Loving someone, it hurts from the beginning, Maybe I really owe her too much in my last life

This heartache is a bit inexplicable? Can't read it? Don't love her, heartache for her? Frequent quarrels? And it's not good for you right now?

In fact, I am also very sad sometimes, and my mother also said that when people are old, they are easy to be moved.

I feel right, we are all growing up, and in the process of growing up, we will encounter difficulties of one kind or another, physical torture, mental destruction... As a result, it is easy to cry when I see a touching picture now, and I will cry when I think of my own difficulty. Being easily moved shows that you are a person with a conscience and a kind person.

But we can't live in this kindness, we have to face life positively. An old man of the talent show said: In the past, we talked about survival (just to solve the problems of food, clothing, and reproduction), but now we talk about life (spiritual relaxation and enjoyment).

Do you think about it? You can't let yourself be in a negative state because of the previous lovelorn, the depth of the previous "love", or your own misfortune and the hardships of others. You should be a little more energetic and sunny, so that you can have the motivation to live and make people feel how happy it is to be with you again.

As long as you do, you won't "go on like this".

Try to concentrate on something personal, like dedicating yourself to your career. In this rational society, it is easy to get hurt if you are too emotional!

You don't actually love her in your heart, you just want to find a support, I feel that you are suitable to be friends, but not to be husband and wife.

Don't lose faith in yourself.

The fate is very deep, I should have known each other a long time ago, but I don't feel it in my consciousness, since there is no fate, let's bless each other.

You have realized the true drop of love.

You really have a lot on your mind.

And you treat your wife like this.

You will be happy.

Actually, I think so too.

It's wrong because he was an enemy in his previous life.

Not necessarily. Maybe in your last life, you did something other bad that made you fall in love with someone who didn't love you. It may not be the bad things you do, but the bad things done by others that are retribution on you.

Cause and effect are the interaction of karma, and you can't simply think that what you suffer in this life is the sin you did in your previous life, but there is only this possibility. If it were so simple to understand cause and effect, then there wouldn't be so many tragic things happening in time. But one thing is certain, today's results are the result of yesterday, and what you do today will also affect future results.

Therefore, we must do everything and behave as a person, be open-minded, tolerant, forgiving, and kind, all so that there will not be so many tragic things happening tomorrow.

After all, this is groundless, and I can make it up as I want.

As an excellent, well, I don't even know what I'm talking about.

There is a certain truth in what the Buddha said, all opinions are owed in the previous life, and they must be repaid in this life.

When I was with her, she was very nice to me, but I didn't have a chance to repay her.

Yes. I'm about to get married, but I can't give her a house, and I'm very indebted.

Yes I used to be a green girl, and I still feel like a piece of trash.

I'm very confused, why don't I know the things of the previous life in this life, I am a simple and kind person in this life, and the bad fate of the previous life has to be paid back in this life.

Not really. We treat each other sincerely, and we will not owe anything even if we break up later.

How to be a Buddha.

One day the heart of Daoxin asked the three ancestors.

Monk Can: "What is the Buddha's heart?" ”du

Seng Can asked rhetorically: "What kind of heart are you today?"

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Daoxin said, "I have no heart now! ”

The monk said, "If you have no heart, how can the Buddha have a heart? ”

The master and apprentice began to play a meditation machine, and then Daoxin asked Seng Chan for advice on how to free himself from bondage.

Monk Can asked, "Who binds you?" ”

Daoxin said: "No one is bound".

Then the monk said: "Since there is no one to bind you, it is liberation!" ”

If it is a debt in the previous life, then I don't know if he owes me or I owe him, we are still finished, and it is over.

During the time I was with her, I was not able to meet her needs, and she was always by my side.

No, I don't think anything is indebted, I like him from the bottom of my heart, I like him from the bottom of my heart, I want to be with him without reservation, I came back and was abandoned, but I always live in my memories, and it's good to have good memories with me.

I didn't have any money for a long time with her and couldn't give her what she wanted, and that's where I felt indebted to her.

I didn't think about his feelings in anything, but he was always nice to me and didn't hate me.

I was too headstrong when I was with him, and many times I didn't care about his feelings.

She was very nice to me, even if I didn't care about her at all.

Those who fall short will have retribution, and they will not die well every step of the way.

