My daughter, 23 years old, is facing major life issues, and I don t know how to choose? Tangled...

Can I only choose one of the two?

Uh, the ex-boyfriend beating people is really uncomfortable and unsteady, but he is still young and should be able to transform, maybe he needs to hone it, and he will be mature and stable in the future, but you can see something from some subtleties, the main thing is to be good quality, responsible and self-motivated. This is subject to follow-up.

40 years old uh Do you think he is not married now, do you know the exact reason? Is there any clarity that tells you that there is no ambiguity? Everyone's singleness has his own different reasons, maybe his reason is that he didn't meet a real favorite, but maybe he has experienced more feelings and seen through it, such a person is generally not easy to give feelings, at least not all the feelings, are you sure he is sincere to you?

Is he giving a piece of true affection? Sometimes two people are together, not only should they be financially comparable, but they should not be financially equivalent, but they should be about the same mentally, so that you may not be too passive and too led by the nose I may also be too rational to analyze a relationship But for your own good, I'm afraid you'll get hurt I guess I'm about the same as you or younger than you, but I haven't had a history of love before Because it's a girl of this age and I've seen some people in love around me So I still hope you are cautious, my opinion is for reference only Looking forward to the guidance of the master It's time for me to learn from the experience.

Which do you prefer? Well, in fact, I support you both don't choose...

Men are afraid of entering the wrong line of business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, the main reason is that he is good to you and takes care of the family.

Looking at the conditions you mentioned, I think you think people are good because of their good family background.

I think so! I think your idea is superficial which one you choose.

1.Ex-boyfriend, I don't know how to say it.

2.Current boyfriend, if you are really married, have you ever thought about the future path of your children? Said the child's classmates. Is this your grandfather?

Besides, have you ever wondered where you go for more entertainment? Maybe you're just someone else's toy.

I know I can't change your mind and mindset no matter how much I say.

Since you are not a person who talks about feelings, then you should choose one with the best family background.

Find a partner for what kind of person you are. Don't expect people to listen to you.

Maybe your parents are right.

From this paragraph, you can see that you still want to continue your education. It is recommended to choose whether to set foot on the job according to your family and personal conditions, if you can choose to continue to upgrade full-time, of course, it is better, if family conditions are limited, you can also work while taking classes to upgrade. At the age of 22, it is still a little early for marriage as a contemporary urban person, and if you have a stable job or study and an ideal other half, you can start planning to start a family in the next 3 to 5 years.

It is useless to go up, unless you are going up, but then our company recruited a person to come in last year as a graduate student, and it was 2,700 yuan when he came in. It all depends on what you think.

There are articles from all walks of life, and there are also discussions on job hunting and employment, I hope you can make a choice that suits you after learning.

If you can be employed, you should be employed first. After employment, depending on the situation, you can study again.

I feel the need to continue learning, first of all, there is no end to learning, and secondly, I am still young, I can accumulate more, and then I can be full of confidence!

Since you broke up with A, you choose to be with B, and B loves you deeply, so don't be entangled in A and B, cherish B's love well, take responsibility for the choices you make obediently, who won't quarrel in love, as long as he lets you, loves you, and takes care of you, it's enough, you are happy, A will be happy, because you have loved each other...

It seems that this is a tangled lady, and it is also painful to get divorced, and it is also painful not to divorce. After the divorce, he was liberated, but the children were guilty. If you don't get divorced, you will feel uncomfortable and you will suffer.

So it's a paradox, it's up to you how you choose? Do you choose to suffer yourself, or do you want your children to suffer?

In a word, you have to take the idea yourself, and you have to walk the road by yourself, this is life.

"Know thyself" – a famous proverb inscribed on the temple of Delphi in the holy city of Greece – was often quoted by Greek and later philosophers to exhort the world to show the true value of knowing oneself.

The right decision for many things is based on a clear understanding of yourself. For example, only when we know what we are good at can we find a job that suits us when choosing a job; Only when we understand what the other half we like is like, can we find the person we like when choosing a mate.

The same is true for the choice between divorce and non-divorce, and we need to recognize what we care about more.

When we know what we care about more, we make the right choice. Because such a choice is a voice from the bottom of my heart, and it is consistent with the direction I want in life.

For example, some people say that the reason why they don't get divorced, or swallow their anger, is for the sake of their children, including not wanting their children to have no father or mother, or children who are too young, and so on. These reasons seem to be very reasonable and sufficient, but only you know whether these reasons are really what you think in your heart.

Is it possible that after the divorce, you are worried about your future life, because you can't face the situation of a second marriage; After the divorce, I am worried that I will not be able to raise my children because I do not have the ability; After the divorce, I am worried about the evaluation of the outside world, because divorce is a disgraceful thing.

Let's see, what about the reason for not wanting a divorce that is closer to reality? Do you talk about your children, or are you worried that you won't be able to cope with a series of problems after the divorce?

I think the latter should be the more "correct" reason, but many people don't want to admit it. In fact, through this comparative analysis, the more important role is to let us look inward to discover our innermost thoughts or voices, because that is closer to our true self.

In this sense, whether we are divorced or not, our in-depth thinking about marriage is a process of knowing ourselves and understanding ourselves.

It is said that marriage is a practice, and this practice process is to make us a better version of ourselves.

The pain of divorce, that is temporary, and the pain of not divorce is forever.

If the relationship comes to an end, then it is better to divorce. Even if it is a temporary pain, if you can meet the right one later, then the joy is still to come.

If two people are going to be together and each suffers from each other, then this pain is endless.

It is advisable not to divorce lightly.

1.Have the courage to face contradictions

Life isn't always romantic flowers, zhi

It's normal to have spear dao shields.

