Is it better to spend your own money or your parents money to get married?

There is no reward point, no wonder no one replied, let me tell you, spend the same amount of money, mainly depends on your family environment, as well as family harmony, if you are very independent at home, the situation is like some European countries, what is very clear, if that, then only spend your own money, if it is a traditional Chinese family, then needless to say, of course, spend your parents', parents worry about a lifetime, busy for a lifetime, isn't it just for you to find a job in the future, buy a house, get married, so, Even if you don't want to spend it, but it also depends on the family environment, if you are very rich, the family conditions are quite good, then spend some money at home, it should be nothing, at least I personally think so, if your family environment is not very good, you don't want your parents to have no pension in the future, adding some yourself is also a good choice, after all, Chinese should pay attention to a filial piety, if they have the ability, it is okay to pay a part, but you can't completely yourself, then what do parents think, you should ask them, Ask for advice, if you are relatively wealthy and have some funds now, you can tell them that I now have a little savings of my own, and I want to share some of them for you, it should be good to do so, and your parents will be proud of you and think you are very filial.

Things can't be generalized.

If you have your own money, then try to spend your own money... After all, your parents have raised you for so many years, it's not easy!

If the family is rich, it doesn't matter if you use your parents' money, maybe your parents want them to pay too. You're their kid after all!

Of course, it's easy to spend your own money, and you make money and ask your parents to take the money, I think you are a person. Ay.

It depends! It's good to always remember the word filial piety!

You should give money to your parents when you get married. Your parents have raised you for so many years, and now that you have your own home, your own wife and children, you should honor your parents, you can't gnaw at the old anymore, you should give your parents money, this is your responsibility as a son. Your parents have raised you for so many years, and it's time to enjoy it, and it's not easy for them to raise you.

If you don't give money to your parents, they will get angry and they will be sad. You have to care more about your parents, they are now old, they are not in good health, and they need to be taken care of, you should give them more money and let them go to the hospital to see a doctor, this is their responsibility. In my opinion, it is appropriate to give money to parents after marriage.

When you get married, you're a new family. A new family should have a new atmosphere. A new family should have new rules.

With a new family comes a new responsibility. A new family should have new responsibilities. Therefore, after getting married, you should give money to your parents.

Whether the money given by the parents after marriage belongs to both parties depends on the specific situation:

1. If the parents have clearly stated that the property belongs to one party, the property belongs to the individual;

2. If it is not expressly stated, the property given by the parents after marriage belongs to the joint property of both parties;

3. Both husband and wife have equal rights to dispose of the joint property, and they can request division in the event of divorce. The parties may divide the property through negotiation, and if the negotiation fails, the court shall make a judgment.

After marriage, does the car that the woman bought with her own money belong to joint property?

1. If the car is bought with the income after marriage, even if it is registered in the name of one party, it belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife;

2. If it is a vehicle purchased with the savings before marriage, and the age of ascending is in your own name, it is personal property;

3. If the vehicle is purchased with pre-marital savings and registered in the name of the spouse, it is joint property. The joint property of the husband and wife refers to the property jointly owned by the husband and wife during the existence of the relationship between the husband and wife.

[Legal basis].Civil Code of the People's Republic of China The following property acquired by husband and wife during the existence of the marital relationship is the joint property of the husband and wife and shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife

1) Wages, bonuses, and remuneration for labor services;

2) Income from production, operation and investment;

3) income from intellectual property rights;

4) Inherited or donated property, except as provided for in item 3 of Article 1063 of this Law;

5) Other property that shall be jointly owned.

Husband and wife have equal rights to dispose of joint property.

Yes, here are two examples:

The first is the cousin's child, who is in his 30s this year and has been working and married for nearly ten years, but has never given money to both parents. Not only that, but because the husband and wife spend money uncontrollably and both have the bad habit of playing mahjong, they often need the "funding" of their parents. As a result, two people with formal jobs have been married for nearly ten years, not only have no savings, but even owe high debts.

Of course, the two eventually lost their jobs because they couldn't pay off their foreign debts, but they also divorced. At the same time, this debt is still overwhelming the two of them, and even relatives and friends have avoided them!

The second is my aunt's child, who is also in her 30s this year, one of the husband and wife is a worker, and the other is a part-time worker, although the income is not much, but almost every month or every two months, they will send money to both parents, sometimes there are seven or eight hundred, and when there are few, there are two or three hundred. Later, because the workers were laid off, the husband and wife needed funds to start a small business, and the two parents at this time made up more than 100,000 yuan for them at one time, far exceeding their filial piety at that time.

