Speak directly, right!? What can t be said?!

Some people speak straight, and that's certainly true. It is easy to offend people if you speak too straight in the world, making your interpersonal relationships very bad.

It's so direct, if it's right for close people, if it's not right for those ordinary friends, it's going to come and go separately.

Of course, it is right to speak directly, but sometimes you speak too directly and will offend many people, and there are many words that you should learn to be tactful.

Sometimes it's not right to speak directly, if you speak too directly, you will offend people, and sometimes you should speak tactfully.

If you speak directly in interpersonal communication, sometimes it will be easy to hurt people, and you must look at people tactfully when you speak, some people like to go straight, and some people like to play hot spots.

Speaking directly is related to a person's personality, and there is no problem with some people's words, but sometimes it depends on the situation.

I think that speaking directly is sometimes right, sometimes it is not right, and sometimes it is not right, we still need to look at the scene, of course, we can't speak too directly when we are more attentive.

There's nothing wrong with speaking directly, but sometimes speaking directly can easily hurt others, so sometimes you can't speak too directly.

Speaking directly is a person's character, and there is nothing wrong with this, but you must also know how to distinguish the occasion, otherwise it is easy to offend people.

Speak too directly, what you say is right, but sometimes others will feel uncomfortable when they hear it, and it is easy for people to misunderstand, so sometimes it is not easy to offend people if you speak too directly.

Hello, friend, it is right to speak directly, everyone has a sincere, come and go, speak directly and treat sincerely.

There's nothing wrong with speaking directly, right? It's just that it's easy to hurt people, or it's not easy to make friends, and such people are more vulnerable in society.

There is no right or wrong thing to speak directly, only good and bad, and in most cases, speaking directly is not good, and it is easy to hurt others.

Speak directly, right!? A person who speaks directly also has his merits, but is too direct. It's easy to break someone's heart. There is something really wrong with something.

I don't think it's right for you to score situations, sometimes you speak too directly, you can offend people, and you have to know who you're talking to.

I think it's good to be a person who speaks directly, you have to look at what kind of person you are talking to, some people don't like to talk, and if you are a direct person, then you just have to talk a little less.

Speaking directly, you have to distinguish between identity and occasion, as well as what it is, whether others can accept it, some people speak too directly, they don't consider the feelings of others, and they can say what they think, but from another point of view, this is not necessarily right.

Sometimes it's okay to be straightforward, but you should pay attention to it at work.

That's too direct, that score, sometimes needless to say that people are sick, it's very serious, and it's not right for you to tell people directly.

If you speak too directly, it will make people feel too annoying, and everything depends on the situation.

Because there are some things that are not suitable for some direct words on some occasions.

It's right to be direct. This speaks directly to the person. One is one, two is two, and never messes around.

People who speak directly are very straightforward and have no heart, right? It depends on who you are saying to whom?

Is it right to speak directly, for this method of speaking, ask you on what occasion between friends, you should have something to say, and you should not speak straight in officialdom.

If you have something to say, I think sometimes you shouldn't say it directly, it depends on the occasion, and on some occasions you should communicate with him alone if you have something to say or not to say it directly.

Isn't it right to speak directly? It depends on which place, it's not a question of right or wrong, it's just a matter of well, a question of the art of speaking, you have to be tactful, you have to be tactful, right?

If you speak too directly, it is easy to offend people. So when it's appropriate, it has to be tactful.

People who speak directly are straight and straightforward, but sometimes they have to be divided into occasions.

Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I won't be friends; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

It is not possible to directly measure this matter with countermeasures, because the situation is different, and different methods need to be adopted.

There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

The ancients said, "It is difficult to recover when covered with water". Speaking is like pouring water, the water that has been spilled cannot be taken back, and the words that have been spoken cannot be taken back, so you can't think carefully before you say a word.

Speaking is an art, even if you say good things, you have to worry about not washing your face and getting your nose in the way, if you talk about this person is good and offend that person, your words will not be clever enough. If you don't say something well, both sides will be unhappy to hear it, and of course you can't talk about it. You can't say bad things, but what things can't be said?

1. Words of disgrace cannot be spoken.

Some people often like to talk about discouragement and anger, but in fact, we should accept the encouragement of others in life, even if no one cheers me on, I should also encourage myself. If you don't encourage your ambitions, but instead say something discouraged, of course, you will be willing to fall.

Second, you can't talk about negative words.

When people are angry, they often unconsciously say negative things, sometimes hurting others, sometimes hurting themselves. When people are angry, it is best to stay calm and not speak casually, because what is said in the angry head is often difficult to hear, so it cannot be spoken.

3. You can't complain.

When people are dissatisfied, they often say something complaining, resenting their supervisors, resenting their friends, and even resenting their family members. You often complain, and after being heard by others, you use the topic to play and play with right and wrong, saying that you have to deal with this person, you have to deal with that person, and in the end you will eat the bitter fruit yourself, why bother.

Fourth, you can't say things that hurt people.

Some people are frivolous, do not respect and tolerate others enough, and often say things that hurt others between conversations, sometimes to harm others and benefit themselves, and sometimes to harm others and not to themselves. Words hurt others for a while, but one's personality is despised by others, and the damage suffered is permanent.

