After being hurt, do you have a feeling of suddenly waking up from a dream?

This is because you finally understand the truth of life overnight, when you are hurt by someone, you finally discover the true character of his person, at this time you will feel that dating him is a wrong choice, so you also know that as long as you are happy, the most important thing is not to consider the thoughts of others.

There is a price to be paid for the growth of people, and after being hurt by someone, then there is a feeling of enlightenment. It is often owned by many people, because the so-called eating a trench grows a wisdom, people always gain motivation and intelligence in setbacks and continuous failures.

After you have been hurt by someone else, and then it dawns on you, and then you find out what this thing is all about, then this is a very good thing, which means that you have grown.

In a person's life, in the process of growing up, you will meet a lot of different and different people! Some people wear masks that treat you well on the surface, but do things that hurt you behind your back! When you are hurt by someone, you will feel how realistic this human nature is!

So remember that you are the most important thing, and the rest are supporting roles ! Let yourself live well is what you want to do in your life!

This is the process of everyone's growth, who will interact with people at the beginning, no, and sometimes our maturity is often accompanied by a kind of injury, it may be that we ourselves have been hurt, but in the future you may be relieved, so you have to accept the imperfections in growth.

Don't be discouraged, just take it as a lesson, and you won't be so naïve after more experience.

This feeling is right, the so-called experience of a long thing and a wisdom, only after experiencing it can you understand.

After being hurt by someone, make sure that you recognize your position and avoid being hurt again.

This is a great realization

I don't deliberately hurt myself, but if I accidentally hurt myself when I get hurt, I enjoy the pain moment. I don't know how. However, there seem to be a lot of people looking at the same situation, so you shouldn't worry too much.

Hello! There's something twisted about your psyche. It's a masochist personality. The more you suffer physically, the more comfortable you are psychologically. You're better off seeing a psychiatrist.

It shows that you have a strong ability to resist pressure, which has become your own enjoyment, and there is nothing wrong with that.

Normal, masochistic tendencies, normal, you can do big things, guy.

I also had the idea of making myself more miserable, feeling that it was better, that it was more worthy of pity and being called strong, that it was so strong that it made others feel bad.

Maybe it's just trying to remind yourself of the hurt you've suffered, or maybe you want others to sympathize.

Actually, I'm a little bit happy, even when I'm in pain...

Teach me to bear miscellaneous, and I'm very sad now.

I also have it, it seems to be a trembling m mentality?

You decisively need a psychiatrist =-=

Psychological damage or physical damage.

If there is a soul, there will be feelings.

Of course there are feelings, because there are feelings.

That will definitely have. It's just a little big and a little small.

I heard that taking anesthetics is a soul attack.

Because this feeling is true, if you really express it like a shrew, you will really be looked down upon, especially if your usual state has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and suddenly such a thing comes out, others must be startled, and think you are a person.

But they won't pay attention to you being hurt, human nature is like this, most of the time it is difficult for people to understand those things that have nothing to do with them, especially those that others can't accept, and for many people, they will feel that they can bear why others can't bear it, and there is a generation gap.

So the main reason is that people can't understand the hurt you're doing, and you're breaking out like a shrew because of the hurt.

Then there is the fact that Chinese culture is actually relatively conservative, such as forbearance, you must endure any problems that arise, and life is your own, and you can't let your life hurt others, so when others see you explode, they don't understand very well.

For your good friends, they must be able to understand you, but for people who don't know you, they don't know why you are in such a situation, and shrews are the object of contempt by many people, although there are many shrews in life, but shrews do not admit that they are shrews, only people with quality know what shrews are like, and you become like a shrew because of an outbreak, they naturally put you and shrews together.

For such things, I don't think you need to pay special attention to them, you can explain to the people you value, don't think that those who understand don't need to explain, those who don't understand disdain to explain, or explain and apologize for what you did.

In front of your good friends, you can tell your own grievances, your own grievances, but don't mess around like this in front of the person you love, he won't understand, he will only dislike you and be ashamed, in other words, you yourself are like this, you belittle yourself, and others will have who thinks you are noble, this world is very realistic, no matter when, you must pay attention to your behavior, don't let others change their opinion of you because of a little thing, it's time for your temper to be restrained, After all, no one will tolerate you because you have a big temper, but will only despise you and despise you because of your sloppy behavior.

If one person thinks so, and a group of people think so, do you dare to say that you don't have any problems with yourself? In the future, when you do things, look for a job, and others turn this matter out and bring it up again, do you think you are embarrassed, you will have a dull face, so don't play scoundrels because of a little thing, and ruin it can only be yourself, it can't be someone else. If you don't want others to look down on you, just be an elegant woman.

After all, the world will not change because you are alone, you can only change yourself according to the world, so don't be stupid, seize the time to make yourself a better version of yourself.

A person's conduct is not based on how good you can be to others when they are good to you! It's about how bad you can treat others when you're angry! Of course, we will have that time.

It's that when others hurt us, we feel very wronged, and we just want to insult each other like a shrew, or rush up and beat each other on the head and face to relieve our anger. But when we do this, we will find that the expressions of the people around us are really indescribable, and we feel that we are being looked down upon! In fact, the reason for this is very understandable!

2.What they see is only the surface. However, it is through this superficial phenomenon that many people can be blinded.

I don't know if everyone feels like this, men and women quarrel together. Whether the woman is the right party or the wrong party, as long as the two people quarrel, many people watching subconsciously feel that the woman is messing around and making trouble! Although it is said that men and women are equal in this society, many times this is still not the case!

