How do you get along with your roommates in college?

I think it's very good, it shows that you are very good, and let him want to surpass, what a sure thing he is. Isn't it good for you to have someone who inspires you? under the same roof"opponents", perfect for you.

But complimentary, healthy competition will make you do better. Make you better!

If there is really no way, it will be treated as indifferent. If you can't change, you learn to adapt.

I think you're one of the lucky guys. There is a person in life who compares you to you. Such a person, I suggest you communicate with him more and make such a friend.

There is one to monitor your behavior at all times. Well, it's very good for learning. Think about it carefully, only when there is competition can there be pressure, so that you can correct your behavior at any time and lay a good foundation for your future success.

Such a person is rare. If you don't believe me, you can take a look. I believe that the chances of having such a person are very small.

He was a mentor and friend. Be friends with him. Secondly, because they are all in the same subject, or course, and in the same dormitory, sometimes you can ask him for advice if you have questions, solve your own problems, and reduce the trouble of being troubled by problems.

He doesn't want to do this with you, it's just for a while, it's impossible for him to get up and study like you all the time, after all, he sometimes has things. When you become friends, he will not compare to you like this, the situation will be a little less, and your mood will be a little better. Why not?

In my eyes, there are only 100 people who love to study in today's universities, and in my eyes, there are only: you wear adidas, I wear nike, you wear kappa, I wear puma, you eat two dishes and one soup, and I eat three dishes and two soups. You are college students!

What I want to say is that this is not a good thing, anything, treat it normally, learn your own, at a certain time, he will not compare with you, you still feel very unaccustomed, don't suspect what he wants to compare with you, maybe he really wants to find a friend. To tell the truth, as long as you don't want to compare anything with him in your heart, and a slap doesn't make a sound, he can't compare anything with you!

I sincerely wish you all good friends!

If you think like this, even if you don't compare with him, he will still compare with you. Prove that he has taken you as an example for him to go above and beyond. It's better to compare him and let him retreat.

You have to know that either you will give him a comparison and let him retreat, or you will lose to him to satisfy his competitive mentality. Turn the target to someone else.

There is also a killer trick: find an opportunity to invite the teacher to dinner alone for a good reason. Ask the teacher to help you change your bedroom.

When people imitate you, it shows that you have strengths that are worth learning. Be proud. This is the time to learn to improve yourself, and it is recommended that you learn from your classmates who are better than you.

You and your roommates should communicate well and become friends, and the other party's actions to learn from you should be a motivation to work hard. Change your personality and reluctance to compete with others. You should change your mindset and thank this classmate.

It was because of his actions. We netizens are fortunate to know you. From everyone's advice, you can absorb useful essences.

Maybe there will be a qualitative change in your life and learning from now on.

Good luck.

I've met this kind of person before, so I can understand your feelings, and I think the best way is not to care, ignore it, and do what you have to do, so as not to affect your emotions and live your life in your own way!

In fact, if you look at the problem from a different angle, maybe he is not comparing yourself to you, but thinks that you are a good role model!

The reason why you think it's annoying is that you don't like other people like you, but you don't necessarily get the same effect by doing the same thing!

So you just have to do your own thing, and you still have to say it, if you don't get along well with your classmates because of such trivial matters, it will look like you don't have a man's demeanor!

Everyone is a different individual, he loves better than anything, the most important thing for a person is to have his own pride, he thinks that comparing others is to maintain the poor self-esteem, then he is like a clown to compare, we are us, he is him, people are better than people than people, he is not tired to compare, what kind of ability is a good man in the nest, despise him.

Easy to do. Take a moment for you to ask him for a drink, drink more, talk. It's best to get him drunk and ask him what he thinks.

The two of them have a dormitory, and a good relationship is fundamental. Thinking too much affects feelings. Do what you should do!

Men shouldn't be like thinking all day long.

Ordinary heart, natural way. Don't care about others, just do it yourself, don't ignore others, everyone has something you are worthy of respect, there is a place for you to learn, open your mind, remember: the sea is inclusive, there is tolerance!

Just do what you think you should do, don't think too much about his feelings, all this is his own choice, and you didn't force it, you really don't have to have such a big psychological burden.

Nothing! Just do your own thing, I've encountered it before, it's just that you care too much about what other people think, you're all the same! He looks at you, you look at him

He doesn't believe you, and you don't believe him

This situation is not good, first of all, you have to start from your own change, don't think so much, and do what you should do

But a dormitory person, get along best!

If you really don't want to face him, you can change bedrooms with someone else. As long as you can't see him, it's fine.

It's very simple, you don't have to think about it so much, changing dormitories and leaving him won't solve the problem!

It's fun to just don't see it, and try doing something he doesn't like. I'd like to have this roommate.,When I'm bored... What a lot of fun.

If there is really no way, it will be treated as indifferent. If you can't change, you learn to adapt.

Talking to him directly is probably the best way to do it.

I'm a child, so I'll take care of you. (swears).

It's OK to write 50 to 100 words, and anyone who copies and pastes them will never give points.

I'll go, this requirement, to write a propositional essay?

I'll give you a word: treat each other with sincerity.

Is it enough for 50 words? hohoho~~

Everything is just --- just fine. You go after the girl. Catch up, watch him chase too.

