What s it like to have a special friend?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-05
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    A particularly picky friend, every time you go out, you must spend money, and when you pay for dinner, you will always find various reasons to shirk, and every time you see something good, you will be greedy for a small bargain.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You will feel very annoyed, because you are very generous to him, but he is very ungenerous to you, you will feel very annoyed and tired, why is it so good to him? But he is not like that to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you have a particularly picky friend, you should feel very speechless, for example, if you go out shopping with him, and he doesn't buy anything he wants, he feels very boring.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Generally, if you have a particularly picky friend, I think it is a particularly uncomfortable thing, no matter what goes out to play, you pay a little more, I feel particularly tired.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Go out to eat with him, go to play, he has never paid for it, it's really picky, I'm speechless every time, after all, no one's money comes out of thin air, it's really annoying to be too picky.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It will be a magical experience to have a special friend by your side, because you will not laugh or laugh at his special behavior, and you will often have a helpless opinion about him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If your friend says that there is a particularly picky person, then every time you go to dinner, either you pay the bill, or he will calculate the accounts very carefully, and then AA system, AA to a few cents.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The person who picks the door exudes an air of calculation from the inside out. It's better to stay away, I'm in front of them, and sometimes I wonder if I'm too careful, if I'm too picky.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If I have a special friend by my side, then I think it's really miserable to be with him, because she is so picky in everything she does.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't like hanging out with her, every time you buy something, she will say you, you can't successfully persuade her to buy something, it's not fun to play with her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Does it cost me to transfer five cents to her? Real people, real things. Money is something outside the body, and some people are dung by money.

    But everyone has to admit that money is really important, money is not everything, but no money is absolutely impossible. This is the idea of some people, although money is very important, it cannot replace feelings, why some people say that they are not happy when they have money, because happiness cannot be bought.

    Another time the two of us had dinner together, I forgot to bring my meal card, so I used his meal card to buy a soy milk to drink, but when I went back, he asked me to transfer money to her, I was still there wondering, what kind of money did I transfer? I don't remember what I bought with his money! They also specially reminded me that you just bought soy milk and transferred it to me for two yuan.

    I really am, really, this is really a real person, a real thing. The relationship between the two of us didn't even have a chance to owe five cents.

    There's no way to meet such a friend who picks the door, I'd rather lose myself than owe him money, otherwise it will be a big deal.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Speaking of this, it's really heart-wrenching, I really have such a friend, he's not very picky, that's right, he's an iron rooster!

    My friend is the kind of person who looks at meat when he eats, he will first put several pieces in the bowl, and I am familiar with his routine, that is, if there is a meal, he will only give this bowl of dishes, and only three pieces of meat, he will immediately snatch all three pieces of meat, and then tell us that there will be it later; You say it's cheap, it's cheap, let's talk about how to pick it, for example, we go to the store together, he never brings money, and says oops, you pay for me first, and then don't mention it or pay it back, and then he calls me ** never calls QQ ** (in the case of his own wireless network), this is too normal, afraid of spending ** fee, never played normal **.

    The funniest thing is that once we went to dinner together, because before I asked a few juniors and sisters to help me with "Iron Rooster" (please allow me to call it that), and we agreed to invite these juniors to dinner, and when we arrived at the restaurant, we asked the juniors what they wanted to eat? The younger brothers and sisters were not embarrassed to come out to eat with the seniors for the first time, so they ordered very little. Only one school girl proposed to eat crayfish, and the iron rooster immediately said that I had eaten their crayfish that was particularly unpalatable, don't eat it, I felt very puzzled, because when we went to eat crayfish before, he didn't eat a bite, and then I looked at the ** on the menu and immediately understood.

    On top of that, when everyone finished eating and checking out, Iron Rooster said that he wanted to go to the toilet again, and came out refreshed after I paid the bill!

    Although the iron is sometimes too picky and makes me speechless, I still feel that he is my best friend. Because I think money and feelings are two different things after all.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's a very bad experience to have a very picky friend, and it always feels uncomfortable to work with him, because for this kind of person, as long as he doesn't get clean, it is equivalent to a loss, this kind of person's thinking is formed from childhood to adulthood, and it's really annoying!

    When I was in junior high school, there was a classmate who was such a person, and it was really hard to pick anymore, and what he did was really disgusting.

    When we used to eat in junior high school, we still used meal tickets, and each meal ticket was 120 yuan, which was about enough for two students to eat for half a month. I used to have a good relationship with that very picky classmate, once he said that he lost his meal ticket, let me use my meal ticket to buy food for him for half a month, and then his parents gave him money after he invited me to eat half a month's meal, I think everyone is a classmate, then promise him.

