How much does divorce hurt the children

Agree with the view of the sixth floor. Don't divorce easily unless you have to; If a marriage that is reluctantly together for the sake of the child should be more harmful to the child. View the original post

Compared to other children, he or she is imperfect, boys may give up on themselves, and girls may be afraid of marriage. View the original post

It's not so scary to say, depending on how adults educate them, if you don't get divorced, it won't have an impact on the psychology of your children? View the original post

Bill. Gates came out of a divorced family, but it's a pity that there are not a few such people View the original post

Because of the contradictions between husband and wife. leads to the dissolution of marriage, and children become the biggest victims. Young children grow up insecure. As a result, children have low self-esteem, withdrawn personalities, few words, introverts, rebellious, and unsociable interpersonal relationships!

How much damage does divorce do to children, I don't know if you still remember this year's TV series "The Hidden Corner", in which there is a genius boy Zhu Chaoyang, Zhu Chaoyang has gone from a teenager with excellent character and learning to a murderer, which can be said to have a very big relationship with his original family.

Alas, it is difficult to say that the guardian of the child plays an important role in the divorce. When you get divorced, it depends on how old the child is, and if the child is sensible, it will be very troublesome, and it may hurt a lot.

A bunch of people who don't leave for the sake of the child, and a bunch of people who wait for the child to grow up and then consider leaving.

What did the child do wrong???

My first-hand experience.

Divorce should be sooner rather than later, sooner rather than later.

The child is young, he doesn't know how uncomfortable you are divorced, and when the child is sensible, your divorce is a stab in the heart for the child, not to mention that many mothers will use this matter to kidnap the child's life.

I've lived with your dad for you until now, why are you not sensible at all???

No, have you consulted your child on this???

Maybe the child wants you to leave.

I'm in my twenties now, and what my mom talks about all day long ago is, I don't have love with your dad, I want to divorce your dad, if it weren't for you, we would have divorced a long time ago.

So how should I react, I want to hold my mother's hand and say with great emotion, Mom, you have worked hard for so many years, and now that I am older, you let go and pursue love......

All children are virgins.

If you really want to leave, don't endure it for the sake of your children, do you know how much it hurts for a sensible child to divorce your parents?

There are girls around me who cut their wrists and drink medicine for this.

Without exception, it is not that the parents divorce after being sensible, and most of the children who are single parents since they are sensible will only feel uncomfortable for their lack of father's love or mother's love, but they will not have that feeling that the sky is falling.

You have a million and you lose it, and you envy others with a million, can the pain be the same?

Also, I can't stand the argument that I gave birth to a child for you, how did the child become born for someone else? Why do you use your own uterus, you don't know what to do?

I hate men who see girls as tools for fertility, and I hate women who see themselves as tools for fertility.

If you are a mother, you are strong. It's not for you to compromise for perfection, it's for you to puff up your chest.

Be a mother, don't be like a resentful woman, can you be strong?

Don't leave your own life to someone else's decision?

If you can endure it, you will be a virtuous and virtuous daughter-in-law, and I also respect you as a tough woman; Don't be cowardly at first, but then you can't bear it anymore and throw the pot, and you have to package yourself as a wronged sister-in-law Xianglin.

A child has a child's life, and you give birth to him to complete your own life, to look at your own life separately, and to be good for each other.

—Dividing line. emmmmmm

Moreover, I didn't say that divorce is the best, long live hungry divorce, right?

I said it, if you can't bear it, you don't have to accommodate it for the sake of the child, if you can endure it, of course there are no such problems as I said......

What I'm saying is that you have the final say on whether to divorce or not, you are responsible, don't graft this choice onto others, no one can kidnap you, only you can.

served. Are reading comprehension all negatives?

Whether it's big or small, it mainly depends on whether your marital relationship is constantly quarreling or warm and harmonious.

Emotional repair is always an ability that can be learned, and excessive behaviors such as begging and crying, threatening, etc., will only make your conflicts deeper and deeper. Push him farther and farther away. Therefore, in the matter of emotional recovery and repair, I believe that I still have a certain right to speak as a marriage and love expert mentor with many years of practical experience.

If a man says to you, "I am dead to you."

You say, "Can you give our feelings another chance?"

The other party said, I'm tired, I don't love you anymore, you can't change, you just let me go. even said, if you pester me again, I will block you.

At this point, what should you do?

There are two voices within you.

A voice said:

He doesn't love it anymore, there is no grass at the end of the world, why do you have to hang yourself on this crooked neck tree? Let it go and become a Buddha.

Another voice said:

No, I still love him, without him, I will have sleepless all night, every minute I will have all the good pictures of our past in my mind, I am such a self-respecting person, I have bowed my head so many times for him, isn't it because he is very important to me? If I miss him, I will regret it for the rest of my life.

When the first voice prevails, you are cold and independent and confident in him. When the second voice prevails, you suddenly try desperately to contact him.

Divorce is your right to Wangchali, but indirectly hurting children, I think as a parent is a lifelong sin!

1. There is a lack of maternal love in the child's growth, (for example: when he grows up to 5 years old, watching other mothers take their children to supermarkets, shopping, playgrounds, etc., what does the little guy think in his young heart?) Do you know Xun Lingchun?

Do you know what your child thinks when other mothers are shushing and asking for warmth? Do you know what your child is thinking when it comes to parental companionship? ......

2. Say the most heart-piercing little thing: When your child's face is dirty, his hands are dirty, his clothes are dirty, and he is dirty every day, and other children are clean, doesn't your heart hurt?

3. To be honest, I wrote this with red circles under my eyes (my child is now with her grandma and grandpa, and I feel sorry for her every week when I go to see her).

4. Suggestion: No matter how much you are wronged, don't hurt your child and cause her growth defects! To the greatest extent, to ensure that you give the child enough maternal love, if you can't give him (her) basic happiness, why do you give birth to him (her), you have to be responsible!!

5. Finally, I hope to consider from the child's point of view, maybe I am talking nonsense, but I sincerely hope that you can give him (her) a complete family, so that her (his) life is happy! Remember.

Personally, I think it's quite big, because he doesn't feel father's love or mother's love, and there is a gap between him and other children.