I ve known each other on a blind date for two months, and the man said the following, and I decided

Updated on society 2024-04-13
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, he has made it very clear that if he really intends to continue, he will not say this kind of thing, but the person who expresses it, the active person is him, a boy who is often passive, and it is not okay to say that he has no feelings for you, but he may not like to be restrained, or he still wants to continue to be tempted, maybe he is looking at other women at the same time and does not want to determine the relationship immediately. Whether or not to end now depends on whether you think he is worth your wait, or what is good about him, if in the end he is not worth it, or if it is actually not suitable for you, you do not need to continue to take the initiative or wait for him...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since you feel good about him, it's a pity to end it directly, it's better to want to get away with it, if he doesn't take the initiative to contact you at all, it may be that he really doesn't have a good impression of you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, it's too ungentlemanly for a guy to say that! Throw it off! Hehe!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't ask, this boy already has a girlfriend, and the family doesn't know or agree to meet you, but this boy has no quality, and he doesn't want to say it early, why delay everyone's time, you leave, support.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Half of the boys who meet you on a blind date can see that he agreed to go on a blind date, probably because his family is pressing, pretending, and he may have a girlfriend, but his family doesn't know, and he didn't say it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Introduction: When you reach a certain age, you need to go on a blind date, and blind date is essential, especially when parents are more persecuted, so there will be a series of problems in this process. After a blind date, I chatted with the boy for a month, and I met twice, how to confirm the relationship?

    In fact, in the process of blind date, it can be said to be more direct, after all, blind date is for the purpose of marriage, so if you want to confirm the relationship, you can also tell others directly. Although we have only met twice, we have been talking for a while, so there is no need to worry too much. You can make an appointment to meet again offline, or ask directly on your mobile phone, so that you can express it more clearly, and it is best to ask directly if you are willing to fall in love together, and then get married, if the other party gives a positive answer, then it is considered to confirm the relationship.

    If the other party is ambiguous, it means that it is not feasible, so I understand the other party's mind. In fact, there is no need to be too entangled in daily life, after all, the activity of blind date ultimately depends on whether to get married or not, and to get married directly, it is also responsible for the other party. However, we have only been chatting for a month, and we may not have a very detailed understanding of each other, and if we ask for a personal relationship too hastily, it may have a certain impact on our future life, so we still have to think clearly.

    In fact, marriage still has to have an emotional foundation, if there is no emotional foundation, it will bring a series of problems, in fact, in daily life first marriage and then love is very rare, and the possibility of implementation is not very high. If two people have an emotional foundation, if there is a conflict in the marriage process, they can also leave each other with affection. But if two people have no emotional foundation, it is easy to have conflicts in the process of marriage and tear their faces.

    Therefore, in daily life, you still have to learn to fall in love before getting married, so that you can make your marriage more beautiful.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The time that two people have been together for a short time is not deep, don't be in a hurry to determine the relationship, it is best to get along for a while longer, get to know each other more, and then determine the relationship if you think it is not bad.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should confirm in the right way, you should understand the other party's attitude, you should also take the initiative to communicate with the other party, you should also ask the other party's thoughts, and you should contact more so that you can confirm the relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In such a situation, I think you should communicate with the other party, and then you should also ask the other party in time about your impression, so that you can confirm the relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, you've only known girls on a blind date for more than a month, but your chat is still very good, but you feel that the girl is more cold these days, and the reply is perfunctory, you can feel his words, a little perfunctory your feelings, you can also ask him what's wrong, is he in a bad mood? Because you can care more about a girl, you can know what he thinks, why would he perfunctory you? You can communicate with him in a chat and let him tell you what is in his mind.

    If the girl feels that you care about her very much, you are also a very caring person, you can give the girl a sense of security, and you can feel the other party's care and care for him when chatting, if you are chatting very happily, the girl will not have other ideas.

    And if you want to achieve good results, you can continue to develop with him, but you have to pay more patience and effort, for example, you can date him when you are on vacation, you can care more about his interests and hobbies, what he likes and dislikes, what kind of way he likes, likes to play, when you understand these situations, you can take him out to play. As long as he gets acquainted with you, you will have a chance to ask him out. You can take him to the places he likes to play, or you can buy some small gifts for the girls and surprise them.

    Love needs to be cared for more, and girls who create some romance will not be willing to leave.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think you can ask the girl what you said, or what you did to displease the girl or whatever, and you can talk to the girl about this.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe it's because she's running into something more annoying, and it's best for you to care about it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. It's to ask if you have feelings for him.

    I asked him how he felt about me in the past 3 months, and he said how to understand it when he was in contact with contact again.

    It's to ask if you have feelings for him.

    There's no rush. Take your time and believe there will be good results.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think you need to continue with him.

    It stands to reason that they have just met, and the two of them should talk about a lot of topics. However, this boy, sometimes he is reluctant to reply to you and ignores you. I understand that there is no affection for you, or that there may not be a common language.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are two main questions that the subject wants to ask.

    First, as you said, boys often skip some questions without replying. Why? What kind of personality can you see about him?

    What does it mean? The essence of these problems is basically the same, in my opinion, the first is that he is not interested in you, so he is perfunctory or does not have your problems, but you say that he comes to you every time, so this is not very likely; The second is that you have only known each other for a month, and the emotional foundation is not enough, the boy may be introverted or meet the girl he likes is more shy (guessing), and not trusting enough, unable to immediately confide in the other party's question, you need to think about whether it is appropriate to say it, and then think about what can be said and what can not be said, if you feel that this matter is not easy to say, of course, perfunctory or simply do not answer and fool the past. And there's no habit of chatting at the end.,There are some brothers around me who don't pay attention to details and they don't end chatting.,My personal guess is that I didn't pay attention.,Didn't pay attention to this detail or something.。

    Second, is there a need for intercourse?

