What would you do if a friend who had been disconnected for a long time suddenly contacted you?

It's been a long time since I've been in touch, and the sudden contact may be really missing, and sometimes there will suddenly be a person in my mind who misses me very much.

Sometimes missing someone is a momentary thing, and there is no reason for it, just that I really want to meet you.

Nothing to be courteous, either a traitor or a thief! Courteously stand! Ignore it!!

The reality is not **, the reality is that people can only think of you who are buried in the corner when they are not doing well, and who can afford to think of you when they are doing well.

Let's see what he's going to do.,If you're going to get in touch with him.,If there's something to ask me for.,See if you can help him.。

Don't reply first, see what he says in a day, if you continue to look for you, you are replying to him and saying that he is busy, I don't see it. Good idea.

Pretending to be an autoresponder is an option for people who are too embarrassed to say no. There is no way out, there is only this way.

Look at what he is going to do, if it is to contact feelings, you can talk about it appropriately, if it is to borrow money, it is estimated that you will not need to talk about it.

It feels like a**, let's check it first, what if it's a pyramid scheme. Make sure it's safe first.

Do you do what you think? Do you still need to ask such a simple question? Is there something wrong with your brain?

Happy, happy, sad and happy.

Some people like to play the emotional card, maybe relying on their own family relationship, or relying on the kinship between you and you, unscrupulously ask you to borrow money, even if the two people have not been in touch for many years, they can still open their mouths to ask you to borrow money as a matter of course. He beats himself into a pitiful look, complaining about his own misery, and he will praise you as crucial, just as once you run out of money, you will follow the hopeless Lord.

But if they hear that you unswervingly refuse to borrow money, they will immediately change another ugly face, accusing you of being unkind, accusing you of not recognizing your relatives, and accusing you of being ruthless and unjust. Frankly, someone like this doesn't even think about your emotions, doesn't treat you as a friend at all, let alone what kind of face you look like once you lend him money. No matter how nice they say in words, once it backfires, they can immediately turn their faces and be ruthless, and people like this are the best way to avoid them as soon as possible.

Among friends, if there is something, it is not a problem to help, but the key is whether that person is really your friend. Therefore, no matter who you are, the person who asks you to borrow money after a long time of breakup needs to be cautious and not be too naïve.

I saw such a post on my mobile phone: A woman has been in unrequited love with a man for a long time, but she has not taken the step of confession, because he is too afraid of losing a man, and is worried that once he says it, he will not be able to be even a friend, so the two of them have been friends for nine years, in other words, she is willing to follow the man behind her, and she has been with him for nine years. The man can't say that he likes the mentality of women, and he can't even say that he is a friend, but he thinks that even if some people like to help clean up the mess behind his back, it doesn't matter, it just makes him much easier.

Whether it is two or three o'clock in the morning**, or six or seven o'clock in the morning**, as long as a man **, women will go out indifferently, under the premise of the vast majority of numbers, it is nothing more than that the man drinks too much and needs someone to pick him up, or the man does not have enough money and needs someone to pay. But what is even more puzzling about the relationship between the two people is that there is no urgent matter that needs help, and the man can not contact his mobile phone for most of the year, even if he responds to a woman's positive greetings, he will not respond a word.

After that, the woman thought about it, whether he confessed or not, the man never regarded himself as a friend, otherwise, he would not look for himself every time just to clean up the mess for him. Indeed, what is a friend? Sincerity can be exchanged for true friends, but when someone only treats you as a friend when they need it, that kind of person is not a friend.

Not all people are worthy of deep friendship, especially when everyone has broken up for many years, the other party may not be nostalgic for the relationship between you, maybe just miss your help.

I think it's mainly the two factors of love and money, either because I have love for you, or because I want to borrow money from you.

It is possible that you feel that you are a very nice person and want to get back together with you, or that you want to get some benefits from you and want to borrow money from you.

I want to get back together with you. If I want to have a better development with you, it will also make the relationship between the two people go further, and it is also to ask you for help when there is something.

1.Looking for your help, some people won't contact you for many years, but suddenly one day he starts to contact you, he starts to come to you, it means that he has encountered something and wants to ask you for help. 2.

Looking for you to borrow money, the person who has been cut off for a long time, usually does not contact, and suddenly comes back to you, there is a reason, such as he wants to borrow money from you.

Most of them may be regretful, it may be that after experiencing a new person, they find that you are the best thing for him, and they generally regret it.

It could be that you are his best option at the moment, it could be that he wants to get something out of you, or that he wants to achieve some kind of purpose.

Don't take the initiative to start the chat topic, tell the other party what you can say, and don't respond if you can't say it. Because the other party is likely to want to borrow money from you, or there are other things that trouble you.

Look at the reason why he contacted you, and if he asked you to borrow money or ask you for help, then you should find some reason to refuse.

Chat a few words and end the chat with the other party as soon as possible; Don't easily disclose your family's financial situation to the other party.

There are really people who, when they have you, don't know how to cherish you, when they annoy you and make you break up, but they are reluctant to give up on their love. He is not willing to let you be this person. It's just that he doesn't want to give him the convenience you bring.

Some people are beautiful selfish, never hear what you say, don't care about your emotions, and almost only care about what they want to express, the most typical self-centered. Your civility and politeness and sense of proportion can't exchange for their thinking, and they will continue to make inches, find a sense of existence in your body endlessly, and treat you as a trash can for mentality. People who make you feel uncomfortable, who have no sense of boundaries, who make you break up with love, don't contact again.

Even if he suddenly contacts you again, he doesn't always have to fantasize that it will change, and suddenly learns to respect you, but others ignore him, and he has no mentality. But he took the opportunity to treat you as a mentality trash can, and to deal with such a person with bad intentions who only knows how to bring you negative emotions, delete and block you immediately, and can't give him the opportunity to harm you.

