Will the people who hurt you before love you

In our lifetime, we will meet the person you love the most, the person who loves you the most, and the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love; Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most; When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest, it's not the person you love the most or love you the most, it's just the person who appears at the right time.

How many people will you be in someone else's life? No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you; In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him, you should want him to be happy, you want him to be with the person you really love, and you will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession, you can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you; The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement. After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained; Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not strong enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment. So in the end, it is necessary to choose which one to believe in fate and let everything be.

No. From the moment they are ready to hurt you, they are not qualified to love you!

Hurting someone who loves you can expose your conscience to blame and you may get revenge from that person. Or maybe you'll run into some unpredictable trouble.

From a selfish point of view.

Damage over time....

will lose someone who loves you.

Man lives in the world.

What is the rarestest thing?

Finding someone who loves you is the hardest....

Cherish the people who love you.

The human heart grows....Gotta take good care of it!

Because they care about you too much, it seems that everything is "should" be done for you, and you learn to be "picky" in the process of constantly "giving", so you will not know how to understand and understand their feelings.

Because they care about you too much, for you, when you are in a good mood, you can communicate with them very harmoniously and get along very well. And when you are depressed, you can transfer your dissatisfaction to the people who love you the most, so you will not understand the silent pain in their hearts.

Because they care about you too much, they should be there for you when you need them. And when you are upset, they should walk away silently. So you won't understand the frustration of them being treated as dispensable.

Because they care about you too much, for you, their care all the time will become an invisible constraint in your heart, making you feel overwhelmed, so you will mercilessly refuse their care for you. Leave one wound after another in their hearts.

Be wary! I don't accept people hurting me. Because I never hurt anyone, I always suffer losses, I always think about others, I am very kind, and I have a soft heart.

I'm strong on the outside, but fragile on the inside, can you hurt me? Instructions are not a good thing. I won't forgive.

Even if it's a working relationship, you have to socialize? I also know it in my heart, and I will go over it in a big way. But I'm not a coward, and it's only a matter of time before I get you.

Didn't you hurt me and it was over? If it's just a regular friend? You don't deserve to be my friend.

Cat crying mouse, fake compassion? Fuck off!

For those who have hurt me, I can choose to forget it, but I will never forgive, let alone former friends, even blood relatives, I can't forgive.

Don't say I'm small-minded, don't forget that it's hurt, hurt is different from the ordinary petty fights, the past is over, it is impossible to forgive me for hurting me, I will remember until I die.

So if you apologize to me, all I can say is forget it, and we'll be fine.

I won't accept this apology, let alone forgive, hurt is revenge, I hold a grudge and a dead grudge. I will never ever forgive someone who has hurt me, and I will never accept an insignificant apology.

Even if the person who hurt me asks for my forgiveness when he is dying, I will not accept it.

So I don't forgive someone who hurt me more than me just because I apologize.