Who's at who's loss? Single-mindedly with him as a result?

I don't owe anything and I've never been in love at 30 right away.

Didn't go a long way with Yu Owed...

1.The distant starlight can only be gazed,

There was once a sincere love in front of me, I didn't cherish it before I regretted it, and the most painful thing in the world is nothing more painful. If Heaven were giving me a chance, I would say three words to that girl: "I love you."

If I had to add a term to this love, I would like it to be 10,000 years!!

Love mainly depends on how you treat it, plain love is true, when you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love, this everyone's way of loving is different, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because you do not protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, will think that it will not last long To love someone, you have to trust each other, to love someone, to understand each other, to love someone, to be tolerant of love, to love someone, to be broad-minded, to love someone, to respect each other's thoughts and opinions, to love someone, to support them a lot, not to block them, to love someone, to face them, when they can't accompany you, don't complain, to say to them with a smile, I'm very happy, to love someone, to hide their inner fragility and grievances, don't let them know Love someone, too much, too much love, maybe some people can't do it The important point is that love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him, when you fall in love, you must make him happy, as long as he is happy and happy, it is the most important thing...

Love is a sad fairy tale.

Anyone who has read it has left more or less regrets When we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we won't be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.

。Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner.

Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

What is love like? Love is like Sunday morning, an old song sings.

What is love? Why do Orthodox people promise life and death? An old poem reads.

Love is the rain of spring. The place moistened by love always seems to be vibrant, every bush of weeds is delicate, and every sapling is delicate. When spring comes, the raindrops of love are like pearls, always strung up and scattered, when the spring is gone, the little flowers of love are either fruitful or withered.

Love is the wind of autumn, when love is gone, it is like the wind and sand blowing through the field, everywhere is a withered yellow, leaving only bleakness and bleakness, and full of desolation. The autumn wind swept away the yellowed branches and leaves, leaving behind the strong branches and buds of life. When the next spring comes, when the spring rain drops and the spring breeze blows, the world will wake up again, and the shoots of life will hang on the green branches again.

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

1I saw you hide yourself with a leaf, but I laughed and flicked the dirt on you.2 I am a wandering soul in the streets, and you are the one who smells me.

3. Choose to turn back in the process of escaping.

4 At last I picked the star, and it was dawn, but I didn't know where to put it.5 You wrote me in the past, and I wrote you all my life.

6 Angels are the ones who come to you quietly when the whole world is gone from you7 I have burned the world and are waiting for you to come back in the ruins.

8 And while I was wondering whether the feather would stop for me, it fluttered away.9 The drizzle fell on the creek, and it got goosebumps.

10I wanted to give you a piece of fruit, but you gave me a forest.

11Who hath drawn love into a long thread of silk, and hath made the people of the world his chrysalis?

12The bamboo cutter wants to hear the melodious flute, but he breaks the heart of the bamboo13If one day we are not together, we will be like together14Take my hand and walk with your eyes closed, and you will not get lost.

15Those who used to say that they would never be separated have long been scattered to the ends of the earth.16 One of the sad things in your life is when you meet someone who is full of meaning to you, but you find it at the end.

17When you sow your own seed, you will not envy the fruit of others.

18 He who has no shadow. It looks bright.

19Ice withstood the bitter cold of winter, but it was defeated by the warmth of spring.

20 Loneliness, with this moonlight, is coming to me. Me and my loneliness have nowhere to escape21In my world, there is no better work than you.

22 The glass opened his mouth to speak, and every word was a last word.

23 How dare that man claim to be pure? Look at your eyes, there is a cloudiness 24, and low-key is emphasis.

25 In the moment of shame, I looked down and saw the starlight betrayed by the night.26 Chewing on the ethereal dreams of the past, only you are clear.

27We are one another's ledger, and there is nothing but goodness written in it.

28 You are very powerful, there are only two things that you will not do - this will not be, that will not be 29 No one should support me, everyone is a complete individual.

30 You are unlikely to know my age, because he changes every year31 My bills are always wet, because when I give me money, he always cries so much.32 When love is a thing of the past, another love comes, but it is a thing of the past. Another love comes, and in the end it becomes a thing of the past. Life is like climbing in the past, and only in the end can it be successful!