After graduating from junior high school, the troubles followed, and the troubles of going to junior

I think you're just "ordinary" and not "mediocre" Don't be presumptuous, if you don't even have confidence in yourself, how can you let others accept you?

As for the fact that people don't make friends with you, is it possible that you feel that you are too ordinary, or even a little inferior, so you close your heart, so that others can't make friends with you?

If you are in high school, then it is a new beginning, so give yourself a chance to know yourself anew and start a new life!

After reading your information, I know that you are a boy Actually, it's quite easy for a boy to make friends with a guy As long as you let go, open your heart, don't have too many scruples, it's easy to make friends. Most boys are broad-minded, so you don't need to be cautious when you are dating, as long as you go with the flow, be honest and sincere Even if sports are not good, you can also take football and basketball as a hobby Playing with everyone is conducive to enhancing the relationship Hehe Although I am a girl, I used to play basketball and football with boys, and I found that they actually just need to have fun, even if anyone doesn't play well, they won't laugh at most if they joke a few words

In fact, the first or last place in the score has little to do with popularity, the key lies in your own mentality I don't know if you have heard the story of "suspicious neighbors stealing axes" (um......I won't tell you the specific story, there should be in the encyclopedia).

Also, since high school is a new beginning, learning is also a new starting point, so why don't you work hard and study hard? I don't think it's obvious who is smart and who is clumsy, it's just that some people put their heart and some people don't, and if you really put your heart into it, there's nothing you can't do well, and of course, the process can be a little bit hard.

I think junior high school students can only be considered mediocre, but you can always find something that you are better at than others. Be confident!

I think most people's junior high school life can be described as mediocre. In the age group of junior high school, everyone's thinking is still immature, the ability is limited, and the circle of life and communication is small, if you want to be brilliant, it is nothing more than excellent grades in school, favored by teachers, and relied on by classmates, but how many such students are there. My experience tells me that many people will suddenly change after entering high school life, and everyone's evaluation of classmates is not limited to academic performance, and there will definitely be classmates similar to you in the class who are good friends with you.

So, have hope for the future, the future has a lot of unknowns, and it's also beautiful, hehe, but you will only know if you have walked through it yourself.

Why don't you think about how you can find a way out of a path that is not the same as others?

I'm a senior sister who just graduated from high school, and judging from your troubles, with such thoughts, life may be difficult after entering high school. It can be said that my junior high school days were the same as yours, and I didn't have any goals, but because I followed the rules on weekdays, I finally got a good score in the high school entrance examination and a middle-class high school. Entering high school, especially the third year of high school, everything is very realistic.

But, no matter what, you have to enter high school with a "will adapt" mentality, it's not about what others do, you have to be like that, just like in high school, most people will indulge in love, you can do without. I think you should give yourself a lot of confidence, confidence in your studies, confidence in making friends. Another point is to believe in the wise saying "follow the old man to eat meat", and communicate more with senior brothers and sisters or teachers, which will help you grow in high school.

I'll be your friend, because I've been like this before.

I've just graduated from college and found a job.,It turns out that when I was in junior high school, I may not be as good as you.,I'm always too lazy to go to school one day.,But you have to know that learning for cultural classes is a life that you have to do in order not to be eliminated by this society in the future.。。 You're going to be very calm, don't compare yourself to others, that's boring, kid.

Are you a boy... I've had the same experience as you, but I'm a woman. I hope what I said helped you a little.

I'm in my third year of junior high school now, but I felt a lot like you when I was in my first year of junior high school. A girl in my class was my best friend in elementary school, and we were only able to get together in junior high school after dotting. At that time, I was very happy, and I would never be lonely when I had someone I knew by my side.

But because I grew up thinking differently and made different types of friends, I gradually became very estranged. At that time, I was a bit jealous and angry. But now that I think about it, it's normal, after all, elementary school and junior high school are different, and you'll understand these later.

There will definitely be different groups in the class, not all of them are like-minded, don't worry that you can't fit in, as long as you treat people sincerely, someone will definitely appreciate you. I used to have this misconception that no one likes to play with me, and I feel that I am living a tragic life. In fact, friends are not expensive, and it is still rare for us to find friends who are truly worthy of paying at this age.

Let's be realistic, people around me often talk about non-mainstream stuff that I'm not interested in. But if someone wants you to play, it means that he wants to make friends with you, and it's better than no one cares, right? And others don't play with you because you don't talk to them, which is no way, or I think that the place where they go to play is not what I like, I still disdain it, and I will feel better.

You may not be able to listen to what I say. I used to be the same as you, but in the past three years, I have experienced more things and felt more. You're just at the beginning of junior high school now, don't put so much pressure on yourself to friendship.

After all, instead of expecting others to be good to you, it's better to be nice to yourself. Don't think so much, learn useful knowledge, and then others may be impressed with you.

You don't have to be natural and live with fate Don't deliberately set up a small circle for yourself Come out and integrate into the big family of the new class There is no need to have a primary school and junior high school Not to mention that good friends don't have to be together every day Learn to communicate independently Take the initiative Maybe it's difficult for some people Of course, the premise is to do a good job in your studies.

