Why do you like to do it and you can t do it yourself?

Some things are just that. But I only keep that part of my thoughts. It's wonderful.

Answer I think, you don't... Because it's not easy for two people to come together. You will feel sorry for her in the first place, and you decide to be with him, and that is actually proof that you have her in your heart. People are actually very strange, and feelings are elusive!

But you know what? Time is something even stranger, and he will change everything! If you think about it now, do you dare to say that you don't have her in your heart now?

Do you dare to say that you won't be in a hurry when something happens to him now? Do you dare to say that he is sad and sad now, and you won't care? If you don't dare - then you really like him.

Hehe, in fact, there are no two people in the world who are exactly the same, so there is no such thing as two people who are completely "suitable". You have to understand that many golden wedding elders have a lot of personality differences, and even some are out of place. There will be a lot of big and small quarrels in their lives, and in the end, aren't they also hand in hand for life?

You too. Seriously, chances are, she's the other half of your life. Don't give up easily.

Give yourself a chance, give you a chance! This is just the beginning, there is still a longer way to go, and maybe in a later event, you will get the real answer. — Love.

Not loved. Got it? I hope you don't give up, really, it is not easy to have someone who really likes you or you really like in this world.

I'll post the answer in your space! Don't bother, just then I can communicate with you authentically!

Sometimes there are some things that you don't do if you want to do and don't do if you don't want to do them There are a lot of things in this world that are often involuntary You can think of a bad thing as a good thing For example, today you were walking and you were accidentally knocked over by a stone You shouldn't think that today you were very unlucky You should be glad for yourself, fortunately I didn't fall Don't worry too much about being a person and doing things.

Because of some special reasons, two people who love each other very much can't be together, this seems to only exist in the distant past, I think as long as you love each other, love each other very much, even if there is a big obstacle, there is no way to stop you from being together. Unless it's love that's not deep enough...Regardless of whose reason, the problem lies in your own, there are too many such things, in fact, you don't have to be sad, you have to believe in fate, since you love each other, you can't be together, maybe it's your fate, you can't be together, but you still have a relationship, and a good memory, don't you, you think, memories are also a kind of happiness.

Because that's life.

You can't tell if you like it or not.

But not everything.

The autonomy is still in their own hands.

Some things can still be decided according to your own preferences.

You must be feeling depressed right now.

Because you don't want to do it.

But you have to do it.

So you relax your mind.

You can't change anything if you're sad.

Try to do what you can.

Don't let yourself get bogged down in trouble.

I understand the situation you're in.

But I can't help much.

I just hope it can help you feel at ease.

Hope you get things done as soon as possible.

Then let it be a thing of the past.

No matter how sad things are, it will pass.

You don't have to just think about it.

Hope you are in a good mood!

Have fun! There are two things to do in life, one is to do what must be done, and the other is to do what you don't have to do.

Nothing is a must! Think more for yourself! Don't do something you don't want to do because of others! If you think you have to do it. And why convince yourself with reason!

Cantonese people like to settle small accounts, which is quite grinding and difficult.

There is a huge contradiction between the inculcation and incentive methods of insurance companies and the demand for insurance from the general public, which leads to people's misunderstanding of insurance and makes the business environment extremely worse.

First of all, you have to know that coexistence and relativeness exist.

Good people also need the presence of bad people to manifest themselves.

There are some things that are very abstract and not expressible.

I suddenly realized that there are very few things that people like but are good for themselves, and it seems that you can only succeed by doing things that you don't want to do"

It's not like that, it's because people are born with feelings.

It's like if you're lucky and you get 5 million, you want to lose 5 million every day, and if you're unlucky, you lose 5 million and you don't want to show up, and that's normal, and it's because human beings don't want to accept it, so they reject it, and they have the wrong idea.

Metaphor 1: If you go home today and nothing happens, then you don't feel anything about it all the way home today, at least he doesn't do you any bad things, so you don't think about it, you just forget about it.

Another day, you come home and you're robbed, and you think about him, and that's the illusion you have!

In fact, it's really hard to express it in words, at least my writing is not good, how can I say this! It's a human thought and feeling!

You are running away, you have to overcome the weakness of your heart.

Arguably. Not what I want.

But it is still difficult to be strong.

Do what you don't like to do.

It's also a very painful thing.

Sales wages are calculated based on the base salary plus commission.

The more you sell, the higher your income.

But it wasn't easy to do it at first.

And wages are less stable.

So a lot of people are reluctant to do sales.

Because he doesn't know that you don't like to do it, or he wants to make you uncomfortable, or he doesn't care about your feelings at all, or you should think about whether you are true friends or not. Do what you love, life is meaningful, why care about what others think? Go your own way and let others say go.

