How I forgot you, how I forgot you

I believe that every friend of mine has the experience of loving others and being loved, loving someone will not be painful, but loving someone who does not love themselves will only be painful, just ask, who will pay infinitely for a love that will never be reciprocated? You can wait for 5 years, 10 years, but can you wait for a lifetime?

When the person you love doesn't love you, why do you bother to pursue it? Your road is still so long, you will eventually meet a true destiny that belongs to you, don't put yourself in distress and feel pain. That's not necessary, because no matter how painful you are, the only ones who worry about you are your family, your friends, and the people who love you.

Only these people will truly care about you. Love is not charity, and how dangerous and cheap it is to exchange the mercy of others for love. ~!

We sometimes need this kind of spirit, even if we deceive ourselves, but we can also make our own pain less. And who can guarantee that liking someone will not be self-deception?

In fact, loving someone can be without so much pain, as long as you don't expect anything in return, you can love with confidence. It's really hard to be unconcerned about a person, unless you are a heartless person, care about him, bless him, listen to him talk about his heart, help him share his pain, share his happiness, don't ask for too much, and leave the rest to fate. No matter what, you have to have this grateful heart, so that you will be happy, happy, even if that person still doesn't love you, but at least they will treat you as a friend, a confidant.

There will also be a place left for you in your heart, and you will slowly adjust your mentality in the process of getting along, maybe one day you will suddenly find that you don't like him anymore, so wouldn't it be nice to have more friends?

Since it's already her people, you can bless them.

You can try to reach out to other people, find other meanings for your existence, turn back and still have no results, just wait for the opportunity to come again.

You learn to look slowly, because there is no better to make you like this, believe that there is a better one ahead, so don't give up.

Studying, learning is the best way, you spend all your time studying, how can you miss her?

It is indeed impossible to completely forget a person, there is no so-called forgetting medicine in the world, only through certain methods and means, it is possible to gradually dilute the existence of that person in your heart.

In the process of forgetting, it is natural to feel pain, but this pain will gradually become smaller with the passage of time. If you want to forget a person, you often have a feeling of disappointment or resistance to him, and since you have begun to deny this person in your heart, it will naturally not be too difficult to forget him. The most important thing to forget a person is to downplay his existence, when you are no longer paying attention to him, it proves that you have begun to let go and gradually forget about him.

In fact, most of the time, it is impossible to forget that a person is because they have spent too much time together, have seen each other too many times, and they happen to have free time. These times are the best time to think about him, and at this time, you need to keep yourself busy, and after a long time, you will gradually ignore him.

Keep yourself busy, not only will you focus on another thing, but you can also divert your attention appropriately, especially those things that are more detailed and have to be done, which will make your brain quickly forget about some people and things and focus on the thing at hand.

Ways to relieve unwanted feelings

1. Psychological**: If the depressed mood is caused by depression, anxiety and other diseases, it is recommended that the patient carry out it through relaxation**, Morita**, cognition** and other methods**.

2. Divert attention: Patients can divert their attention by doing things they like, such as drawing, singing, chatting, etc.

3. Dietary conditioning: Eating sweets appropriately can alleviate low mood, such as chocolate, cake, ice cream, etc., which helps patients adjust to a normal state as soon as possible.

Time is the best medicine, with the push of time, everything is no longer as unforgettable as the beginning, adjust the mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce to pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in Li Hao's journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the Yeli Road under your feet, the scenery ahead is even more charming. The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it.

Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

I want to tell you a lot, maybe you can't forget the person who hurt you for a while, but do you understand? Memories are always good, because whether the process of reminiscing is a painful journey or a happy time; That's all a kind of experience, life is walking slowly, and people are growing up under heavy experiences. Do you know why people always praise the moon and don't care much about the sun that shines on us every day?

Because the sun is always shining, incomparable, and the moon is round and missing, if it has the same invincible brilliance as the red sun, then people will not pay attention to the goddess who has no change and twists and turns, only the cloudy and sunny round and missing, is the real bright moon, life and love are the same, only the life full of frustrations will become gorgeous, only have a frustrated love, in the future life career and marriage have a lesson from the past, Maybe that broken love is also a past worth thinking about and recalling, the butterfly does not fly high, but her gentleness and beauty are beyond the reach of the eagle who spreads her wings, so she can attract everyone's attention, love is the same, not every bit of affection must have a beginning and an end, miss, maybe it is an unprecedented beauty, regret is also a kind of beauty, it can make your future become full of pride, so that you will never give up your beautiful life.

This life is empty and sad, and the next life will continue to be unfinished. Maybe a lot of times sadness is always inevitable, every time in the dead of night you will always have an unprecedented thought, disturbing your empty heart, when love has come to an end, if you do no more useless retention, then you will fall into the abyss for a relationship that is not worth following you... When love is closer, what you should do is to firmly grasp the happiness in front of you, because there is only one life, happiness is a lifetime, and depression is also a lifetime, what is the period of life?

It's worth it for the end, and this life is not in vain!

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

1.Find someone who loves you more than him, or find someone you love more, only happiness can heal the wounds.

2.We can't always stay in the past, we should live in the world of the future, can we?

Gains and losses in life are the most common things, as long as you can really think about it, then you can solve this matter, because there is no point in always living in memory. Only by seeing far and thinking more can people take every step in life. In the long river of life, you still have to face a lot of things, can't you get through such a small difficulty?

I don't believe it. So use your magnanimity to resolve this very small problem!

3.Believe in yourself and you can do it.

Many things are always understood after experience, just like feelings. After the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted.

Learn to give up, and life will be easier.

Learn to give up, turn around before crying, and study abroad with a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the most beautiful memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable; Learn to give up, let all the troubles go away with the wind, and create every beautiful tomorrow.

Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is also intoxicating. The regret that we can't have makes us more restricted; Sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night make us feel more nostalgic. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling.

Perhaps a touch of sadness will make this answer more timeless and long-lasting.

Pack up your mood and keep walking, miss the flowers, you will reap the rain, miss the beauty, you will reap the happiness; Keep walking, and you will reap your own happiness in giving up.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by along the way, every relationship and every experience is a mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.