What dowry did your parents prepare for you when you got married?

Updated on society 2024-04-17
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The average family will prepare various household items such as household appliances, beds, and life, and will prepare tens of thousands of yuan, after all, they are marrying off their baby daughter.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The daughter who has loved her for so many years is married, and her parents always want to give her the best, so jewelry is a very important part of the dowry, and the parents will customize it according to their actual economic situation, most of them are some necklaces, bracelets, etc.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Every day, the customs of the place will be different, but most of them are daily necessities, quilts, household appliances, etc., depending on what the customs are in your place and then follow the preparation.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If a wealthier family would have a house, a car, and a ticket in addition to the supplies they would use in life, I would have given me so many things to marry.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Our family gave our daughter a car as a dowry, which also appropriately reduced the loan burden of the newlyweds. It is also to highlight the weight of women in the in-laws' family.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The woman is responsible for all household appliances and household items; There are also those who give cash directly as a dowry, which is the rule on our side, and my mother gives it according to this.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I recommend to you a Baohai Weixing to congratulate the new year, it is very suitable as a dowry to give to your daughter, the meaning is very good, I saw my grandmother gave this when my aunt got married, I think it is very good.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There's nothing, mom has prepared an o's egg! Because there are so many daughters! The sisters are all eggs too!

    The younger brother is different, he does a lot of things, he can't put down the three houses of the light preparation, the bride price and the gift money can buy a suite in the city, and he bought two houses in the city plus two houses in his hometown! The eccentricity of the dot type! But my mother didn't abandon me, she didn't abandon me when I was a child, and I was already very emotional!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Suili is a kind of etiquette that has been passed down from our ancestors. It's just that people nowadays have made Suili tasteless. The dowry was originally something that the woman's parents loved and cared for their daughter, and my mother prepared a red envelope for me.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm going to recruit my aunt, house, car, ticket, I don't have to worry, just a girl, I want to stay around.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Get married? It's impossible! I have to hire an elderly son-in-law to inherit my estate!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The only daughter in my family is ready to recruit a son-in-law.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When a daughter gets married, the parents will generally prepare a dowry, such as a car, furniture, and household appliances, and it is best to coordinate with the man.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If a daughter wants to get married, the parents should prepare a dowry, and what kind of driver's license do they usually prepare? The customs and habits of each place are different, so the dowry he pays is different, like our side, it is generally given to the other party's normal daily necessities, such as tables, chairs, basins, quilts, televisions, washing machines, motorcycles, etc.!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The dowry for the daughter's marriage is to be given, and the two original families help the two young people to build a new small family, and both families have to contribute some strength. The amount of dowry depends on your own strength, not comparison. If possible, even the house is ready.

    Those who are a little less constrained may give 10,000 dollars. The gap is huge, so it depends on your own financial situation. If you don't give your daughter a dowry, will you not be happy in your heart?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Of course, parents should prepare a dowry, and the dowry we usually give to our children here is household appliances, furniture, bedding and daily necessities.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When a daughter marries, the parents can prepare a dowry according to their own ability, and the amount depends on their own financial ability, generally preparing household appliances, bedding, daily necessities, etc.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When a daughter marries, the parents have to prepare a dowry, and the amount of dowry is generally determined according to local customs.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This must be given as a dowry, the man will give the bride price, and the woman will give the dowry, which is a matter of course, according to the value of the bride price.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hello, when a daughter gets married, do parents have to prepare a dowry? What kind of home decoration is generally prepared depends on your family situation. If you have a good family situation, you can give your daughter anything. It's all considered a dowry. If the conditions are not good, it's okay not to give it, thank you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Think of items like gold jewelry and electrical appliances, no matter how big or small, as dowry. Some items have a high rate, and the gold is not depreciated.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    According to the family situation, if the family has a son who has not started a family, the bride price plus a quarter of the deposit will be given, and it will be the start of their small family**. The son is married, and he will discuss it with his son and daughter-in-law.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When a daughter gets married, both parents have to give a dowry, and what to give depends on local customs.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Now it's good to look at the dowry and give money.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Do marrying parents have to prepare a dowry?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    According to the actual situation of your own home, generally we have a new quilt for the wedding, as well as household daily necessities. Insurance + a car. There are also hundreds of thousands of dowry cash and houses with good conditions.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think the bride price is necessary, and so is the RV; As for the sky-high bride price, I myself have no objection.

