I told my best friend that I liked her, and her best friend told me to confess!

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't accept it, you don't accept you, for no reason.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's really hard to understand falling in love in this world, there is unrequited love, there are two loves, and confession is also a very courageous thing, sometimes when you take that step, it may be the sea and the sky, but it can also be hurt. Confessing to a girl that the girl is about to agree, but at this time the girl's best friend does not agree, this kind of thing is actually very common, and it must be persistent efforts to encounter this situation, maybe the girl's best friend just thinks that the boy does not insist and is timid, sometimes this is actually a test.

    If it is just because the girl's best friend disagrees and retreats, then the two girls will definitely feel that such a boy is very bold, and this ultimately depends on what the girl's wishes are, falling in love is a matter for both parties, and the girlfriend is actually just a bystander, playing a reference role.

    If a girl is more shy, you can first understand the other party's inner thoughts, so as to avoid embarrassment on both sides, and then ask tentatively, what is the reason why this girlfriend disagrees? In this way, we can prescribe the right medicine, and if we take this as a test, then we need to make persistent efforts.

    After all, to love someone is to say it boldly, if you haven't tried, you will definitely regret it, don't put too much pressure on girls at this time, you can continue to care about each other as before, a girl is willing to give you this opportunity to care, it means that she doesn't hate you in her heart.

    In addition, some girls are actually more scared now, and the boys are only enthusiastic for a while, but after this stage, they will immediately turn their faces, and there are many people like this, so the other party wants to test you more, and it is still understandable.

    At this time, even if you are pursuing a girl, don't use too urgent ways, which will cause a lot of pressure on the other party, and it is easy to cause disgust to the girl, you can try to choose some romantic and warm ways, of course, you should also choose a reasonable way according to the girl's character, don't let the two parties not get off the stage.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Continue to pursue, and it's just an excuse for girlfriends to disagree.

    When confessing to a girl, but her best friend disagrees, she can only say that this is an excuse, the girl does not agree and it is not her best friend's turn to decide, the girl is an independent person, how can she let her best friend control her own will? It can only be said that this is an excuse, indicating that your girlfriend is not very satisfied with your performance, you have to continue to insist on pursuing his constant confession, impress him with your sincerity, and believe that he will be able to agree to you soon.

    When pursuing a girl, try to be friends with the girl's best friend, don't have contradictions and hostility with the girl's best friend, otherwise you will be hindered a lot when you pursue the girl, they will always fan the flames next to the girl, let the girl raise the requirements for you, even if the girl is very satisfied with you and likes you, but always afraid to agree to you because of the face of the best friend's statement, worried about playing easily, your pursuit will have no face in front of the best friend, so you must plan well in advance when pursuing the girl.

    When confessing to the girl, he wanted to agree, but his best friend disagreed, if the best friend was very active next to him, he could communicate with the girl he pursued in private, and tell the girl that he should not let the best friend interfere with the relationship between you and him, because the relationship is a matter between two people, and the third person is not allowed to point fingers next to him, let alone let the third person play a decisive role, if the girl is reasonable, she will understand this truth and carefully consider the relationship with you.

    If you continue to pursue and confess many times, the girl always says that her best friend does not agree, because her best friend does not agree and does not accept your pursuit, then such a girl has no need to continue to insist on the pursuit, at this time you can break up as soon as possible and find a girl who suits you, because you are always swayed by your best friend, which means that the girl has no independent thoughts, can not think about problems on her own, and her lifelong events are subject to the intervention of her best friend, such a girl has no opinion after marriage, and it is difficult to pick up the burden of the family.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In such a situation, I personally think that you should communicate effectively with the other person's girlfriend, explain your inner thoughts, and hope to get her understanding, and then you can send her some small gifts to effectively impress her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If this happens, you should talk to the girl's best friend so that you can get the other party's approval.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think the key at this time is that your girlfriend doesn't have much to do with her girlfriend, and girlfriends can't play a decisive role.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Although you have chosen the answer you are satisfied with and you should have made a decision, after all, I said that when you are in a good mood, well, when I talk nonsense.

    1. If you want to be friends with that girl after refusing, it is necessary to pay attention to your words, and if the girl has been friends with you before, then she may be risking a "will lose a friend" mentality, so there is a great chance of being a friend (continuing).

    Second, girlfriends. If you like it, you have to fight for this, I agree, but if it hurts the friendship of two girls because of this, it's good to think twice.

    In fact, the outcome is determined by the way you speak, your attitude towards the matter, and how you deal with it.

    Oh, and there are temptations: mobile phone text messages, Internet means can also be used, you can often send some half-joking words to communicate with the other party, so that while hinting, while observing. If you like your best friend, go to it, this kind of thing is generally over if you have feelings, you see that the girlfriends are both very good, but you don't know what cracks are in your heart, like to be together, but I still advise you to understand what character you fancy and that girl, if the girl is really good, just be together, if the girl is not very good to persuade you to change people, there are more girls, why bother with this kind of thing, directly ask her if she likes you and will bring them pain, or wait for the girl to tell you in person is more reliable, Sometimes it's not that I like you but the charm of the two girls.,There's not much affection.,I still think I know a lot about the relationship between girls.,It's more reliable for you.,The rest of the rest is your own consideration,

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is inherently selfish, a female friend confesses to you, she takes the initiative, but you haven't reached a certain level of popularity, or you simply like such a girl, and you are worried that she will be hurt, which means that you are still very affectionate. A man who values feelings is easy to be seen by women, otherwise she will not take the initiative to confess to you. You don't need to worry about this situation.

