If there are no girls in college who like me, does that mean that I am not good enough?

No, there are many opportunities to express yourself in college.

Maybe you didn't catch it

If you don't show yourself more, how can you be discovered by others?

Do you want to conquer girls with your face?

No, it's that you haven't found out yet--- it may also have something to do with the fact that you haven't shown your strength in public.

Definitely not, probably because you are not active enough.

Do you think so?

I have a female classmate in college who is very good, and no one chased her in college for four years, (usually in college, girls are chased,)

But after work, I have a wishful boyfriend.

In college, most people choose a mate to see whether they are handsome or not, whether they are particular about what they wear, whether they have money at home, whether they are wasteful, and when they come to society, the criteria for choosing a mate with the growth of age and experience are different, it will depend on whether you are good or not, whether you will live and so on.

Have faith in yourself!

It's not that everything isn't good, it's that you're not magnetic enough in some way.

You didn't notice it.

That's how I thought about myself.

As a result, on the eve of graduation, at the dinner table where I drank every day, I was ridiculed by a classmate, saying that I was an elm head, and I was unaware of the expressions of some girls. Say I'm not kind. I'm sweating...

Don't expect girls to take the initiative Girls always want to be chased.

There are 40 boys and 4 girls in our class, and you can teach me how to make the girls like me.

Many people say that they are single because their vision is too high. Of course, there are such reasons, but not comprehensively. The reasons for being single are very complex and cannot be simply reduced to one cause.

1.There are wounds and loopholes in the heart, and the lack is not healed.

2.Not able to handle intimate relationships well, not knowing how to deal with them.

3.I don't have a good relationship with myself.

Trauma and absence, most of which come from the original family, and the bad experience of the last relationship. Frustration makes people unable to extricate themselves, and the human heart is often not mental health, but more of a process of self-appreciation and self-recognition recovery.

Some people may be three to five months, someone will soon be able to move on to the next relationship, and some may take years. There are very few people who need a lifetime to let go, and this is the popular antidote to time.

A large number of people who are unable to deal with intimate relationships are resistant to dealing with complex emotions and have an avoidant attachment personality. It may be more about not being able to accept oneself and expecting to find a sense of security from the other person and make up for the shortcomings. In this way, the relationship between the two parties will be very burdensome, and it is easy for the eggplant to go short.

A bad relationship with oneself often affects various relationships, family affection, love friendship, and social interpersonal relationships. Often such people will self-deprecat, unable to calm their hearts in the voice of the unexpected world. Either they seek attention by giving a lot of money, or they close themselves off for fear of being hurt a little.

In all relationships, if you can't face yourself, you can't feel happy, you get tired easily, you lose confidence in everything, you need to break the deadlock, break the existing thinking pattern, improve your life, adjust your time, and do something to regain your confidence.

This one requires courage to face and accept change. In the end, it's your own mutation that matters.

I hope that we are also responsible for ourselves when we are single, and two people are also responsible for both parties, happiness is very important, and we are also the center of the universe.

Because you are too good, the better you are, the higher you will be in the eyes of others, so the auspicious argument is not that no one likes you, but that your excellence does not dare to let others show that they like you on the surface, and they lack confidence in the matter of "liking you". They can only like you silently, so that you can't notice that they like you. Wait for someone better than you to appear!

Ay! This damn side number is excellent!

That's what you think, let the girls think you're good.

This person is not ugly or not, but whether you are attractive or not. Especially attractive to girls.

Why? You shouldn't wait for girls to like you, but take the initiative.

Hehe, I'm depressed too! Dude, let's both die together.

Either you're too honest, or you're not humorous enough, or you're too obscene or something, annoying. That's it, figure it out for yourself.

Haha, that's an interesting question. This is a bias in self-perception. This bias can come from many sources, and different backgrounds will have different biases.

To give you a simple example: social feedback. I didn't have many setbacks growing up, and it was always going well.

Everybody was nice to me. I think I'm an easy and popular person because everybody treats me like that. I went on a date with you today, and you didn't show any disgust, so I assumed that you, like everyone else, had an initial crush on me.

Haha, everything happens subconsciously!

There is nothing unfair about it. It's all about the different pursuits of each girl. Some girls like to pursue glory and wealth, and only have money in their eyes. But some girls like to be sincere and self-motivated, rich or poor. And I think the latter is more discerning.

I'm a girl, and to be honest, everyone sees things differently, and a lot of times my friends around me have boyfriends who are also unsightly to the rest of us. Appearance is also important or not, because people who don't know you must judge you by your appearance at first glance, and the laws of society cannot be changed. Think about it, will you reject a girl who is not good-looking at the bottom of your heart at first sight?。。。

Actually, you don't have to rush. It's all yours. If you have what you like, chase it, don't give up, you can meet a few people who look pleasing to the eye in life...

Finally, I wish you a very fast end to your singleness

Are you satisfied with the above?