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If it were me, I'd continue to associate with her, and I wouldn't push her, and I would be better for her.
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Give up, there's nothing good about women.
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Love makes it as it comes.
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How can you let a coin decide your love?
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Here are some suggestions for getting suitors to let themselves go:
1.Keep your distance: If possible, minimize the chance of contact with your suitors. Don't respond to his **, text messages, emails, etc., so that he understands that you don't feel positive about him.
2.Express your position: If the suitor still insists on pursuing you, you can tell him directly that you have no feelings for him and that you want him to abandon the pursuit.
3.Decline his gift: If the suitor gives you a gift, decline it as politely as possible. And Kai can convey to him your message that you don't want him to spend time and money on you.
4.Socialize with others: If possible, let him see your interactions with other people, especially with the opposite sex, which may make him realize that you already have other romantic relationships.
5.Maintain your independence: Don't change your daily life and hobbies because of the presence of your suitors, and keep your independence and self-confidence in disguise.
Please note that it is important to respect the feelings of the suitor and try to make him understand your position in a polite and kind way to avoid any unnecessary harm.
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Outright refusal. When we meet some suitors who like to stalk, if we don't like it, we will directly and decisively reject it, and if we don't like it, don't get in the way of face If it is more euphemistic or implicit, it will not only fail to achieve the purpose of rejection. , and it will also make others feel that there is hope that they will continue to attack you, so when it is broken, it will directly cut off his thoughts.
Tactfully refuse. For some shy suitors may be very good, but they don't consider the type that they don't like, for this kind of suitors, you can tactfully refuse, because they are delicate and weak in their hearts, and direct rejection may hurt them, so we can find some excuses, such as: now mainly focus on work, temporarily ignore personal problems, or I have a favorite object, etc., tactfully leave some room and steps for the other party.
Start with friends.
In the face of many suitors, there may be a type that we like to have a good impression of, for this type of suitor to bury, we do not exclude, but need to understand to accept, you can choose the appropriate time for the two to communicate, give both parties some time to consider this problem, pure sun or more observation, clear pants ant ant can treat him as a general friend first contact, from life slowly both sides to understand, so that they are also responsible for themselves or him.
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Tell him what you think: Tell him directly that you don't like him and don't want to associate with him, so that he understands your attitude and thoughts. But pay attention to the tone and manner, and don't hurt the other person's self-esteem and feelings.
Keep your distance: If you don't want to reject him outright, you can show your attitude by keeping your distance. For example, don't reply to his messages, ** or don't take the initiative to contact him, so that he understands your attitude towards him.
Excuse rejection: If you don't want to tell him your thoughts directly, you can use excuses to decline his offer, such as if you have another date or are busy with work, etc.
Be honest with him: If you think he's a good person, but you don't have feelings for each other, be honest with him and tell him what you think and feel so he understands your relationship.
In short, if you don't like a Hu Xiren, but he has been pursuing you, you can express your attitude and thoughts through the above methods. But be careful not to hurt the other person's self-esteem and feelings, and build a healthy, equal, and respectful interpersonal relationship.
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Being with the people you love the most is the most enjoyable thing for you. But sometimes I can't be with that person even though I love that person deeply, and when I am in this state, I need to give up rationally, specifically, when I find that the other party is not suitable for my loved one, I can't stop myself from being together, and when I try to pursue it but it is fruitless, I should really give up.
First, when you find that you are not suitable for your loved one, you should give up. The person you love is the one you give your true heart and true love, but when you rationally analyze the relationship between each other, you find that the other party is not suitable for you. Or if it is not suitable between two people, when you find out that this situation is balanced, you should give up the relationship rationally and choose to quit, although it will make you feel very painful, but it is still the only way to get yourself truly liberated, and you must do it.
Second, if you can't be with your loved ones, you need to give up reasonably. Sometimes, although you really love someone but can't be with him, this state will make you feel painful, but you need to seriously reflect on this relationship, specifically, if you find that you can't be with your loved one after rational analysis, then you need to give up rationally, only in this way, can you end this doomed relationship, so that you can pursue your true love.
Third, when you try hard to pursue your loved ones but have no results, you should really give up. When you really love someone, you will try to pursue her, but if you still can't get the result after hard work, you need to choose to quit rationally, for yourself, this relationship is destined to be fruitless, and there is no point in continuing to insist, at this time, you need to give up this relationship rationally, so that you can pursue love for yourself and the person you love with a positive attitude, so as to harvest the love that really belongs to you.
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