    If you don't say anything when she confesses to you, and you keep the same attitude, then your behavior will not hurt her in the future. Love is afraid of half-pushing, and you need to be decisive, not hesitant, otherwise, that female friend will launch a bigger offensive against you, and she will be vulnerable when you will not agree to her in the future. If you like her best friend, you can show it to your face, and she will compare the woman, so that your female friend will definitely give you to her best friend selflessly, and your friendship can still be maintained.

    Just like Zhang Yusheng sang, "Even if love comes to an end and we can't keep it anymore, we can still be friends and friends." What do you think? I hope you are satisfied.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, if you don't like her, don't agree, it will hurt you very much, it's better to refuse in person, then it'll be fine after a while.

    Secondly, if you like her best friend, I don't recommend that you confess directly, girls are actually very resistant to confession, they prefer an ambiguous relationship after having a good impression of each other.

    Again, I still suggest that you hint more, flirt more, don't easily pierce the window paper, and the love that goes both ways is the most beautiful.

    Finally, I would like to remind you that in the final analysis, men still need strength, whether they are rich, handsome, or in good shape, at least to make the girl feel that you are worthy of her liking, so instead of pursuing her, you should work hard to improve yourself to attract her.

    Above, I hope it can help you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I like her, and she likes me. But I'm most afraid of her saying that yes, we like each other, it's just the emotions of best friends. So at this time, I don't dare to pierce this layer of like. I can't think that we are happy together, so I invite each other to try to be boyfriend and girlfriend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Thank you for your confession, you are very good and touched, but the touched is not heartbeat, in comparison, I prefer your best friend, please fulfill it, thank you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In this case, whoever you like should be directly true to your inner thoughts, and do not let yourself go into trouble because of other considerations.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Just say no! After all, it's not good for you or for her if it drags on.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Sorry, I'll do a mission.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I can't make a decision for you. But I can give you some advice for your reference:

    1.Consider your relationship with your girlfriend. If you are in a stable relationship with your girlfriend, you should seriously consider the consequences as this may affect your relationship.

    If you and your girlfriend are in an unstable relationship, you may consider confessing to your girlfriend's best friend, but be aware that future developments may affect your relationship.

    2.Consider your relationship with your girlfriend. You should think about your relationship with your best friend, if you are already very good friends, you can confess to her, but if your relationship is not too familiar yet, you need to build a better friendship first.

    3.Consider your girlfriend's feelings. You need to seriously consider your girlfriend's feelings, and if she doesn't feel good about you, your confession may make her feel embarrassed or embarrassed. You need to respect her feelings and don't force her to accept you.

    4.Consider the consequences. If you decide to confess to your girlfriend's best friend, you need to think about the consequences. Whatever the outcome, you need to respect her decision and don't let it affect your friendship with her.

    To sum up, you need to carefully consider the possible consequences of this decision and respect the feelings of your girlfriend's best friend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1. Determine how the other party feels about you before confessing.

    If a boy blindly confesses to a girl, it will often be in vain, and confessing to a girl is not to see how much you love her, but to see how she feels about you. If the other party has been treating you as an ordinary friend, it means that it is not appropriate for you to confess to the other party at this time.

    2. Release your love to the other person.

    Since you like each other, you have to let the other party know that a crush is a cowardly performance in the eyes of girls, and will not be liked by girls, and if you confess to each other when the other party is unprepared, it will basically end in failure. If you like a girl, it's best to appear directly as a suitor and don't leave the other person unprepared.

    3. Choose a good time to confess.

    We all know that the success rate of doing the right thing at the right time will be high, and the same is true for confession, before confessing, we need to know how the girl is feeling during this time, if the other party is troubled by something, then it is not suitable to confess to the other party.

    The right time is when the girl is in a good mood or needs someone to rely on, in this case to confess to the girl, the success rate of confession is very high. Of course, some special days are also good times to confess and return to the phone, such as Valentine's Day, girls' birthdays, etc.

    4. Choose the right occasion for confession.

    Choose the right time to confess, and don't forget that the occasion of confession is also very important, many people will choose to confess to girls in the square or a place with more people, but this is easy to make girls unable to get off the stage, it is recommended that the occasion for confession should be chosen a quieter place, such as a café, park and other times when you are alone.

    5. To confess, choose to confess in person.

    Nowadays, many people confess because of shyness and other reasons, they will choose to confess through chat tools, letters and other confessions, but it is better to confess in person.

    6. Don't give up easily.

    Many boys give up easily after their confession is rejected, but in fact, many people succeed in the second confession, so the first confession is rejected, don't be disheartened, as long as the girl does not distance herself from you afterwards, it means that the other party is just not ready, and you still have to test you.

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