I think it makes sense to see 1 and fall in love with V and enjoy the disaster.

The first thing you have to do is to understand each other. College life is not like high school life, because the classmates in high school are all in the same place, and the way of thinking and attitude are similar.

But the roommates and classmates in college come from all over the world, and many internal factors are different, so don't always treat others with your own way of thinking, so that no matter what others do, they will not be very satisfied. When I first arrived at university, of course, I wanted to have a few good friends, but the desire for friends will inevitably lead to a comparison between the people around you, and I feel that many people are not as good as your high school classmates. So you must tell yourself that in order to get a good interpersonal relationship, you must first understand and respect others, so that you can live a better life.

People don't call you when they eat, it must be that you usually behave a little arrogantly, and others are not comfortable with you, so people don't like to eat with you very much. Everyone living together should maintain a good relationship, as the saying goes, "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors"! Although your classmates don't care about you as much as your family and friends, you can't help but need their help!

When you get help from others, that satisfaction is also very good, of course, it has to be based on having a good relationship.

Secondly, it is to stop putting a high posture in front of everyone, you know everything, and others are inferior to your own feelings, that is, you should be humble and respect others. While you may be proficient in some simple questions, you should also be aware that there may be more big questions that you need to ask others.

Also, be sure to be confident. Believe that you can handle interpersonal relationships well. Living in the university, not only do you need to be confident in grasping interpersonal relationships, but in many cases, you must actively participate in the work related to learning and the student union, cultivate personal sentiments, and have a learning attitude in everything, and don't be complacent!

Finally, I wish you can adjust your mentality in time and maintain good interpersonal relationships with your classmates, so as to make your study life more fun.

1. Actively participate in group activities.

When there are activities in the dormitory, you should participate, don't be special, don't engage in individualism, although you don't think so, but if you don't participate in the activities in the dormitory, your roommates will think like that, and they will slowly alienate you.

2. Adopt appropriate methods to deal with contradictions.

Universities say long is not long, but short is not short. When getting along, there will definitely be disputes and contradictions, if the contradictions are not severe, they will tolerate each other and take a step back, but if the contradictions are very strong, the disputes are inextricable, and they involve issues of principle, they should be theorized in a timely manner, but they should be within the appropriate range, and they should not be too stiff, after all, they will live together in the future.

3. Learn to be tolerant.

You might as well talk openly and honestly about your roommate's bad habits, because sometimes you don't realize it and get in the way of others, and someone may pay attention to it after someone brings it up to him. Students who live in the upper bunk may accidentally stain the sheets of the lower bunk, or make the sheets that were otherwise flat and neat and crumpled, and it is better not to take care of the lower bunk.

When your roommate's choices are different from your own, be tolerant. Don't just demand others by your own standards, change yourself appropriately. In addition, high standards and high morals are mainly used for self-discipline, and roommates and other classmates cannot be forced, let alone others"Be lenient with oneself and strict with others"。

Roommates are the people who have the most contact in college, and they don't help you a little bit to show that they don't realize the importance of roommates, and a little bit to explain whether they can't do it themselves, so many roommates why no one has anyone to help you. When you have difficulties, you should first think of solving them by yourself, don't rely on others, and trouble others if you have nothing to do, which will make others feel that you have too many things to do, and it is not conducive to your own work after graduation. Anger is a temporary thing, don't take the bad things to heart, just remember their goodness, complete your own things, you can talk about it if you have difficulties, but don't expect others to help, they have no obligation or responsibility, you have to thank them for helping you, and it is natural not to help you.

The first point is to help if you can, don't force yourself if you can't help, and know how to refuse. For example, if your roommate asks for food every day, but the meal money is always in arrears or forgotten to give it, you have to remind it every time, and you must know how to refuse at this time.

The second point is that the dormitory is a common living area, so try to maintain your hygiene and avoid future conflicts. If you really want to study with peace of mind, please go to the library, but I don't think there's any reason to ask everyone to be quiet (unless everyone is studying at this time).

Thirdly, the dormitory also needs to organize team building activities to increase the relationship between roommates.

In the college dormitory, you will often meet all kinds of people. Everyone's habits and private life are different. Some roommates may be fussy and sometimes lazy; Others are neat and athletic; Others like to go to parties and play other things.

Even though we are in the same dormitory, everyone has different ways and habits.

So, in this case, what should you do if you find that there is a problem in your roommate's private life? Is it interfering in their lives or is it silently accepted?

First of all, it is necessary to accurately determine whether the quality of private life has affected other dormitory members, such as noise disturbance. If it does not affect other people, we should also maintain an appropriate distance and not interfere too much. Although personal life and habits are influenced by many factors such as family, social and cultural background, and are not choices that can be changed in a short period of time, people should understand and respect each other's differences, especially those who have nothing to do with them.

However, if a roommate's private life raises more serious problems such as infectious diseases, a threat to the dormitory as a whole, intervention or pointing out the problem is necessary. In this case, we should communicate with our roommates sensibly and honestly, remind them of the problem, and provide some feasible opinions and suggestions to reach a consensus and an appropriate way to solve the problem.

In short, while respecting the privacy of individuals, we should not ignore the problems found in life. Dealing with roommates' private life issues with an equal, friendly, and communicative attitude will give the best results.