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In fact, the current situation is not the reason for you alone, he has more responsibilities, which causes your distrust, and I personally feel that you are not suitable to be together, you have obtained such love, will you be happy?
1.I like you for ten years, I haven't been in love for ten years, and I haven't been in love will be ambiguous? Yes, I only like you for the past ten years, I'm just ambiguous?
2.Love needs to be honest, you give me honesty, it doesn't matter if you have been in love three times, as long as your heart is hollowed out now, pretending to be me.
3.Love needs trust, trust is gone, it's tiring, you're a**, who are you with? If you don't bird me, I'll want to know more.
4.What a man is most afraid of is being tied down and managed, because of these, he has enough reasons not to love you!
Personally, I think you should let go and find someone who loves you and is honest with you.
Wishing you happiness!
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I don't know if the landlord refers to him subconsciously not believing or the same for others, if only for him then or don't be together, there is no trust between lovers or can't go far, if it's the same for others, then it's a personal reason.
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The first thing to note is that trust is fundamental to people. If, as you say, he starts talking nonsense when he chases you =. = Then do you think there is still a need to trust him?
Personally, very, very, very despised for those who do not believe in their word.
Please stay away.
I wish you happiness.
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There is a mustard in the heart, psychological autosuggestion, everyone has needs, who knows what a person's heart thinks, you don't believe what he says, then it depends on actual actions, time can prove.
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Do you understand the love you want? Maybe this sentence hurts people, but it also saves a lot of people.
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When you like someone, you are willing to listen to whatever he says; When you don't like someone, you will be annoyed by whatever he says.
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The landlord's subconscious concept seems to be wrong!
Sincere engagement won't make a difference!
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Because you care about this person very much, so impress that person with your heart, maybe you will be sad at first, but that person will understand one day, and you put your heart into it, so it is enough.
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You don't need to do anything deliberately, just treat him sincerely, the more you deliberately do it, the more he doesn't believe you, if he doesn't believe you all the time, it has nothing to do with you.
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Isn't this what you dreamed of growing up when you were a kid? Why are you sad now?
Rest assured to chase your happiness Don't care if I'm willing to be lonely or not.
I'm not playing with my temper, I'm really tired, give up, don't want it anymore!
Why is his brow wrinkled, his hair is messed up, his eyes are red, doesn't he love you.
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I think the subconscious mind is a magical feeling! Let time tell.
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Normal, I've dreamed of such things, but the reality is cruel.
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You've been keeping an eye on him lately?
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The subconscious mind refers to the part of human mental activity that cannot be recognized or not recognized, and is the mental activity process that people "have occurred but have not yet reached the state of consciousness".
The actual subconscious mind is actually a part of the conscious mind, but it is the part of the consciousness that we suppress or hide, so the subconscious ability is indirectly and actively vetoed by the intermediate layer of the preconscious and the unconscious before it is discovered, and we cannot perceive the subconscious, but the way it affects the conscious experience is the most basic - how we perceive ourselves and others.
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Definition of the subconscious:
The subconscious, a psychological term. It refers to the part of human mental activity that cannot be recognized or not recognized, and is the mental activity process that has occurred but has not reached the state of consciousness.
Freud divided the unconscious into two parts, the preconscious and the unconscious, and some translated it as the preconscious and the subconscious. The work done by the subconscious mind is an integral part of human existence and evolution.
There are two types of consciousness, the "subconscious-preconscious" that is latent but can become conscious, and the "subconscious-unconscious" that is repressed but cannot be made conscious by the usual means.
The actual subconscious mind is actually a part of consciousness, but it is the part of consciousness that we suppress or hide, so the subconscious ability is indirectly and actively vetoed by the middle layer of the preconscious and the unconscious before it is discovered.
There are many people who ponder a question and only end up in a dream, or wake up in the morning, or take a shower, or walk while suddenly having an answer or inspiration pop out of their brain. So we need to have pen and paper ready at all times and jot down sudden inspirations.
