How do introverts break through themselves, and how do introverts succeed?

We love to immerse ourselves in our own world, to enjoy the unchanging scenery, to get away from the hustle and bustle of the city, and to seek inner peace! However, we are not single-celled organisms, we have a wealth of emotions and need to perceive and understand the myriad of worlds, so we need to learn to say "no" to the status quo! Even a little change is a breakthrough for yourself!

Look to your heart

If you want to change, you need to look at yourself in the right moment. Gradually gather the "power" of change, theory guides practice, and behavior comes from the heart! Because of the uncertainty of the future, we hesitate to explore the world outside our hearts!

Let's not be afraid, yes, you can!

Put it into practice

With the willingness to change, you have made a big step forward! The next step is to let the sunlight shine into our little dark room, stretch out our little heads to feel the warmth from the outside world, and let our hearts slowly accept this world and this blue planet.

Through the wind and rain

Emotions are unpredictable, and people say cold and warm! We thank the person who gave us encouragement and support! We also have to thank those who do not understand and are skeptical! The beautiful rainbow is composed of red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo and purple, and firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea are for life!

Consistently

Every path has its mission. A flat road may be a downhill road, and a thorny hillside may be an uphill road to the top! However, those who travel a hundred miles are half ninety, and the breakthrough of the heart is not a matter of one or two days.

We have set up multiple obstacles in our hearts, and only by breaking them one by one can we be liberated!

The light is emerging

In the process of removing the obstacles in our hearts, we suddenly found that the world is no longer monotonous black and white, and suddenly has other colors, and it is precisely because of the embellishment of other colors that the world has become colorful!

Self-fulfillment

Yes! You can! Because this is not only to witness the wonderfulness of the world, but also to let your life shine!

I used to be very introverted, but now it's okay, the main thing is to communicate with people more, don't be afraid of losing face, there's nothing bad about this, communicate with people more, you will get more friends, you can go to KTV to sing more, so you can exercise your guts, hehe, I'm a professional magician now, I didn't expect it, right? It turns out that I blush when I speak. Come on!

Trouble, thanks!

I used to be a very introverted little girl, I remember when I was in elementary school and junior high school, I didn't like to talk, and I was easy to be shy when others said a few words to me, especially when the teacher asked me to ask a question or have the opportunity to show myself on stage, I was nervous, overwhelmed, and I didn't have the courage of other cheerful children.

Maybe the personality is different, I was born with such a personality, after growing up, when I was in high school, I met a cheerful friend, I was influenced by her, she made me let go of myself, revealing my cheerful self, from her I learned some ways to behave in the world, it was my best friend in high school.

In fact, there is no real introvert, it is a person who dares not to let go of himself, but it has been proved that introverts are not as easy to succeed as bold people, and they should get out of their introversion.

1.When you get out of introversion, you can make some lively and cheerful friends, drive your heart, be bold and don't care about other people's opinions.

2.Read more books, observe wonderful worlds, communicate with many different great authors from books, and let yourself go.

3.There are many opportunities in life, but whether we go for it or not, in learning and life, participate in more meaningful activities, so that we have more confidence in ourselves.

4.Learning more skills and cultivating hobbies may be of great help to your future.

5.Learn to communicate, have your own thinking and opinions, and let others have more trust in you.

With the precipitation of time, we will become more and more confident and cheerful, and become a different version of ourselves than before.

Introverts who don't want to make changes can take up jobs that are technical or have less contact with people.

1. Introverts can engage in technical workIntroverts are generally difficult to engage in sales or marketing jobs that communicate with people frequently. Take sales as an example, if you don't market the product to the customer, there is no sales value, and it is impossible for Shixun to get a bonus. That being the case, introverts can move away from jobs that require a lot of interpersonal interaction and instead work in more technical ones.

For example, a carpenter or a gardener, as long as he does his own technical work, can still get a fair remuneration for his labor. Technical jobs, focused on a certain area, tend to be narrow, which is a good match for introverted professionals. It just so happens that my relative Xiao Zhou is also studying industrial engineering, and if he goes to a manufacturing company to do a technical job, it may be a good way out.

Second, introverts can engage in window affairs My second suggestion to Xiao Zhou is to let him take the civil service or career establishment examination, and it is good to be a window clerk. This does not mean that the window personnel do not need to communicate with people, but that the work content is relatively orderly and simplified. Even if you communicate with people, you are limited to a very conventional field, so no matter how introverted people are, after they become proficient, they don't seem so introverted.

Of course, it takes a certain degree of difficulty to get into such a position in the system. However, introverts will have some psychological advantages at the learning level, at least they will be able to calm down and focus on the exam. Combined with Xiao Zhou's major, I helped him analyze some possible positions in the local follow-up recruitment, which also made him a little excited.

After all, this kind of job is stable and suitable for your personality characteristics, so why not do it? 3. Introverts can also change their personality traits In fact, to do various jobs in the workplace, there are almost no occupations that do not need to communicate with people at all. Because the workplace requires more collaboration between people, it is unrealistic to want to develop well at work and not talk to others more.

From my point of view, introverts can also try to change some of their personality traits, even if they are engaged in some professions that require communication with people, which may help with personality transformation. For example, I have a friend who was also very introverted when he was a student in the past. Later, in order to break through his bottleneck, he took the initiative to find a sales position.

After several years of hard work, he has become a talkative "big man" in public, acting very outgoing, and at the same time achieving a lot in his career. Looking back on the choice he made at that time, he felt that he was very correct, at least he dared to face his shortcomings, challenge his introversion, and finally succeeded.