After I got sick, my boyfriend left me

God is very unfair to you, seeing so many years of affection.

But to be honest, you should let go, if you have a short life and can't have a child with one of these two instead of two, I believe that the other person will not do this to you, after all, he did not leave you immediately after you became seriously ill but two years later. Think about it, you have a short life and can't have children, and when you leave, it is estimated that it will not reach 50, then how can he live his life after that, more than half a hundred, his wife is gone, and there is not even a child around him, how lonely he is, I believe that the feeling will be more sad than you are now (more sad than you lose him). To be honest, you're a little selfish in this matter.

Now in this situation, you can try to be like what he said, he still takes care of you, he will definitely not be willing to give you up after so many years, and he is not like a selfish person, lovers can't do it, you have been relatives for so many years, or you find a man with children to live.

Finally, I wish you happiness in the remaining 20 years, and I still encourage you to give up on him and find someone with children, which will be good for you and him.

Then you can re-plan the rest of the time now, there is less time, maybe it will be easier to plan, and it is easier to achieve, live happily, in fact, live happily, you still have the right to find your own happiness, like other people, he has the right to choose his own life, choose a life without you, but people like him who don't pay attention to feelings, may not be able to live happier than you, the reason why people are human beings is nothing more than more emotions, what you lose is a person who doesn't love you, And what he lost was someone who loved him, and he lost more in comparison.

Wishing you happiness!

Who can live without anyone, he has no obligation and responsibility to take care of you for a lifetime, in fact, you should bless him, you should know that you have a lot of things that can not satisfy each other, without your own children may go to him early, etc., since he chooses to leave you, then break up, you should have a better situation, the person who really loves you is waiting for you to appear at the next corner, so cheer up!

Forget it, let's break up, drag on like this, the relationship is not dragged out but dragged into an enemy... It's only good to get together and disperse, don't wait for the feelings to be completely worn out before parting, then it's not interesting, right. Taking a step back, you don't have to be with him to be happy, since you are not in good health, treat yourself well, and you are not good to yourself, who will be good to you.

Find someone who cherishes you, there are many poor people in this world, be strong and brave, you can think about his position, he is a very realistic person, you will be relaxed like that. I hope you have a happy day now.

If you love him, let him go, don't want him, it's normal to get married and have children, isn't it?

Even if it is because of him, the woman is unable to have children, and it is normal for him to leave. What's more, he shouldn't be responsible for all this.

It can only be said that he is selfish, but when this kind of thing happens, there are a few great people. Right.

You'd better let it go! Although their own days are not long! But there's so much more to cherish! There's a lot more you need to do!

Let's get together and disperse! It's no big deal, such people are not worth cherishing!

Your man is just an ordinary person, and you can't ask him to do something that a good person would do. He couldn't do it. Not good enough.

Equally. You are an extraordinary person, and you should be more tolerant and considerate of others than ordinary people.

Remember"Past lives"After she got sick, she secretly left!

I didn't find it either!

Husband and wife are originally birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes, don't you understand this truth?

A man can leave you when you are sick, proving that he does not love you. In his mind, whether you are healthy or not is far less important than himself. So you better leave him as soon as possible, girl, keep your eyes open, and don't look for a boyfriend in the garbage.

This kind of man is a scumbag, and being with him will only make you have endless grievances. If a person leaves you when you need it most, then you must learn to give up on him. With him, you will never be happy, and you will even become a resentful woman.

There is no need for such a man to be together, often such a relationship Even if you forgive him this time, then there will be a next time, because for me, I have my own set of life creed, that is, I think there is a first time or a second time for such a thing, so often these things are only zero times and countless times, as long as such a thing happens, even if you forgive him, but it is inevitable that there will be mustard and estrangement in my heart, Therefore, everyone should understand the truth of being unfaithful a hundred times.

There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love.

If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied. When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness?

Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love can be happy.

I don't think he really loved you, if he really loved you, he wouldn't choose to leave you when you were sick, this kind of person is really very scum.

I don't think he really loved you, because if he really loved you, he wouldn't have left you.

I feel like your boyfriend really loved you. Although he left you because of illness, he must have been together because of love when he was in love, so he really loved you.

He doesn't really love you. Someone who really loves you won't leave you when you're sick. Anyone who has a little affection for you will not leave when you are sick, which is too cruel.

Some people say that couples should share joys and sorrows, no matter what they face, they must move forward hand in hand, and your boyfriend learns that the other party is sick and leaves you, which means that he does not love you deeply enough, so there is no need for this relationship to continue. The boyfriend's answer is very clear, he doesn't want to spend the rest of his life with you, so you don't need to be nostalgic for such a boy, and it can be seen from the side that your boyfriend has no sense of responsibility.

<> may have faced many very real problems, no matter what the reason, it is a fact that he abandoned you, maybe illness makes you understand a lot, a good relationship should be to protect each other, no matter how difficult it is, they will not let go of their hands, this is love, love can be beyond everything, and it can also make him desperate to be with you.