    Personally, I think that as much as the man will give to the bride, the woman will give as much as she dowries, which is very reasonable. (For example, if the man's family pays a bride price of more than 300,000 yuan, then the dowry can be a car of more than 300,000 yuan, and at the same time, 300,000 yuan will be brought back and kept as the start-up capital of the small family).

    If the man's bride price is 30,000 or 50,000 yuan, that's fine, I don't want any of the things my parents give, let's work hard ourselves, it's a big deal. (It's not that I can't look down on the 350,000 dowry, so I don't want my parents, but I have some savings balance, and I don't want my parents, I can still bring it back twice).

    If the man's family is not very rich, I will not care about the amount of the bride price, and if the man's family is not very rich, I will bring more to the man with an inferiority complex).

    However, with a small bride price, or in other words, I have little money on hand, and I don't think about my children, because it will put too much burden on the small family that is not rich in itself, and I think that not being able to give the next generation a good education will make them lose at the starting line, and it is a disaster for them. And a good education will be a big expense.

    Bride price and dowry have existed since ancient times, but most of the heavy money to marry wives comes at any time.

    Marrying a wife refers to the fact that the man comes to ask for marriage with a high bride price, and ten-mile red makeup refers to the dowry that accompanies the woman when she gets married.

    So in my opinion, a high bride price and a large dowry need to be equated.

    Some men think that the high bride price is sold, and I dare not agree with the chaos here, the bride price itself is to see the sincerity of the man to be cautious and the man's economic strength, and it looks good if you give more, and then bring it back, which is equivalent to going out for a walk to show off.

    Of course, some families have brothers, and the woman's family may indeed be ruthless, worried that the man's parents will not be able to take care of their daughter's small family in the future), but normally speaking, the bride price of a boy in the family is actually just a matter of face, it doesn't matter, the woman's family will not be too harsh.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    With the changes of the times, people's perceptions of traditional culture and customs are constantly changing. Among them, bride price and dowry as part of marriage customs have been controversial. Some people believe that if there is a bride price for marriage, there should be a dowry; But there are also those who disagree, arguing that the dowry is not necessary.

    So, should there be a dowry at all? Dowry is the goods, property or money provided by the woman during the marriage to maintain the family life and supplement the household expenses. In the traditional concept of marriage, the dowry is considered to be mandatory for the woman and to be generous enough.

    Because when a man marries a woman, he is responsible for the woman's life, and the woman has to contribute. In this sense, dowry is a right as well as a duty. However, the development of modern society has turned away from the traditional way of life.

    Nowadays, the economic contribution and contribution between husband and wife have gradually equalized, and the division of labor between men and women has also changed greatly. Therefore, in this era, whether the tradition of dowry should be adhered to has become a worthy question. First of all, in essence, the dowry has a certain rationality.

    In the case of average economic conditions, the dowry provided by the woman can reduce the pressure on the man and also increase the financial expenditure of the family. For families who do not have extra funds, the dowry provided by the woman can help the family better tide over the difficult times and strengthen the family's financial strength. However, if we look at the dowry only from the point of view of practicality, we will lose sight of the essence of the marriage relationship.

    Marriage is not just an economic transaction, but also an emotional relationship that is based on mutual respect and understanding. If the bride price and dowry are excessively raised, the essence of marriage will be despised and even become an exchange of interests, which is contrary to the original intention of the marriage system. Therefore, I believe that whether or not there is a dowry in marriage depends mainly on the consultation and understanding between the husband and wife.

    If the woman is willing to provide the dowry and the man agrees to accept it, then the dowry is meaningful. But if one of the parties does not agree,

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think boys and girls alike, with a dowry in-laws can afford to look down.

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