    At this time, you have been together for a month and have a certain understanding of each other, you have to determine whether he accounts for more than half of the qualities of the boy you care about the most, that is, the most essential question of liking or not. On the basis of preference, the subject can communicate with the boy, hoping that when the boy asks some things by himself in the future, the boy can tell himself, because he wants to know, and he can end well when chatting; If you don't want to communicate, then carefully observe him, whether he is really introverted or shy after a short relationship. It is necessary to need the subject to seriously feel his feelings for the boy, and then think about the reason why the boy does not reply to him, whether he can accept it, and then combine to determine whether to continue dating.

    I hope the subject can think seriously and wish you happiness!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think this guy is either not very good at chatting, or he doesn't have the idea of falling in love with you, because sometimes, if two people interact more, then there is still a chance to meet and get to know each other more.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    According to your description, you can roughly understand what kind of mentality the other party has, wants to associate with you with low self-esteem, and wants to leave a good impression on you everywhere. However, there are some routines to make people appetizing, and this kind of boy is either a straight man with no emotional experience, or a man with a very scheming heart. If you can talk and be friends, if you can't talk about it, you will slowly fade away and not get along, after all, you are not the same kind of person.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Personally, I feel that this person doesn't seem to be very suitable for you, getting along with people is about communication, in the process of getting along, this is a process of understanding from scratch, you are pursuing each other, to a large extent, you know everything, say everything, many of the problems you describe, may be the usual homely chatter, there is nothing bad, can't, in the end can only form an awkward chat, you don't want to say more, but you must not say, maybe such people are more stubborn, more like their own topics, For those who don't like it, I always like silent confrontation, if it is used in the family in the future, then it may be cold violence, and it will definitely not work for a long time, a little personal understanding, I hope it can help you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't know the character, to my point that I think he is at least not active, you are a little passive, the blind date is both sides, there is no emotional foundation, you must communicate with each other more, in order to know whether you are suitable for each other, can you work together to run for a future. However, if you don't agree with each other, you don't reply, this is the most basic literacy, even if you feel inappropriate, your words make me uncomfortable, you have to say it honestly, the boss asks you, you don't know how to go back and don't reply?

    It is recommended to meet for a meal, talk openly and honestly, if it doesn't work, it's good to get together and disperse, and the blind date is also a process of big waves

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It depends on the boy's personality?

    If he doesn't talk much, has a stupid mouth, and is not good at words, it means that he doesn't know how to reply to you. If this boy is extroverted and can speak well, it means that he doesn't want to talk to you anymore. But under the pressure of the outside world, the pressure of getting married, I feel that you are not bad, and if it is okay to live together, it is to treat you as a spare tire.

    At the same time, it is also necessary to see whether your values and three views are consistent. If there is a big difference in academic qualifications, you may feel that your question is a bit naïve, and then you are unwilling, which is also very normal.

    As for what kind of personality it is? Whether you want to date or not depends on how you feel about yourself? If he makes you feel disrespected. Under the weather. Then there is no need to keep dating.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, I am more similar to him, this kind of person is more introverted and less relieved in terms of feelings, not that he doesn't like you, but that he can't find a suitable answer to you. And you also said that you just met, maybe he is still a little embarrassed about you. So you give him a little more time.

    Although it's a bit boring for a person with this kind of personality to be the other half, it's very sincere and can get by.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You just met, if you want to understand each other, of course, by asking more questions, you can slowly understand, if you always don't reply as a reply, it proves that he just doesn't care about you, or he doesn't understand the world. You'd better meet him down and get in touch with him in person to see if it's worth continuing to date.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Landlord, you said this situation. My advice is not to associate with him. Because you've just started to know each other, he doesn't pay much attention to you.

    Basically, I just don't care about you. This kind of man, let's end up with him as soon as possible. If it drags on any longer, it will be a waste of youth.

    It is only a personal opinion, and if you make a decision, you still have to think carefully about whether you like this person or not, and ask yourself how you feel in your heart. Don't grieve yourself. Hope.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First of all, not replying to someone else's message is an impolite act.

    1. If you deliberately don't reply to you, it means that he doesn't care about you very much.

    2. If it is an unconscious non-reply, it means that it is formed by a habit or character since childhood, and this kind of person is a little selfish and will not take into account the feelings of others.

    Secondly, you should consider comprehensively, if you are not limited to these subsections, just look at his character, blind date is very subjective, and you can only do it if you think it is appropriate.

    If you have a pimple in your heart before you have determined the relationship, it is best to let it go.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It depends on whether you like it or not, his personality may be more passive, not too extroverted, a little shy, and biased towards the practical type, and it is possible that your reply did not let him get your point, there is no one to talk about, and the ice has not been broken, in the observation week, if you still give up decisively like this, girl, you can't afford to waste time, there are many good men.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It shows that he still doesn't like you very much, and the person who really likes you will answer your questions at least during the relationship, even if he is busy or something, he will explain it to you!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Emotional intelligence and personality are a bit imperfect. It's best for you to have a relationship in reality, feel if you can accept it, and don't date if you can't accept it.

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