I always feel that I am being looked down upon by others, but in fact, this is indeed the case!

So in order not to let our bright female compatriots be looked down upon, please try not to make a big noise like a shrew, and protect your face at all times!

I don't know where I will tell you that I cherish and know how precious you are. . . When will all our emotions be able to control ourselves and others... In ancient times, Xiao was close to spring, and the bright moon and yin eyes tasted each other. . .

Who knows for whom the wind and rain fall, and where sorrow adds autumn... In fact, sometimes it's not that you feel despised by others, it's just what you feel in your heart, and people can see you clearly! If you've been hurt, can't you express it through your emotions?

I don't think so, it's hurt, some people like to cry, some people like to drink, some people like to make a lot of noise, it's just a way for everyone to vent. You must not think that others have seen clearly, the first thing you have to do is yourself, and don't look down on yourself.

It's because after calming down, you will feel that your behavior just now is very rude and vulgar.

Being hurt by someone you love. My heart is like falling into a river of ice, always looking forward to the day when I can be with her forever.

It's distressing, what else does it feel, don't you feel it? I felt like I wanted to kill her.

See if he likes you or not. Someone who really likes you. All you have done to him is pain.

Gray that feeling. Maybe he doesn't feel the pain in his heart. Manifested on the face.

But his heart hurts. There is pain in your own throat. That's what a man is.

If it's not someone who really likes you. I guess he doesn't care.

It feels like my heart is drifting in the autumn rain.

I want to know.

。Just go and try it for yourself, that feeling, desolate!!

If you are hurt by a very important person, it is a feeling of being cut like a knife, I can't believe and I am disappointed in everything, as if there is darkness in front of me, and I can't see the road ahead. If you are hurt by an unimportant person, although it is not so serious, you will still have a pimple in your heart, and you will make yourself cranky. It's all my own experience.

I think what you mean is: the feeling of being hurt by the other party in love, I think that after being hurt by the person you like and love, it will be a feeling of physical and mental exhaustion, wanting to cry without tears, and being in a dilemma, so when we are not invested in love, we must first think clearly about what we are pursuing? (He) she is not what he wants to pursue, what attitude he holds to interact with him (her), because sometimes he will hurt the other party unconsciously, and sometimes just because of a sentence, the other party will care very much, at this time you will be very tired, first of all, you must train yourself into a good body in order not to be swayed in love

If he loves you, then you hurt him, he will be very sad, because if he really loves someone, he will not care about others, but often think of the person he loves, and when you hurt him, he will feel that everything is very sad. If you don't love him, you can tactfully reject him, or promise to be friends with him, so that he will feel a little relieved.

Brother, both of us are from here, and to be honest, it feels really uncomfortable.

It feels like people are all cheap bones, you don't cherish her well, and you don't remember her well.

It could all be like this, and then it all became like this.

If you're good to each other.

The other party will hurt you.

Explain that the other person is an inappropriate person to be friends with.

You need to choose the right people to be friends with.

Choose the wrong person to make friends.

This is not the right behavior.

It should be that there is a problem with character, people who eat soft and are afraid of hard bullying people who are soft and afraid of hard, stay away from this kind of person, don't contact people like him.

The answer, from the analysis of the description, may be that he has masochistic tendencies.

Or maybe he meets someone he likes.

You are not an ordinary soft-hearted, so the place will bully you without a bottom line! Be brave and strong! Learn to live with ambition! Otherwise, you will only be looked down upon.

I'm just too soft-hearted, others hurt me, I'm afraid of being distressed, as long as I say a word, I just can't pull my face, I also think that this is not a disease, and the result of a good heart is to be bullied.

Then you need to see if this person is worth it to see whether this person is intentional, or whether it is intentional, if it is not intentional, then you can understand you, and you can also be soft-hearted, but if it is intentional, it is better to be decisive.

Question: I have been with my boyfriend for half a year, he has depression, I sympathize with him, I am with him, at first he was very good to me, and then I got pregnant, because I found out that he likes to play motorcycles, spend money and quarrel, I fight, and now we have lived together for half a year, and he always tells me to break up, and when we first started together, I told him to break up, and he threatened me to die.

Questioning, I found that every time I fall in love, I always can't let go of others, I know that I am not wrong, I can not contact him, but I can't do it, my chest is like a fire, I can't help but contact him, rent back the house to see if he is at home.

I'm very nice to him, I cook for him, he goes out to play with friends every day, and I'm always changing myself.

Do I need to go to the hospital to see a psychiatrist, I can't do anything, I feel so tired, I can't let go.

If you can, you can go to a psychiatrist for counseling.

You're very good to him.

Question: Every time he quarrels, he stays with his friends every day Usually he goes out to play every day, I have no opinion, why is he not sad to break up, is it really not in love?

Question: Can I see a psychiatrist to cure this condition? I felt so tired that I couldn't take it anymore. I had a relationship like this before, but when I met him later, I liked him a lot, so I forgot about him.

It's just some of your emotional thinking problems, for example, you may be the type who gets deeper and deeper, and then a lot of things may not be able to think about and let go.

You are a kind girl who always has the greatest kindness to the world and others, but you have to understand that your kindness is not used to be ruined by others, you need to find a boy who is as kind as you to love, not try to warm an ice with your true heart. If you really love him, just wait for him to really get better, and then be with him, you are not afraid to wait for a good meal, and a good man is not afraid. Do you understand?

If you are mired in the mud, how can you keep your heart pure.