How do you feel when you read the abusive text?

Freud said that there are two instincts in human beings: life and death, both of which are actually part of life force. New life always comes with destruction, and the death of the old makes room for new growth. The most vibrant moment is usually not the gentle wind and drizzle, such as the perseverance of the tree in the storm, compared to the willow in the gentle wind and drizzle in the south of the Yangtze River, it will always make people feel that the vitality of the tree is more tenacious.

It is easy for people to experience the energy of life in life, and the instinct of death is generally converted into destructive power to oneself and others. Abuse of this kind of thing should essentially be an extension of the instinct of death. And this way of reading abuse texts is probably a healthier way to release destructive power, after all, abusing others and abusing oneself is not as good as abusing books.

Abuse is to see the reasonableness of abuse, of course, it can't be abuse for the sake of abuse, it is best to arrange that kind of fate, bring people a sense of powerlessness, and then sublimate to the perception of life, so that people can feel more empathy, and the story is ** in life. There are more pitiful and sadistic things in life, maybe I'm quite happy, and I like to watch some abusive texts to find some emotional vent for my ordinary life.

As a lonely child, I have a crush on the male god but I clearly know that the male god doesn't like me, he likes other girls, so, the sweet pet text doesn't have any sense of substitution, because I know this can't happen, abuse the text, 8 percent of the male protagonists of the abuse text like the female owner, but they didn't find out that the female owner didn't find out that I don't like it for the time being, but I will like it in the future, and I have no hope for a crush I feel that the male god may actually like me (of course, it's an illusion), and I can substitute it into the plot, so it's very cool to watch.

The abuse is very much written and written. Bad writing for the sake of abuse is a disaster. As a recipient, it takes a long foreshadowing and foreplay to feel strong emotional fluctuations from the author. Whether it is the collapse of plot, logic or writing, it is fatal.

I put it down to my life going too smoothly (it's not complaining, it's not complaining, it's not complaining. Because my life is smooth and boring, I have never experienced those painful emotions, I have not experienced unforgettable emotional experiences, and I am even worried that it will be dull forever, so I am always eager to try and hope to experience a wave of sadistic feelings. I think this kind of psychology can be called "full of food", but I just want to see what that kind of ups and downs of emotional life is like.

I have thought about this question before, and even went to CNKI to check whether there is any relevant research. It's a pity. In my own opinion, it is a victim psychology that is constantly reappearing.

The reason for the abuse is that on the one hand, it is difficult to balance the advantages and strengths of the abuser, and on the other hand, it is difficult for the abused person to escape from misunderstanding or grievance.