Why is it said that raising a boy is more difficult than a girl, and it is several times harder?

Because raising a boy now needs to help him start a family, and now the bride price for marriage is very high, so it is several times harder.

Because raising a boy not only has to raise him, but also has to buy him a house, a car, and get married. That's a big overhead.

Wen Chen'er's mother tina

Parents with boys may have a deep understanding. From birth to 6 years old, the little boy basically catches a cold and gets sick every year......As long as there is an outbreak of a flu or a change of season, boys will always get sick, even if they go to the hospital, they will see that there are more sick little boys than little girls......And then it will take a long time to get better.

There is an old Chinese folk saying: A girl is like a grass. "Life is cheap but easy to raise; "A boy is a treasure" life is expensive but difficult to raise.

Of course, this sentence is really very appropriate now, because girls and boys nowadays are all big babies of their parents. However, it is true that boys are difficult to raise.

Boys have weaker immunity than girls.

Modern medical research, especially the results of molecular genetics, has slowly solved this mystery. The main difference between boys and girls is that boys have one less X chromosome than girls, girls have two X chromosomes, and boys have only one X chromosome. The genes related to the body's immunity exist on the X chromosome, which means that girls have one more X chromosome than boys, and you think that girls' natural physical resistance to diseases is naturally twice as strong as that of boys, and the reason why boys are strong and prone to disease is easy to understand.

Therefore, the improvement of immunity is a problem that parents of boys must consider.

My colleague's son always catches a cold during the change of seasons. Every time I catch a cold, I have a high fever, and my tonsils become inflamed and swollen, and I have to be hospitalized. The child is small, which is really distressing, and my colleagues ask for leave to go to the hospital to accompany the bed every time.

Before the age of 6, I had a cold and fever several times a year, and I was worried about every change of season, giving the child water to drink, adding clothes and reducing clothes ......But the more worried you are, the more likely you are to catch a cold and fever. Eating foods that supposedly boost immunity won't work at all. The best way to do it is to eat + exercise.

Boys need to be given enough love when they are young to withstand all kinds of pressures in adulthood.

In addition to the body's own immunity, boys are more straightforward and energetic, unlike girls who are older and quieter. The older the boys, the more socially they are and the more athletic they are, the more social risks they face in the future. There are many boys who have all kinds of problems during adolescence because they don't get enough love and care.

Therefore, raising a boy must be more delicate than a girl. From birth to 5 years old, you should often hug him and smile at him, and take care of his diet; When a boy goes to primary school, parents must take care of the boy's emotions, allow him to lose his temper, allow him to have unpleasantness, allow him to cry freely, and slowly let him do something independently, and recognize him, encourage him, and support him.

1.Dopamine levels are higher in boys than in girls, which means boys are more energetic. The female treasure goes home to eat, eat, sleep and sleep, and the male treasure comes home crying and crying, and there is a male treasure who can move, and he relies on crying to vent his energy, and the howl is endless.

The boy who can move always has endless energy, and you have to follow the shift 24 hours a day.

2.Girls are good at communicating with people, while boys are more interested in objects, and boys' world is only cars. 3.Girls like to look at you affectionately, while boys see direct gaze as a hostile act and don't want to look up at you.

4.Girls have twice as much auditory sensitivity as boys, so girls are obedient, and boys always act as if they can't hear.

5.Boys develop language late, and two-year-old girls say, "I'm angry." And the 3-year-old boy is not very good at expressing feelings.

6.We always think that boys are strong, but in fact, boys' brains are much more fragile than girls.

If the boy is very young, his mother suddenly disappears, and in order to suppress the sadness and pain, the brain will choose to turn off the aspects that are connected with the mother, and when he grows up. It will be difficult for them to show care and affection for their wives and children, so no matter how old they are, go home and hug the vulnerable boy.

So boys should be raised like this.

After getting to know the boys, be more patient and give them a more appropriate upbringing.

1.Guide them to unleash their exuberant energy.

Exercise is undoubtedly a good way for boys to release excess energy, and it can also bring great benefits to boys, such as a sense of belonging, increased self-confidence, and improved health; Exercise can bring boys closer to other men; Group sports allow men to show love for each other; Sports is also a process of learning life - finding life values such as not being arrogant in victory, not being discouraged in defeat, team spirit, and going all out on the sports field.

The lagging language ability of boys compared to girls is a concern for many parents. From infancy, boys can begin to learn better communication skills so that they can read, write and speak better when they go to school.

3.Love boys: Give them intimate love.

They actually need more tenderness, a smile and physical intimacy, especially in the initiation stage from birth to the age of six. The first lesson a boy needs to learn is even more intimate, an intimacy that is shown by trust, warmth, playfulness and kindness.

Boys learn to love from their mothers, who see them as the first model and object of intimacy and love, and the joy of teaching and talking helps the boy's brain to develop language functions and makes it easier for him to get along with others.

In addition to the mother's personal care, many studies have shown that children and dads play more energetically. Boys who are loved by their fathers and often play with their fathers will be closer to their fathers and want to learn to imitate, so that they can get along with other men more easily.

Parents know that the way girls and boys are educated is very different. Many parents think that boys are easy to feed and can be raised casually. Girls are more squeamish and have to be taken care of.

Boys have rough skin and thick flesh, are stronger than girls in every aspect of their bodies, and their psychological quality is also stronger than that of girls; A girl is an object of protection and can only be loved.

Panda: My son is really much more tired! Because he keeps sabotaging, keeps making demands, makes mistakes and educates him, he doesn't pay attention to you at all, and you have to take tough measures to get results.

There are monkeys and rabbits at home: the son is easier to take than the daughter, the son touches and hums twice and passes, and the daughter has to hum for a long time and squeeze out some tears. My daughter walks early, talks early, and can say anything at the age of two, which is more worry-free.

My son walks late, talks late, and can only say simple words when he is two years old, which really gives me a headache.

Mizuki Tsinghua: My son is solid, and he is not afraid of crawling and rolling. My daughter has to be careful, and I'm worried about it when I bump into it, so I think it's easier to take my son.

Allure: I think the boy is easy to bring, solid, and active, so we just need to accompany him on adventures. The girl has a glass heart, and she has to be coaxed to do it. I now have a second child, and the girl is raised as a boy.

Meow Meow: I feel tired of taking girls, I have to worry about my daughter's safety, and I think I can't be bullied by others. Girls' education is also more troublesome than boys', and many things have to be taught to daughters. Sometimes, I am worried that Hu Ling has not taught her daughter anything, for fear that she will suffer in the future.

General Rabbit: My daughter is easy to bring, as long as my daughter has **, there are books, and she sits quietly on the sofa listening to ** reading books or playing with toys. When you are thirsty, you can say water to your father, and when you are hungry, you can say cookies, and you can solve it by yourself if you want to urinate, which is really trouble-free.

Whether it's a daughter or a son who is easy to raise, it can only be said that it varies from person to person! But I have to say that the education methods of boys and girls are really different, and parents must pay attention.