The other party already has a girlfriend, should I pursue him?

Updated on society 2024-04-09
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's better not to do it, since he has a girlfriend, don't bother his life, it's always bad to meddle in other people's relationships, if you pursue it, it's three people who will be sad in the end.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it's better not to pursue him, after all, don't be a person who destroys other people's feelings, you are also an excellent person, and you will meet better ones Don't be too paranoid.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No. Although the other party has not yet become a husband and wife in law, it is morally reprehensible to pursue someone else knowing that the other party has a girlfriend.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think that since others already have a significant other, then don't bother others, don't you want to be a third party who destroys other people's love? And, do you think you have a good chance of success? Why don't you make yourself unhappy?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, as a person who has come over, I can tell you not to chase it, but you can flirt, because she didn't find out your charm, maybe she likes you?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are other suitors in love, and I think it is necessary to tell your other half, because for both parties who love each other, there should be no hiding in this regard, and they should be honest with each other.

    When you are in love, there will inevitably be people who love you to pursue you. But I am not single, and when there are other suitors, some people will choose to hide the object, and some people will choose to tell their partner honestly about the fact that someone is pursuing them.

    1. Concealment will lay mines for feelings.

    In a relationship, one of the most taboo things is to conceal it. Although two people love each other and start a relationship, and the lives of two people are integrated together, they still need a certain amount of space for each other. Because everyone has their own privacy and their own little secrets, not everything has to be said with their own object.

    However, in matters of principle, I believe that it is necessary to be responsible for the object of one's own affairs. For example, in a relationship, there is a person who loves him who is pursuing himself, then at this time he is faced with the choice of confession and concealment, many people's choice is to reject the other party and then do not tell the object as if the matter does not exist, most people who make this choice are generally worried that the object will think more if they know. However, you must know that "if you don't know about it, you can't do it unless you do it", and if something happens, then it will be discovered one day.

    This is equivalent to planting a mine and a time bomb in this relationship, and when the subject finds out about it, the subject will only feel more insecure.

    I feel like I'm being hidden.

    Second, be honest with each other and show sincerity.

    When faced with other suitors in a relationship, it is obviously impossible to refuse and hide that it does not exist, what happens is what happens, things will pass, but things will never go away. Therefore, when faced with this situation, the best choice is to be honest with your object about someone pursuing yourself, and explain to your object how you treat such a thing and how you deal with it. In this way, it will make the subject feel more secure and feel at ease, their subject does not need to be silently protected, they do not want to be hidden, and they want to be honest with each other.

    If you don't do anything to be sorry for your relationship, then you won't worry about confessing your situation to your partner. Only those who do things that are invisible to people, stealing chickens and dogs, will be afraid to confess.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Explain that he is a good girlfriend, and he will tell you the truth of the matter, acupuncture, your opinions and suggestions.

    Since they have already become boyfriend and girlfriend, they should be more mature in their thinking, they are all rushing to get married and live a lifetime, they are no longer children, and it is impossible to live at home.

    So adults are responsible for their actions, of course, you should show your love for him more, you are going to marry her home for the rest of your life, express your attitude.

    Of course, you also have to make it clear to him that pursuing a lot does not mean how good you are, nor does it mean that you are rushing to get married.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should tell your girlfriend that she has suitors, which means that she is excellent, and it also shows that you have the right vision and that you are making the right choice.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you've been nice to your girlfriend and your girlfriend still says that, she's making a choice. You're either nicer to her than everyone else, and it's boring for a woman to say something like that. Either you are not as good as others to her, and she has also changed her mind.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think he has suitors, you can tell him, then how did you choose, do you think the relationship between us is not good, inappropriate? Or do you think of me as something, aren't you with me?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When two people are in love, the other suitors are like a sharp knife.

    You may be puncturing your love story at any time, but if you're already wavering about your current love, it's likely that you'll mistake another suitor for another choice you can make.

    Article**2 If you are already shaken at this point and do not tell your current other half, then there are only two endings.

    One, you see the other suitor as a "spare tire."

    And refuses to end the emotion of the moment.

    Second, he was cut by a sharp knife at any time and betrayed his other half.

    Three, Undoubtedly, both of the above endings are betrayals of love. Fortunately, the above ending is just starting from a new love that is already longing.

    Now we get back to the heart of the matter, if you love your significant other so much that you don't plan to accept a new romance at all.

    Article**3 Then the only possible reason why you don't tell the other half is that more is better than less, and you think that you can solve this matter by yourself and don't let the other half worry; But doing this is often the beginning of a mistake between couples, that is, the birth of concealment.

    In fact, this is also a common mistake in our current love.

    We have been in love with each other for a long time, we love each other too much, and we have become cautious in everything we do, and we are afraid that the other half will have bad emotions, so we start to hide from each other.