There are some things that we really can't decide for ourselves. We always have to be heavy, and the older we get, the heavier the burden will be. The important thing is that when we come to it, we enjoy it. Of course, you still have a lot of opportunities to do what you love, and the two are not contradictory.

Many trainers tell us: do what you do best, and you can succeed quickly! And said: Don't teach pigs to sing, teach fish to fly!

But I want to say: Who is the fish and who is the pig? All are people! It's just that the environment is different, and I have developed different habits and different personalities!

No one likes to do something they don't like to do! And no one does what they don't like to do and succeed!

So if you want to succeed quickly, you must do what you love, and if it is your own specialty, it would be great! If you don't have much life experience and therefore don't have your own expertise! Then choose what you love to do and try to do your best, which will eventually become your specialty, and you will be successful as a result!

A person is not successful because of his expertise; but because he loves; And love!

Such as: Jordan; Beethoven; Helen. Keller; XIE Kunshan; , Demosthenes.

Love will focus on not giving up, will persevere to find the advantages! Love is the cornerstone of success!

We don't have that kind of courage, because the mental activity is always inconsistent with reality, and we sometimes can't help ourselves, so we have to have the courage to do something, and we have to persevere, you know.

There is a lot of helplessness, and it is common when I can't help myself!

If you care too much about other people's opinions, most people will care, so sometimes people can't do what they like to do!

Interest can not only make people feel happy at work and reduce fatigue, but also a booster for career success. There is no greater joy in life than to achieve achievements at work, and the greatest joy is to achieve achievements in the work you love. When a person gives for something that interests him and is desperate for anything, he has a better chance of success.

I've never heard of a person doing anything earth-shattering in a field they don't like. As Wald Disney said, "It's hard to achieve anything unless you do what you love, and it's even harder to be happy."

Doing what you like can make people forget their sorrow and fatigue and get a peaceful and fulfilling sense of happiness; Doing what you love is a shortcut to success and a pressure relief valve for fatigue.

In fact, no matter what you do, you should start with what I want. Because our motivation comes from within. If it's something you want to do, you'll be very happy, and you won't be tired of working overtime at night.

Writer Yang Daxia pointed out that only by stimulating volunteerism can we succeed.

But if it's something you don't want to do, you must have no motivation and no advantage.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Happiness is a feeling, it does not depend on people's living conditions, but on people's state of mind, the characteristic of happiness is the peace of mind, the so-called contented people are always happy.

Happiness is the feeling that people's desires feel when they are satisfied or partially satisfied, and it is a spiritual pleasure. The happiness that people get is temporary, just like misfortune, and with the passage of time, the sense of happiness and unhappiness will gradually fade, so if we want to continue to have happiness and live a happy life, we must continue to satisfy more desires. After people get a happiness, then people's desire for the same or the same type of happiness will decrease, when people get this or this kind of happiness again, the happiness will gradually decrease, and when they reach enough n times, the desire will become zero, and the happiness will become zero.

When you fulfill a wish, achieve a goal, love someone, be loved, be in a momentary mood, be happy, and so on, all belong to happiness. Happiness has no distance, no standard, happiness is a feeling. When you're satisfied, you're happy.

Contentment keeps happiness fresh (attachment).

In fact, happiness is a kind of happiness, happiness is a state of mind, happiness is a kind of vision, happiness is a feeling, happiness is a wisp of floral fragrance, when the flower blooms in the depths of the soul, as long as the breeze blows gently, it can exude a leisurely, intoxicating fragrance.

As long as we live a true life and treat others with a tolerant heart, happiness will always exist and will continue for our lives.

It should be a person who has lacked love or attention since childhood, you want to get the attention of others in your heart or subconsciously, no matter what means you use, as long as you can make others pay attention to you to the greatest extent, you will feel at ease. Often, it's easier to get attention by using methods that are easy to dislike others, because for example, if you're cute, but another colleague is also cute, it's hard for you to get the attention of your boss. And if the cute one is touching the puppy and another cute colleague is not touching the puppy, then you will be able to get the attention of your friends who hate puppies.

But you need to be aware that you are just getting attention, and that attention does not necessarily turn into love.

I'm afraid that your problem is difficult to change, it should be caused by the relationship between you and your parents when you were a child, for example, when you were a baby, how much did you cry and your mother didn't come to hug you, but your mother came over when you threw things, this situation will easily lead to your current personality. Now that you have discovered your own problems and you want to be able to get the attention of others for a long time, you should not do it often, because the attention you get is estimated to be short-lived, so you should think more about others and take care of their feelings, so that others will also take care of your feelings.