    In that half a month, he really didn't treat himself as an outsider, and he used my meal ticket to brush it hard, and it turned out that we should be able to eat for about fifteen days, but I didn't expect to eat the meal ticket of one hundred and twenty yuan in less than ten days, and then I asked him what to do next, because I almost didn't have money to eat in the next twenty days.

    But guess what he said to me, he said to me, "I'm sorry, I can't help it if my parents don't give me money, or you ask your parents for money, or we'll both go hungry." At that time, we were all children, and we didn't dare to ask my family for money at every turn, so I didn't promise him, and I begged my other classmates to let him provide me with food for more than half a month.

    As a result, within a few days, I saw him eating and drinking in the cafeteria, and then I asked him what was going on, how he suddenly had money to eat, and he said that this was the money he saved to buy a game console, and I was on fire, and I couldn't even eat and bought a game console, and then I asked him to invite me to dinner when he refused, and there was no reason to refuse at all!

    Oh my God, I was angry and found a few people to beat him, and the relationship with him also broke down, and after beating him, he didn't mention the matter of owing me a meal ticket, I really want to greet his ancestors for eighteen generations!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Having a very picky friend, I think you might feel very depressed. If you think about it, when you are with him, you may not get anything from him, and all you get from him may be just anger.

    Stinginess, as well as generosity, are all traits of a person's character. This may have been cultivated since childhood, he may be related to us, the family environment, if a person's family is relatively big and rich, he becomes a big person, it is more likely.

    But this is not absolute, we can find some very rich people, but he can also be very picky. It turns out that those who don't have much money may even have a problem with survival, and he can become very generous, but it mainly depends on a person's quality.

    None of us may meet a few friends who are more picky. When you go out to dinner with this friend, you don't have to expect him to treat you to a meal. Maybe when you hang out with him, even if he pays for an ice cream after buying it, he may settle accounts with you later.

    With such a person, sometimes you may feel very tired, and you may suddenly feel very unhappy. They may be able to settle accounts with you. Slowly, you may find it difficult to get close to this kind of person.

    Each of us longs to have some people who are more generous and will not be so calculating. With friends who are more picky, you will feel a little unnatural. Gradually, their behavior may cause disgust in our hearts, and after that, it will be difficult for us to make friends with such friends.

    But no matter what, we can't ask too much of others, this is his kind of personality is quite difficult to change.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, let's define the definition of slamming, which is not the same as saving. Saving is not spending money indiscriminately, buying things indiscriminately, and slamming the door will not spend money indiscriminately to buy things, but the necessary things can also be saved, and even a penny is not willing to spend. Therefore, frugality is advocated, but it is not advocated to pick the door.

    And then there's the fact that now family cars have become commonplace, and almost every family has their own car. What, you don't have it at home, well, at least there are electric cars. But what about my classmate's car, the bicycle that I started riding in high school, not to mention the quality of the bicycle is still good.

    But what age is this, and there should be an electric car. It's only two or three thousand yuan, which is enough for several years. Well, it's called savings.

    On the friend side, when I play with him, I occasionally buy something I don't need, occasionally buy some snacks or buy some brand clothes. But he never, never saw it, every time he went shopping without money, didn't buy anything, just looked. Every time I asked him to buy clothes, he would be refused.

    And he rarely goes out to eat together, a few of our friends occasionally get together to eat, and then go out to sing, but he rarely goes out, I have known him for about seven or eight years, and I have only eaten with him once or twice, or a fast food restaurant like Yellow Braised Chicken Tex, and I have not had a formal meal once. I sang with him once or twice, and he was only responsible for singing when someone else paid him. In addition, he has been working for a long time, but we are a small city, and we are also in a public unit, and the salary is relatively low, but despite this, he still saved his salary almost unchanged.

    In other words, he didn't spend much money since he started working. But unfortunately, his salary was too low, and although he didn't spend money, he didn't save much money.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I really have a very picky friend, and the experience of that kind of interaction is really not very happy, and I even wonder if we can still be friends?

    But whenever someone wants to treat her, she never falls, rain or shine, and nothing will delay her from being a guest. Finally, when everyone was making a fuss, she was embarrassed and decided to invite us all to dinner. Just when we were wondering which restaurant she would invite us to, she announced that we would go to her house to eat.

    Everyone feels a little embarrassed, it's really not an exaggeration, the amount of each dish is so small, if each person clips a chopstick, it will directly expose the bottom of the plate, so that everyone is embarrassed to eat every dish, you let me let me, she is still next to say come and come to everyone eat! You're welcome!

    Yes, we don't want to be polite, but what to eat? You can't nibble on a plate, can you? When I waited until everyone had finished eating at the end and was ready to eat two bites to make my stomach go, she made a move that broke me, she handed me a napkin and said, let's wipe my mouth!

    Ha ha! That's how I really had the experience of having a very picky friend!

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