Fifth, boasting cannot be spoken.

Some people like to promote themselves, self-flaunting, and self-exaggeration between words, and others must not agree with it, so self-exaggeration is not beneficial, but self-harmful. To be great, people must do something great; Greatness is to be talked about by others, and it is better not to claim to be great, and it is better to be humble.

6. You can't tell the truth.

The "Five Precepts" of Buddhism and the "Precept of False Speech" are one of them. Lying is "seeing what you say, not seeing what you say, saying what you don't see, saying what you don't say", that is, the so-called "lying", which is untrue. The "wolf is coming" lie is used to it, and it will have serious consequences; Originally, there was only "one plane", and it was said that it was "eleven planes", and in the end it became "ninety-one planes", what a terrible rumor, this is not true.

7. Confidential words cannot be spoken.

There are many secrets between personnel, including family and company; The business has business secrets, and the state has state secrets. Nowadays, all countries attach great importance to the protection of secrets, and if you leak secrets, you will be severely punished and you will bear heavy criminal responsibility. Therefore, we should develop the habit of not casually talking about secrets, and before you want to disclose secrets to the outside world, you must first think about the possible adverse consequences, and know the seriousness, so you will not speak indiscriminately.

8. The word of privacy cannot be spoken.

Everyone has privacy, and of course they don't want to be known about their privacy.

I didn't understand what you said, which is the meaning of piggybacking on some literary language.

Let's start with the sentence you asked. The front one is normal, "I talk sometimes!" A lot of people don't understand!

It's just that I speak too old and sometimes it's too old! ", basically there is no problem, but in fact, there is nothing to look at at the back, "They don't understand!" Please give me an analysis!

But if you look closely, there's a point. "I don't understand", you try not to use a single word to express a meaning, what is called "solution", that is, "understanding", so ah, you just translate what you wanted to say, and then say it, and that "please", what is called "everyone", and now there are still people who say "everyone", everyone says "everyone", or you can also say "everyone", you see this change, "they don't understand!" Please give me an analysis!

Wouldn't that be nice?

So, the next time you speak, just translate what you're going to say first, and then say your translation.

Then don't be so bitten, and be blunt.

First of all, you must start to be confident from now on, of course, you can't be blind, and if you want to be confident, you must increase your reading volume and connotation. In this way, you will have a topic to talk to others, and the content of the conversation will be more in-depth, so that the effect will be better. It's a long-term process that needs to be persistent.

Don't be afraid to communicate with others when you are confident in this way, and be very calm, especially in public and social places. To train this, you can take some ways, that is, when you have time, you can take an article and read it aloud, read a book of poetry, read it with emotion, smile in the mirror when you get up in the morning, find your best expression, and demeanor, these are also very important. And be sure to take any opportunity to speak in public, especially for college students, whether it is answering questions in class, or performing dramas, or participating in many competitions similar to debate competitions, it is a great improvement for your progress and improvement, not to be underestimated.

These are all a step-by-step process, you must insist on accumulating slowly, and also make up for quick success, otherwise if you become positive all at once, change too many people around you will also look at you with strange eyes. Be sure to take your time.

To be able to express yourself clearly, you have to have a clear brain, because what you say is based entirely on what is going on in your head. Therefore, you must have a good logical thinking ability, which is not very demanding for girls, if a boy has a good thinking ability and careful logic, then whether you are in communication or problem solving will be better. I don't know much about exercise, because many times I think that these are the usual accumulation, or reading more books, and increasing the amount.

You can do some questions related to logical thinking.

A lot of things are usually exercised. Don't be afraid, whether it's expressing yourself, selling yourself, communicating with others, or accepting new things and new environments, don't be afraid, and be brave enough to express what you think and learn. If you talk less and slower at the beginning, it will be better later.

It is also a science to have good interpersonal skills. Being honest with people is a trick. It's also a trick to be good at patting sycophants, it's good to be too sincere, but it's inevitably a little wooden and very disadvantageous, but if the sycophants are too superficial, it will also feel fake, so this is also a degree.

For example, if you see a lot of officials, the official language is set in a set, no matter what occasion others can't say, it is very decent and sounds good, which is also trained. No one is born to speak. Usually learn more and accumulate more.

I really can't say it, just pick a nice one to say.

In short, none of these things are difficult for cheerful and outgoing people. But talking, doing things, and interacting with people are arts, and they have nothing to do with personality. The breadth and profundity of it is not something that can be explained in just one or two sentences.

Being able to speak makes people like to listen to it so much that even most show hosts can't do it.

Be yourself, people who like you naturally like to listen to you, and people who don't like you will not like you no matter how good you say.

In addition, to tell you a key point, people like to listen to you, first of all, you have to let others speak, even if you don't like it, don't interrupt, even if you pretend to like it very much, give others space to show, and others will give you space to show.

People who can't speak rush to say, people who can talk like people want to say, people who can't talk shout and say, people who can talk whisper, people who can't talk belittle and say, people who can talk hold and say, people who can't talk say straight, guess Liangxiao people who can talk and say in a corner, people who can't talk talk about it, people who can talk talk about it, people who can't talk talk about it, people who can't talk talk about it themselves, people who can talk let others say it first,