Only by recognizing this point can we be open-minded and face unsatisfactory and difficult.

Find a way to solve it, not run away from it.

2.To face life with optimism, we must see more of the good and not exaggerate the pain.

Unsatisfactory life can be seen everywhere, only by looking at the good side and loving life can we maintain a good mood and steer things in a good direction.

4.Be independent and do not rely on, and take your destiny into your own hands.

Only in this way can you not be affected by the outside, do not worry about the attitude of the outside towards yourself, and live a wonderful attitude regardless of the wind and waves, and face everything, the external influence on you will become smaller. Because you are independent enough to no longer care about external attitudes.

Therefore, if you change yourself and be independent and self-reliant, you will not be in a dilemma, but will be left and right. will not be faced"Divorce is painful, and not leaving is also painful"situation.

Divorce or not is a matter for you to decide, source.

Outsiders don't know about your marital status, such as du

If there are no substantive problems in your marriage, they are all trivial things, and there is no need to quarrel in life, I think it is better not to divorce for the sake of the children, if there are some principled problems in your marriage, then you have to think about it carefully, and don't be too wronged yourself

Look at your own pursuit, I think people should live for themselves in this life, if they are unhappy, I will choose to separate, but even if they are divorced, do not deprive children of their parents' rights, and care more for children.

Marriage needs to be tolerated, after all, everyone has shortcomings, especially after marriage

Period together, the lack of both husband and wife are exposed in front of each other's eyes, which requires love to tolerate each other, you can ask yourself, do you still love each other, I don't know if you have children after marriage, if you have children, you can not only look at your own thoughts, but also take into account the feelings of the children, after all, the divorce of the husband and wife must be a big blow to the children, maybe you should sit down and talk about it, I hope you still love each other.

Divorce is also painful

It is also painful not to divorce, which is a non-normal and difficult thing to understand when the husband and wife have reached this realm.

Love, because if you don't divorce and live in a state of divorce all day long, and if you are divorced and lose each other, some problems may be more prominent, so it is more painful to divorce both parties, and it is more painful not to divorce, which is not a good solution to the problem, because it is difficult to solve it at this time, it is difficult to say, and there are hooks after the review, so this problem is almost unsolvable.

In the case of divorce or not, it is the same, so for the sake of the children, you still choose not to leave. The estrangement between the two of you is only temporary, maybe it can be repaired one day, and you can also think about how to redeem it, as long as you use your brains, there must be a way. If you get divorced, you and your partner may be freed, but the damage to your children is irreversible.

The child is innocent, it is recommended that you consider carefully, it is best not to leave, and do not cause regrets on impulse.

Divorce is also painful, and it is also painful to not get divorced, which attack is what to struggle with? It shows that you still have feelings, you.

I don't want to get divorced in my bones, so when you think about divorce, you will feel painful, and the current living situation is also very painful and painful, so you should sit down and talk about it. If you talk about it, you can live a good life wholeheartedly for the sake of this family, so don't divorce, but choose to live well. And after a good in-depth conversation, both parties feel that it is very painful to be together, and it is better to live happily than to live separately, so they will divorce decisively, then there is no pain, divorce is also for a better life, why should it be painful?

Since you still want to reconcile with him, then you still have to communicate well with him, it is best to change the environment with him, so that he can avoid contact with her again, but you should not be too tough, after all, men are very good-looking; If you want him to fall in love with you again, then you should change your style and try to cater to his aesthetic.

Through the footsteps of the King of the Net, the pursuit of happiness.

Crossing the King of the Net to meet happiness.

Believe that you are not the most miserable person living in this world. Actually, it's good to be alive. Be sure to be kind to yourself and care about the people in front of you.

Be happy, happy, healthy, and safe, and spend every day in the world. As long as you work hard to live your life, even if you haven't lived in vain in this life.

People will inevitably encounter all kinds of difficulties and troubles in their lives, we must find a way to solve them, we must adjust our mentality, it is inevitable that we will not adapt, you must be strong, you must have self-confidence, through your own efforts, you will be able to achieve your goals. You won't be held back by a little difficulty. Believe in yourself and you will be able to complete the task with confidence.

I think no matter what you have experienced before, but please believe that gold will always shine, you can't generalize your life, everyone's life is full of ups and downs, think about it, in this world, how many celebrities, great people, billionaires, many of them are worse than you, but they are not waiting to die, but work hard to change their future, let those who look down on you see, the person who was once looked down on by you, is also respectable, So live in the moment, work hard to fight, struggle, work hard to change yourself, don't be decadent, if you are really decadent, it will only make those who look down on you more rampant and sarcastic you, therefore, go hard, believe in yourself, believe in the future.

1. You can try to change your lifestyle, rhythm of life, do some other things, see more of the world, increase experience, and improve yourself.

2. People live in this world, they are bound to each other, you think about you and your relatives, in addition to raising them or supporting them, you also draw love from them, and people live for love all their lives.

3. Ordinary life also has the interest of ordinary life, we must be good at discovering the beauty around us a little bit of happiness, and know how to enjoy ordinary happiness.

4. Regarding introversion, I think different people have different personalities, and even personality is related to the qi and blood status of the body from which they are born. When it comes to talking to people, you just have to try to communicate like a normal friend.

5. Regarding other people's misunderstandings, I have also encountered this matter of you talking. But after thinking about it carefully, I found that it is not necessarily all your own problems, sometimes you should calmly analyze what you said, and sometimes the people around you deliberately misunderstand your words, this is their inner extremism, their thinking is incorrect. This mistake should not be attributed to oneself.

The point of view may be naïve, but from the bottom of his heart)