People are not as good as heaven, maybe at that time, they felt that they were not cost-effective in you, and felt that you were of little help to him, so they were indifferent to you and did not contact you for a long time. But now that you are down, or you are developed, you are going to reap the benefits of your body, and I want to walk with you.

It's not necessarily a good thing for friends who have been silent for a long time to suddenly contact you again, not to borrow money from me, but to ask you to help other things. This kind of person who usually doesn't come and go, sometimes thinks of you, or coldens you when you are poor, and comes to please you when you are beautiful, worship high and low, and have the eyes of power, you can never be blinded. In fact, it is helpful for people to quickly understand what kind of people they are with, so don't always imagine that some people are affectionate and concerned about you, but they only turn back to you when they ask you.

The good exes in the relationship have to fade, forget each other, and not be involved. Because they have been together, they can't be friends, so it's better to break up with each other. And it is really not difficult for the ex to contact you when he comes back, usually because the love at work has been damaged, he remembers your goodness and looks for your relief.

Either you stumble and look for people who are not as good as you, so you want to eat back grass. But the person who really loves you will not give up on you easily, and the person who has already given up on you is not worth looking back.

1. Use you as an emotional trash can. There are really people who don't know how to cherish you when they have you, and when they anger you and make you ruthless, they are reluctant to give up on you.

2.I have a request for you. Feng Shui takes turns, maybe he thought that he couldn't take advantage of you, and thought that you were of no help to him, so he snubbed you and didn't contact you for a long time.

3.Use you as a spare tire. The good exes in the relationship should disappear and forget each other in the rivers and lakes, without being involved. And when the ex comes back to contact you, it is really not that the feelings are still unfinished, often because the current relationship has been hurt, only then remembers your goodness and seeks your comfort.

I think it's probably because I've been lonely lately, so I want to contact you again, or maybe it's because I'm looking for you.

I think this situation may be that I am more depressed, so I want to ask you to borrow money, or I want to ask you to find a job, or I think you are a bully, and I use you as an emotional trash can, I think these situations are possible, you must be careful.

What should I do if my boyfriend suddenly contacted me?

It depends. If you really like him, just him. If you don't like it, ignore us.

In this way, so that everyone will not be embarrassed in the future. What's wrong with him, to say the least? Listen to him and ask what happened.

Then it's not too late to make a decision. If he's nice to you and you don't like him, say no.

<> see if you can let go of the relationship. If you put it down, explain directly to him that you don't want to contact him anymore. If you haven't let go and haven't given up, say this step is good for him.

In fact,..When a man breaks up for the first time, they feel very relaxed. They can play without your control.

However, after a long time, they will think how good you are and will regret breaking up with you. So, after the breakup, I decided to keep in touch with you and hope you get back together. I always agree with Fu Hancheng's point of view in the Zipa statement that "a good predecessor should be like a dead man".

I think that since two adults choose to end a relationship, they should give each other dignity at the end so that they don't disturb each other and are safe. Once, when I was faced with positive contact after a breakup with my ex, I would do it appropriately and at the same time keep my distance. The distance is that, even if I am there, the attitude of every sentence indicates that I am only acting out of politeness and nothing else.

After exercising, the man reached out to me. How do I? I would say, I don't want you to be so reserved and don't love you.

Women look like gentlemen, so don't reach out to men. The man reached out to me, and I would be silent. I will never listen to him silently, and then be a little reserved to see if he is sincere with me, and if you really take the initiative to contact me, see if he really loves me so that I can reply.

He has to be silent and don't talk to him first so he can really show that he really wants me to really love me so I can get back to him.

When I think of friends I haven't been in touch with for a long time, I feel that the grind and noise is very heartwarming, because those past events will come back to the fore. Normally, I don't contact them, and everybody is busy right now. Life is in the world, and the journey is in a hurry.

Many friends come quietly, and finally leave quietly, leaving only that distant and vague memory. This is also the reason why everyone wants to take pictures of beautiful moments, and want to engrave the present moment in their minds as much as possible, so that they can savor it in the future. After all, people in their twilight years actually live by memories, and leaving as many precious memories as possible will also become a valuable spiritual wealth in life.

Everyone makes and loses a lot of friends in their lifetime, but no matter what, the impression they leave in their minds will remain for a long time. Even if some people haven't been in touch for a long time, before you know it, you will suddenly remember the emotion, pain, happiness and sorrow they bring. Every time I recall this, everyone has some mixed feelings.

What we feel is not the original mood, but the passage of time. Everything seemed to be yesterday, but when I woke up, it was already a different story. At some point, we will also travel to the past, imagine that these people are still around, imagine those memories being staged again, but when we raise our eyes and raise our eyebrows, reality quickly pulls us back, and this feeling of time and space confusion is what makes people feel so emotional.

The more you drink, the warmer it gets, the colder the water gets, and the same goes for friendship. Only when we are in constant contact will the relationship become deeper and deeper, and if we have not been in contact for a long time, the friendship will dissipate over time. But in modern society, friends suddenly break off not because they don't want to keep in touch, but because the pressure of life is too great, and many trivial things cause everyone to have no energy to bother others in the parents.

may occasionally want to contact the relationship, but he is afraid that others will think that he will disturb him, so in the end he can only choose to give up. The blind waiter thought about contacting friends who had broken off friendship for a long time, but because the time interval was too long, the other party might not be able to remember his old friend, so he could only put down his mobile phone and muttered for a long time. So it's not that I don't want to connect, it's that life has consumed time and energy, and friendship has been blocked by various factors.