It can be seen from these two things that after marriage, sending money to both parents every month reflects their filial piety; On the other hand, it is to show both parents and extended families that they have the spirit of hard work and even credibility. Objectively speaking, for the above two kinds of people, whether they are relatives or friends, it is estimated that all parties will trust the latter and are willing to help them, while the former needless to say, everyone is too late to hide!

To sum up, after marriage, the husband and wife give money to both parents, on the surface, it seems that everyone should do a filial piety, but in fact, it is a kind of character that reflects the husband and wife who understand gratitude and affection, and this kind of person will go wider and smoother on the road of life in the future!

No, after getting married, having their own family, first spending money on their own family, can't parents take care of themselves?

Yes, but I have to tell the other party that parents are very hard to raise children, and we must know how to honor our parents after we get married.

Legal Analysis:1Where both parents make a contribution to the purchase of a house, the contribution shall be deemed to be a gift to both husband and wife, except where the parents expressly indicate that the gift is given to one of the parties, and the real estate is jointly owned by the husband and wife, and shall be divided equally in the event of divorce.

2.However, if one of the parents contributes to the purchase of a house after marriage and only writes the name of his or her children, it is a gift to his children and belongs to personal real estate.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.

Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.

Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 1050:After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.

Article 1051 Marriage shall be null and void under any of the following circumstances:

a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.

You shouldn't get divorced, and money shouldn't go to your parents.

Empathy, if you are your wife, your husband's ability is not as strong as yours, he has been using your money, and his family conditions are average, and his expenses are frugal, thrifty, and thrifty, but he still borrows money to help others? How do you feel?

Since marrying you, life has not only not changed for the better, but has reduced the quality a little, which is already enough to make a nest, if it weren't for the feelings for you and the belief in your choice, it may have been ruined long ago. As a result, you are good, and you give her the feeling that you can get by, not self-motivated, but more than you can to help others. Your brother is your family, but your wife is also your family, and your wife loves you countless times more than him, and you don't prioritize your wife's feelings.

At the same time, I would like to say a few more words, after receiving the marriage certificate, you are already a legally recognized couple, and you and your wife are already an independent new family, so no matter what you do or what decisions you make, please consider it from the perspective of maintaining a family. Love is not easy, please cherish it. Of course, I'm not saying this to make you unfilial, but "filial piety" has two meanings, respectively, "love the world, obey the heart of the world", simply put, it is to respect and love your parents with all your heart, rather than obedience.

It is recommended to apologize to your wife and confirm your position, you are now a family and not two individuals; For my parents to do everything beyond their ability, they all politely and resolutely refused, it can be said that I am not working well now, I don't make much money, and I still owe my wife a grand wedding, she loves me very much, but I don't give her anything for the time being.

It depends on whether the parents' financial conditions require it.

First of all, I think you are a filial child, and the heart of honoring your parents is very worthy of recognition and learning! Very good! Secondly, what I want to tell you is that you should communicate with your husband well about this matter, and don't affect the relationship between husband and wife because of these things.

Finally, I would like to give you the following advice, and I hope you will understand what you should do after reading it.

Your husband is right, you are already married. The relationship with your original family has actually changed, that is, it used to be your home, but now it has become your mother's family. Your home, the current family, is the family you and your husband have contracted, and in the future it will be the home of your children's original family.

Therefore, your income after marriage is the joint property of you and your husband. Although you earn it alone, you have your husband's share. Therefore, when making some choices or spending, in order not to affect the relationship between husband and wife, it is best to discuss or say hello to your husband.

In this way, he may not be opposed, but he feels respected and will feel more comfortable.

In addition, although you feel that you earn the money, if you give money to your parents without taking into account their parents, he will feel that you still treat them differently. This is also not a good impression of him, and he will feel that you can't be a qualified daughter-in-law. In other words, if he has an income and you don't, and he only cares about his parents and ignores yours, how would you feel?

So, when you do these things again, be smart and give them all. Actually, parents may not want it, but this act is very touching. If you want to honor your parents, you have to stop your husband and in-laws first.

In fact, in the final analysis, this problem is because the position of marriage is not correct. In a marriage, whether it is the father-son relationship or the mother-child relationship, it must give way to the relationship between husband and wife, and the relationship between husband and wife is the relationship that two people in the marriage should pay the most attention to. After getting married, the two people who were originally children broke away from the original family and formed a new family, at this time, the original family relationship should give way to the new family to ensure that the relationship between the two people in the new family is harmonious and stable.

We do not deny the love of our parents, our parents will always be our parents, they give us life and dedicate their lives to us, but they will grow old, and it is our partner who will accompany us through life.