    Article**4 However, when we recall the best times of love, when we were open to each other and put our hearts in our hearts, aren't we now much less communicative and trusting than before? While we only believe in ourselves, we also trust others the most.

    The longer they get along, the more obvious the invisible film between the two becomes; Eventually, the film splits the earth and becomes a moat.

    , it's hard for us to remedy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    has a girlfriend, if you pursue other female fingers hungry children, it means that this person is too casual, or you don't like your girlfriend. From this question alone, this man is a bit casual. Only a loss.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This kind of mentality is like wearing clothes and eating, trying to find a sense of freshness and change of taste, but before Zen has a girlfriend and has not broken up, it is best not to find another girlfriend, if you step on two or more boats, it is easy to capsize.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In this case, if this is true, then this boy must be a big carrot. In that case, it would be nice to break up with him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Scumbag, the heart is not enough to swallow the elephant, eating the pot and looking at the bowl.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Eat the hidden change Hui stove replied to the bowl of the annihilation and looked at the pot.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If she and the subject are very satisfied, they will generally do. Tell other people that they have a partner. But sometimes the subject is not satisfied, and he may not tell anyone else.

    Or maybe he will slowly choose a better one for himself. There will be such girls, but most of them may be as long as they have a partner. Don't associate with other men.

    Whatever the case may be, it is best to transfer the case. In fact, even if it is not suitable for you, don't delay the other party. It will also delay itself.

    It depends. Most girls have a boyfriend, and they will directly say that she has a girlfriend with the person who pursues her, on the one hand, to draw a line with the boy who pursues her, and on the other hand, to maintain the relationship with her boyfriend without interference. However, there are also cases where girls do not tell others that they have a boyfriend because they do not have the right time, lack of appropriate ways to communicate with the opposite sex, or do not realize that they are being pursued.

    In the worst-case scenario, the girl is not satisfied with her current boyfriend and has a spare tire.

    Enjoy ambiguity and other reasons, she will choose to hide the relationship, if a girl already has a boyfriend, will she still tell the boy who pursues her but she doesn't like that she doesn't have a boyfriend? Why? Normal people would say yes, because it would hurt three people.

    First of all, she will be very upset if she is pestered, and secondly, her boyfriend will definitely be angry when he finds out, and maybe they will cause quarrels and conflicts because of this. In the end, this suitor is also wasting time, and it is bad to continue the pursuit without being told that the other person already has a partner. Of course, there are some girls who don't say that they enjoy the feeling of being pursued and admired.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it was a girl who was more single-minded, she would say yes. If he doesn't like his boyfriend very much, he will say no. Women want to have more admirers, followers. Once the relationship is bad, the spare tire can be seamlessly connected.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think 80% of people will say that because two people must take their relationship seriously together, not child's play. If a girl knows that she has a boyfriend who says no, she may want to keep it a secret, but she doesn't want to talk to another person of the opposite sex.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If the girl has a boyfriend and they have a good relationship with each other, she will tell her suitor that she has a partner. At this time, girls cherish the people in front of them the most, and they will not easily empathize with other lovers.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Of course it will, if the girl is a girl with normal moral character, then she will politely say to the other people that she has a boyfriend.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I feel that under normal circumstances, when a girl has a boyfriend, she tells the person who pursues her that she already has a partner. Of course, there are special people.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    With a boyfriend, of course, you will talk to your suitor. Because this way unnecessary troubles and entanglements can be avoided. Normally, girls would say it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If a girl has a boyfriend, will she tell her suitor that she has a partner? When a girl has a boyfriend, she usually tells her suitors that she has a partner.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you have a conscience, you will tell your suitor that you have a boyfriend again, and if you are planning to find a few spare tires, you will not say it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If a girl has a boyfriend, she will usually tell her suitor that she has a partner.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If a girl has a boyfriend, will she tell her stalker that she has a partner? If a girl has a boyfriend, she usually tells her stalker that she has a partner.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If the girl loves her boyfriend for a change, she will definitely tell someone that she has a boyfriend, and if he is just having fun, he will not tell others that she has a boyfriend.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    From the perspective of history and reality, the development of public health services cannot be achieved overnight, nor can it be done once and for all, and the process of improving the social public health service system will run through the process of social development. However, at present, the development of public health services in China has encountered some problems, and some major infectious diseases seriously threaten the health of the people, so for a long time in the future, public health services should focus on this, strengthen the prevention and control measures of major infectious diseases, and reduce the harm caused by major infectious diseases to the people. In addition, the quality of public health services in some backward areas of the country and in rural areas is not high due to the lack of sufficient human and financial input.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Generally, when asked, it should be said, but it is estimated that it will not be announced.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Specific things need to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and if the girl is not very satisfied with the original object, and the latecomer happens to be in very good condition, there may be other answers.

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