My girlfriend is 28 years old, married, and has a boy hopefully you ve read my question and come ba

Since you're not happy, let's break up Force yourself to be with her Big brother You still have decades to spend with her in the future Isn't it more painful to get married People are too short in life Why do you have to suffer I hope you grit your teeth and break up with her I want you to be happy I feel that you are a very good person I feel that you are a very good person I am not willing to hurt others but be hurt by others Think more about yourself Think about it for yourself Think about it for yourself A lifetime of things It's not a child's ......

Are you stupid?

If a woman says that you don't agree to break up twice, it means that she really likes you and just wants to be with you.

Do you know why female colleagues are weird? You're in a secret relationship, and that's going to be the case, and if that's the case, you're still suspicious of her, and your wages are about the same, right? She's not greedy for your money, and you're doing this to her.

Think about it yourself, what you did wrong, didn't think about it well.

Like a person, no matter what happened to her, what did she do wrong, she had to tolerate her, what was it in the past, as long as she was good now, could it be said that a person can't make mistakes? It's just boyfriend and girlfriend, but one day I'm going to get married.

To believe in her, to solve her problems, not to do this kind of thing that will only make people feel cold, slowly understand.

Emotional matters are inherently very complicated, and the survival rate of sibling love in China is very small, which is a secular limitation. Personally, I don't think age and family situation are an issue. Everyone has an unhappy past, but we don't live in the past, we live for the future.

And sibling love is destined to pay more than ordinary people, and if you want to choose the other party, you must have the courage not to be afraid of facing any difficulties. I give you two suggestions, just for reference, based on two points: one is whether you love each other enough, and the other is whether it is suitable for your own lifestyle and whether you can handle pressure.

If you reach these two points, then go your own way and let others say it. If you can't reach these two, then you should end it as soon as possible, which is good for you and her.

Ask your family if you can accept her first, if you can tolerate everything about her, then stay with her, if you can't, separate early, it's a big deal to change jobs.

To be honest, if you really can't tolerate that child, then break up early and don't regret it after getting married. That's not good.

In a word, it's right to follow your feelings, remember not to do things that you regret!!

I don't think you love it, so it's better to break up as soon as possible.

Ask yourself if you really love her.

First of all, you have a very wrong point, you have no right to ask him not to let him see his ex-wife and children. This is required by law. You can't interfere.

Talk about your problem: The fault is indeed his, he didn't confess it beforehand, but he does love you, otherwise he won't keep telling you, but I'm afraid it will end before it starts. Although there are selfish intentions, they are all based on loving you.

I can't accept it for a while, but he is willing to drop everything and be with you. He dares to love, he gives promises, and he gives concessions, but what about you? Prevent father and son from meeting, whining, and getting emotionally excessive.

Are you really sane like this?

In fact, it is your luck to meet such a man, because he has had an unhappy marriage, he knows how to cherish marriage, he will be more responsible, and this man really loves you. You shouldn't stop his past, since it happened, can you cut off the father-son bloodline? Since you can't stop accepting this reality, after all, the child doesn't live with you.

Think about whether what I'm saying makes sense. Only by making a man grateful to you and grateful to you will he love you more.

You are not small anymore, there were pasts, and there were pasts. Why are you so mean to the past of the person you love? Tolerance is not only about making others comfortable, but also about redeeming oneself.

It seems that the problem you are facing is more tricky, from a bystander's point of view, you want him to cut off contact with his ex-wife and son, it is impossible, the ex-wife may also be cut off, the son is a blood relative, no matter how thick blood is thicker than water, it is impossible not to have contacts, he is not deceiving you, he loves you, but he must also be very uncomfortable, I hope you can understand him, face everything together, love is fate, since you chose him, you should believe him. Talk to him honestly and let him tell you the truth, if he still continues to cheat on you, it means that he doesn't love you, and you don't need to dwell on it anymore.

No matter what, it's his son, the fact, you can't change it in 10 years, a lifetime, and there is still a son's mother over there, you force others to cut off the relationship, it's impossible.

Break up, no longer contact, even if you are alone forever, you don't look for him. The fact that you can believe someone who can say that your son is not your son is a son shows that you love him too much and love him stupidly. It is better or worse to separate now than to separate after you marry him, you know.

Sometimes life is full of helpless 、、、 white lies, and sometimes it's much better than telling the truth directly. If he treats you well when he is with you, then you should give him some time,,, it is not easy to find the right person

Let's break up, he can treat his ex-wife like this, and if he meets other girls again in the future, he will treat you in this way.