If there is no disease, you may not be able to live forever, a boy with no sense of responsibility is often very selfish, he always cares about personal interests, he will not see you as particularly important. It is very important for you to stop your losses in time, and if you step into a marriage in the future, it will cause more problems, and it will become more difficult to choose to leave each other at that time. Illness is very unlucky for you, but it also allows you to see a person clearly, in fact, you already have the answer in your heart, but there is still some hesitation, in your opinion your relationship is very weak, maybe you still have some nostalgia for the past, forget these nostalgia, but also forget each other.

After experiencing an ordeal, you have more awareness of love, love should accompany each other, take care of each other, whether it is windy or rainy, the other party is willing to guard by your side, because for him, you are all he has, this is the enviable beautiful love. When your boyfriend learns that you are sick and has left you, he feels that you are a burden to him at the moment, which may drag him down and bring him a lot of trouble, so he is ruthlessly abandoned and unwilling to bear these troubles, such a boyfriend is obviously very selfish.

My boyfriend left me when I was sick, this kind of boy knows at a glance that he has not really liked it, if the person who really likes you will not choose to leave when you need someone to accompany you the most, which can only mean that he sees you as a burden when he is sick and wants to get rid of it as soon as possible.

In fact, he may love you, but now his feelings for you may have changed, and he feels that there is no future with you.

He abandons you means he doesn't love you anymore, he abandons you when you are seriously ill shows that he is very ruthless, since he doesn't love you you you break up in style, just think that he is not worthy of you to grieve for him. The main thing is not to get worse because of excessive sadness! It's okay if such a person is divided.

Dear, I hope you're doing well now. Sick boyfriend is not leaving, no one is right or wrong. People are selfish, and it is no wonder that he is afraid of an uncertain future and walks away.

And you're even more wrong when you're sick. I don't know how to comfort you, dear, be strong. Although I feel very uncomfortable, but the world is sometimes so helpless and bad, but maybe this is also the so-called fate, he missed you, and the real person who will never abandon you regardless of your life, old age, sickness or death is waiting for you at some point in the near future.

My dear, as long as you get better and stronger, then everything can become very beautiful, better than before, at this time you need to cheer up, take care of your body, come on, dear, I wish you health and happiness.

I understand you very well, I am also a girl who was abandoned by her boyfriend after she got sick, let go of everything, we all have to learn to be strong.

Change to a new environment to start life again, don't keep dwelling on the past, or look forward and embrace a new life and a new self.

You should think that if he is still alive, then he must hope that you will live well, if you can't get out, then if he knows, he will not be happy, and he will definitely blame himself, he has no chance to take care of you, then he must hope that a better person will appear to take care of you.

I think the most important thing you should do is to adjust your mentality and bury this relationship deep in your heart as a memory, only in this way can you get out of the pain faster.

You can do more things and travel with friends to help divert your attention. Time is the best tool for healing, and it will get better slowly over time.

Of course, such people should not continue to be in a relationship, they may have ulterior motives when they first dated you.

It's definitely not worth continuing to date, because such a boyfriend can only share joys and sorrows, and he will leave him in the future.

Of course it's not worth it, because you can only see the truth in the midst of suffering, and your boyfriend obviously doesn't love you by doing this.

It's not worth continuing to socialize, there is no need for such a person to be credible, and it's good for both parties to leave as soon as possible.

It's not worth it, two people don't ask for anything else together, at least they have to share weal and woe, he doesn't care about you, there is no point in you continuing to date, he will leave you because of other things in the future.

I don't think this situation is worth continuing to date, and you said that he has left you, so don't think about how to get him back, this kind of man is not worth it.

There was no need to date anymore, my boyfriend left me after I got sick and let me see his face clearly. I think it's okay to at least leave him and find someone who really cares about me.

It's not worth it. True love is to pay attention to never give up, no matter whether you are rich or poor, whether you are born or old, sick or dead, if you fall in love with someone, you should accompany him for a long time.

I don't think there is any need for this kind of man to continue dating, the relationship should be close to each other, and if one party has something to do with the other party, the other party will leave, and this kind of relationship is not strong.

Don't continue to date, since he can't accept that you are sick, it is better to separate, you will meet better guys.

Such a boyfriend is not worth dating, and he will definitely think about his own interests first when he encounters things in the future, and he is a relatively irresponsible person.

It's not worth it. He left you so easily, proving that he doesn't really love you, and you don't need to be with him anymore.

It's not worth it, because in his heart he may not have your place yet, and he is not ready to accompany you to the moment of death.

It's not worth dating, when you are sick and need him the most, but he leaves you, it shows that he is very irresponsible and unreliable.

It's not worth continuing to dating, and your boyfriend left you at your most difficult time, which means that he doesn't really have feelings for you, and he doesn't really love you.

Of course it's not worth it, when you need to be taken care of the most, he leaves you, which means that he doesn't love you at all.