicts between family members. On the contrary, if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along harmoniously, they can convey positive emotions and promote a harmonious relationship between family members.

Finally, the quality of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will also have an impact on the stability of the family. If the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law continue to intensify, even to the point where they cannot be reconciled, it may lead to problems such as children running away from home and divorce between husband and wife, which will directly affect the stability and happiness of the family.

To sum up, the quality of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will affect the direction of marriage. Therefore, it is very important to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in marriage. For both husband and wife, it is necessary to avoid the conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law as much as possible to affect the relationship between the husband and wife, and to actively communicate, understand and tolerate each other.

At the same time, when facing disagreements between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is also necessary to remain calm and rational and avoid emotional decision-making. In addition, both husband and wife should respect and understand the cultural differences and habits between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to minimize the occurrence of conflicts. For mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is also necessary to respect each other's identities and rights, and establish a good relationship of mutual respect and understanding.

In the face of differences, problems can be solved through communication, compromise, etc., and try to avoid excessive quarrels and the expansion of contradictions.

In addition, the exchange and communication between the members of the closed Dongting is also the key to solving the problem of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Family members should have good communication and communication channels to solve problems in a timely manner and reduce the occurrence of conflicts. When dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, couples can take some measures, such as inviting their mother-in-law to live in their home, or holding regular family meetings to discuss family matters together, so as to enhance interaction and understanding between family members.

In short, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an important issue that needs to be faced in marriage, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will directly affect the relationship between husband and wife, family harmony and family stability. Therefore, husband and wife should understand and respect the cultural differences between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law as much as possible, maintain good communication and exchanges, and try to avoid conflicts, so as to maintain the harmony and happiness of the family.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is one of the most special relationships in the family, and it is also one of the most important relationships in marriage and life. A harmonious mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship can bring many benefits to the marriage, while a harmonious mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship may cause serious negative trends and impacts on the marriage.

1. The impact on marital happiness.

The disharmony in the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law will directly affect the interaction and emotional communication between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law, which will affect the daughter-in-law's views and attitudes towards marriage. If the daughter-in-law feels that she is not able to receive the support and understanding of her mother-in-law, then she will have doubts and dissatisfaction with the marriage. And if the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law is harmonious, then the daughter-in-law will trust and rely on her husband more, and thus be more satisfied with the marriage.

2. Impact on the relationship between husband and wife.

Disharmony in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can also affect the relationship between husband and wife. If the contradictions and conflicts between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law occur frequently and are not effectively resolved, then these problems may involve the husband and wife, resulting in conflicts and conflicts between the husband and wife. If the husband is not able to deal with the problems in the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, or even takes the side of the mother-in-law in the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, then the relationship between the husband and wife may have more serious problems, and it may even lead to divorce between the husband and wife.

3. Impact on children's growth.

Disharmony in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can also affect the growth of children in the family. If the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious, then this atmosphere can also have a negative impact on the child, causing the child to have doubts and dissatisfaction with the family. If the child feels that the relatives in the family are not able to get along with each other, then the child's mental health may be affected, which can have a negative impact on his or her development.

4. Relevant studies have shown that 47% of divorced couples in China are divorced due to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Because these couples do not correctly handle the conflict between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they cause disagreement between husband and wife, and the family is constantly in hot and cold wars, which has a huge impact on the family and both parties, and even produces a marriage crisis.

Therefore, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law still has a great impact on marriage, if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, family life is not very perfect and happy, if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, there will be a happy atmosphere at home, and it will be very happy.

Love is not only wind and snow, but also firewood, rice, oil and salt, if the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not resolved at the moment, and it accumulates more, it will become more and more congested, and if it does not explode in silence, it will die in silence. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law directly affects the relationship between husband and wife, and many couples have no estrangement between the two, but when they are mixed with the elderly, they will make trouble. Therefore, men must be concoctors and strive to maintain their mothers and wives and their mothers.

Write at the end: In short, the impact of the mother-in-law relationship on marriage is very important. If both parties can build a good relationship, then the marriage will be more beautiful and happy.

If both parties are not able to handle the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, then the marriage may be greatly affected. Therefore, both parties should actively try to improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law so that the family can be harmonious and harmonious.