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In psychology, the word subconscious is a part of consciousness and is not yet focused consciousness. The word "subconscious" represents an English version of the French subconscious created by psychologist Pierre Janet (1859-1947), who believed that beneath the critical thinking function of the conscious mind there is a strong consciousness that he calls the subconscious mind.
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Our thoughts are divided into two parts, one conscious and the other subconscious. The power of the subconscious mind is 30,000 times greater than that of the conscious mind, so to stimulate potential, the subconscious mind needs to be used.
The subconscious mind will form real things according to the picture we have in our minds. The subconscious mind can't tell if something is true or false, and once accepted, it will eventually become a fact. As soon as a definite picture enters the subconscious, the subconscious immediately tries its best to turn this picture into reality.
As soon as we give the subconscious a picture, it will try to materialize it.
Everything we live in the present is a true reflection of our subconscious. In your subconscious, all kinds of thoughts and concepts have made you who you are. If your future is going to be different, you must change your subconscious now.
If you look at the world around you, you will find that most people live in the outer world, and only those who are inspired pay a lot of attention to the inner world. It is important to note that this inner world, that is, your thoughts, feelings, imaginations, makes your external world.
Therefore, this only creativity arises from your inner world, whether you are conscious or unconscious. Your conscious and subconscious minds interact with each other. In order to change the external conditions, you first have to change the internal world.
Many people are blindly changing their surroundings and environment. They don't understand why disharmony, confusion, want, and other constraints on desires arise, and they have to look to the inner world of yours for the cause.
You live in a very rich world. Your subconscious mind is very sensitive to your thoughts, and your thoughts will first produce a "model", and then the infinite wisdom and vitality of your subconscious will cast it. Each chapter in this book will give you examples of how to manipulate and apply the laws of the subconscious.
You have a mind, and you should know how to use it. When you use your consciousness to think, your habitual thinking seeps into your subconscious, where there is the driving force that creates everything.
Your subconscious mind is where your emotions come from. If you think of good things, good things will come to you; If you think about bad things, bad things will come to you for trouble. That's how your psyche works.
Once the subconscious mind accepts an idea, it begins to execute. The subconscious mind executes both good and bad thoughts. If you use this law negatively, it will bring you frustration, failure, and misfortune.
If your habitual way of thinking is harmonious and constructive, then you will experience health, success, and all good things.
Mental peace and physical health are the inevitable result of how you think and feel in the right way.
Psychologists and psychiatrists have pointed out that when thoughts are passed to the subconscious, they leave scars in the cells of the brain, which immediately carry out those thoughts.
To do so, it draws on all previous experience and any bits of knowledge; It will sprout infinite strength and wisdom; It will summarize and make use of all the laws of nature. Sometimes the problem is solved immediately, sometimes it takes days, weeks, or longer, but all problems are resolved eventually.
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The subconscious mind is the brain's analysis and storage of experiences and memories and putting them into the mind behind the scenes, that is, actions are generated purely through the experience in memory and so on, without self-awareness. The subconscious mind is mainly about unnecessary thinking to liberate one's self-consciousness (the consciousness in front of the scene). If I have consciously done an action thousands of times, then the thousandth and first time should be the same as the first thousand, there is no need to make complex brain calculations for this, but to empty the space for new things to calculate, in addition, the subconscious mind can speed up people's reactions, and in an emergency, people's thinking speed will not keep up with the development of events, then it is necessary to rely on the subconscious control.
Most of our behaviors are manipulated by the subconscious, such as walking, blinking, turning our heads when we hear sounds, etc.
If you don't have a subconscious mind, then you have to keep thinking about which leg to go out of, how to get out, and how to maintain balance when you walk. And if you don't think about it, then you'll fall to the ground.
Of course, there is also the subconscious that arises from biological instincts, and these subconscious minds arise from the nature itself or a combination of experiences: breathing, running away from fear, falling in love, sleeping and rolling, etc.