Younger brother [sister]! How do you say that? You think too much, I used to be a living treasure in school, I had a confidant and I had a class, and he asked me directly, why did he ignore him in high school, in fact, no, I didn't ignore him, I just sometimes played too crazy, and sometimes I didn't care, after all, new classmates have a lot of happy topics to talk about.

After a long time, you will know, how can a small group be formed without you! You can't try to fall down all of a sudden, can't get up, make sure someone pulls you.

Nothing! My high school classmate, when I was in my second year of high school, asked me one day what your name was, I was dizzy at the time, and my classmates didn't know me for a few years! In fact, no matter how far away you are, how long you don't talk, how long you don't contact, it's a good friend!

Like my old high school classmates now, I may not be in touch for half a year, but as soon as I meet, I am so enthusiastic and talk about the past!

Children, don't think too much. There are not so many problems between friends, you just need to treat your friends sincerely and have a clear conscience, you will always meet a lot of new friends in your life, but don't forget the old friends. You can't talk about a small group without you, you have to learn to adapt and slowly integrate into it.

Usually be sincere to people and think more for others, after all, there are so many people, you can't let everyone have a good impression of you. Just grab what you think is worth dating. Now you are mainly academic, junior high school has only reached **, and high school is indeed very happy despite its hard work.

Not to mention colleges. Be sincere to people, have more contact with friends, anyone can take the initiative, you can organize them to play together. Should men be generous, as long as something happens, friends will lend a helping hand.

Friends are used to give, and making friends with a purpose is spoiled. Cherish the friends around you, don't cheat, don't be jealous. You'll find a lot of friends.

You just have to treat people with your heart, don't always worry about these things, the more you think about it, the more annoying it is, you have to take the initiative to talk to others, treat everyone as your good friend, integrate into their atmosphere, take the initiative to listen to them, stare into their eyes when they speak, you have to take the initiative to help them when they encounter difficulties, you take the initiative to ask them to play, and they will naturally treat you as a friend after a long time. Trust you, come on.

Actually, it's not a pull.,When I was in junior high school.,There was also this kind of thing.,But now that I think about it.,I think that's what I seem to be a little selfish.,When I see that my best friend doesn't care about me.,It's not a taste in my heart.,You can take the initiative to chat with them.,There's a good thing to pull him together.,After a long time.,You guys... You have to go with the flow, or maybe you think too much, and of course you can make some new friends.

In fact, you don't have to be so afraid to learn mathematics.

First, you have to be interested in it and enjoy it, and second, in class. Be focused. The thinking must keep up with the teacher, the ears must be fine, and do not miss the teacher's language, because most of the teacher's words are true"Gold"Oh, and it will be of great help in the future.

Third, practice immediately after class to consolidate the knowledge you have just learned. This so-called exercise is only the exercise of the basics. The foundation must be solid. In this way, we can strive for progress, and the results can easily improve by leaps and bounds.

Fourth, the work before class, which most people who want to learn understands. It's just 2 words, preview. This preview must be in place. It's a good idea to do some basic exercises about it after the preparation. It can also be called self-study.

Fifth, you must learn more, write more, and practice more, so that you can succeed.

Although the teacher is strict, but it is also for the sake of the student, you should establish a good teacher-student relationship with the teacher, so that you have a big step of success, and if you need the teacher's help in the future, they will not refuse.

Look at those children having so much fun, they play carefree. I was the same a few years ago, and as I grew up, I had more troubles. Thinking about the world, I have a headache when I search for those troubles. I really don't want to grow up.

My academic performance was only in the upper middle class, and I almost failed the exam. When I got to junior high school, I found that I didn't like studying anymore. Mom used to say:

Why don't you study hard, how do you get into high school, you almost can't rely on junior high school, if you can't pass the exam, what will you do in the future? You have a new Chinese language with someone who wants you, and you have no special skills, what are you going to do? Now reading is the only way to come out, children are reading for yourself, not for parents.

Yes, if you don't study now, you will get ahead, and now even some college students don't have jobs. I get annoyed when I think about it.

When I first entered junior high school, everything was so unfamiliar, teachers, school, classmates. A semester passed like this, and there were many classmates I didn't know, and I didn't know how to communicate with them. During PE class, there were a lot of classmates playing together, and I wanted to play with them, but I didn't know how to talk to them.

The day before yesterday, my mother read my diary, which made me very annoyed, and I went to reason with my mother, but my mother said that parents should know everything about their children. But my little secrets are written in the diary, and when people know it, it's like being seen through by someone. I had a fight with my mother, and we were in a cold war.

How I wish I had no troubles in my life! But it is impossible for people to be free from troubles, just as in the sun, it is inevitable that there will be a brief period of clouds. In fact, annoyance is not terrible, the key is how you deal with it.

From now on, let's deal with our troubles together, eliminate them, and let us mature with colorful dreams!