Society also gives us a subconscious, mainly because of the accumulated experience in our society. Morality, good and evil, many emotions, and even nationalism, values are the acquired second instincts given by human society to members of society, and information is stored in the subconscious. Human beings are social animals, and it is normal to accept the common consciousness of the group as their own subconscious.
It is important to understand that the human mind is not only the self-thinking that you feel, but also the existence of different levels of thinking in the thinking level of the human brain, in other words, there are many self-existence that you cannot feel, and they are also thinking and remembering.
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In fact, it is normal for you to be skeptical, and you are not to blame, but to blame him for breaking the trust between you and making your subconscious unable to trust him anymore. To put it mildly, there may be a second time if there is a first time, and if you don't want to be hurt again, the long pain is better than the short one!
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It's hard to trust that building takes time and shared experiences. The collapse of trust can easily make the victim suspicious and suspicious of everything about him!
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No more. Because it's hard to have a shadow in your heart. You will be suspicious of each other in the future. In fact, it is not a blessing that you choose to be with him, but a pain and a good heartache.
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One person will betray you once, and the opportunity to betray you a second time, how can two people continue to be together without the least trust? If you feel justified, give an adoption, thank you!
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Anyway, my girlfriend betrayed me. I would never be with her.
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He did this, leaving a psychological shadow on you, and if you love him very much, you should not always think about it.
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I think the most important thing for two people to be together is trust, if the most important point is gone, is there still a need to be together, if you still love him, then believe him, if you don't love, leave.
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I don't think I can continue, not to mention whether he will do it again in the future, anyway, now you have begun to distrust him.
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I don't think it's better to continue, since I don't believe him anymore, why should we be together, the days will be long in the future.
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There's no need to continue, there's a first time and a second time, so let's end it.
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If you don't believe it, don't continue.
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There is a first time, there is a second time, men are all inertia, it is recommended to break up decisively.
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Decisively divided. Compromised love won't last long.
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It is not recommended that there are many good men in the world.
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If he doesn't want to continue, don't be heartbroken.
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It's up to you to see how you feel! I don't know if you've ever heard the story of and chocolate, this is a bit too radical.
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I feel like you're cheap. Boys give me a psychology that you can't get, and it's always the best, so I think you should have this kind of thought in your subconscious. That's why I can't put it down. Also, you don't have anyone around you, that's why it's like this.
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That's because you like her, and you like her that you will let your guard down and tell her what is in your heart.
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With all due respect, it shows you: you have no principles, your vision is poor, you have been deceived many times, and you still like it, but you can only say that you deserve to be deceived.
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You like her, you have absolute trust in her, that's why you tell her what is in your heart.
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Because I don't believe that she will marry someone else, I am willing to get close to her!
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You shouldn't break up, because trust can be cultivated, and as long as you are willing to learn to trust your boyfriend slowly, then you don't have to break up. Here are some specific tips to help foster trust between you:
1. Find the commonalities between each other and work together to act on them.
For example, common goals and dreams, working together for goals and directions. Don't fall behind each other, don't lag behind. Go one step further. When we share the same ideals and work together, the sense of trust will also be strengthened.
2. Increase trust through communication and exchange.
For example, in a relationship, if you are very concerned that your boyfriend has too much contact with friends of the opposite sex and becomes distrustful of him because of this, then communicate with your boyfriend and let him avoid suspicion as much as possible and avoid socializing with friends of the opposite sex.
3. Respect each other, think and act from each other's point of view.
In many cases, the primary basis for building a sense of trust is to think about the other person, to be selfless and do good for the other person without expecting anything in return. This kind of giving, which is not out of return for profit, can often really build a sense of trust, and can also gain the respect and trust of the other party.
In modern society, trust between people has become more important. Customers and sellers, bosses and employees, couples and couples, parents and children, friends and girlfriends, and even strangers and strangers. Without mutual trust, you can't sustain your life, work, social circle, and relationships.
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Yes, but that's a way of being an emotional person, and as for the pain, it depends on how painful it is, and it will gradually fade away over time, and what hurts a lot is hard to forget, and it is deeply ingrained in your consciousness. Hope mine can help you!