What should I do if I encounter family affection on the road of love?

What the hell does that mean! It's a conflict between love and family affection! If so, try to adjust and do your best! It is best not to give up on either side, because giving up is a last resort!! So don't give up easily!

There is no right or wrong in love If you think it's wrong to love someone, then isn't it hard for you to love the person you love? Do you think about this while loving him and her? Even if others think that it is a mistake for you to love him and her, then you must first think about why you loved him and her in the first place, since you love, so don't give up easily, because you really love him and her, love itself is selfish, and the harm is inevitable, if you can't stand these injuries, don't say love.

If you have an awkward relationship with him or her for various reasons, don't say it out of the heat of the moment"Break up"If that's the case, it's a mistake for you to love her because you hurt him and her. There is no right or wrong in love, as long as you love seriously, love with your heart will definitely be good.

Love, like love songs, is the highest level of lingering. The most poignant thing is not revenge, but regret. The best love must have regrets.

That regret turned into an aftermath, and I kept it in my heart for a long time. The most poignant love, you don't have to call the sky and grab the earth, just look at each other without words. Disappointment, sometimes, is also a blessing.

Because there is something to expect, there will be disappointment. Regret is also a kind of happiness. Because there are still things that you regret.

Pursue love, and then find that love has always been a thousand times...

Time will make you understand love, time can prove love, and it can also overthrow love. There is no kind of grief that cannot be alleviated by time. If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

How nice would it be if all the sorrow, the pain, the failures were fake? It's a pity that there are a lot of false feelings and false meanings in the world, and their own pain, failure, and sorrow are always true...

I always put family affection first.

Parents will always be the greatest parents in the world! They may never say they love you, but their love for you remains the same. In a word, every look is love!

You should keep your eyes open to discover the happiness around you! As you said, it's not a pleasure for you to take revenge on your parents in this way. That's because you love your parents, and you don't even know it.

Who else but your parents will love you without asking for anything in return? Cherish the people in front of you.

We are not children anymore, parents are not good, they have paid in order to let us come to the world, forgive them, what we have to do is what we have to do for our children, let go, they can't give warmth, you have to make yourself live well, for yourself.

No matter what you do, you hurt the person who loves you the most, of course you will suffer, family affection can never be changed, and love after marriage will also become family affection, friendship ......, friendship can't be said because some friendships are too easy to change, there are really irreplaceable, depending on who you meet, as long as it's in your attitude, don't rebel, you want to reject, I hope you balance these!

Your psychological imbalance often leads to rebellion and extremes, when you are in a difficult situation, you should warm yourself with an optimistic attitude and the love around you, and when you are high, you should always reflect on yourself to stay sober, it is not who treats you badly but you give up on yourself

If you don't treat it sincerely, how can you make others sincere? Parents love you, maybe in the wrong way, but the affection of your parents is true, and it is stupid to use your own misfortune to take revenge on the person who loves you! Don't be awkward anymore, grow up, have responsibility, and look like a man!

Filial piety to parents, love lovers, a positive image will make you more attractive!

Brother, our parents gave us a life, and we would not exist in this world without them, so be kind to your parents.

Friends grow up with us, experience with us, even if there is no warmth, there is still love, isn't it?

It takes a lifetime to love someone, even if you have more than one lover, but you always need someone who can say it to grow old together, right?

Look at the point, hehe.

You have to know that our parents gave us life, and they love us no matter what, as the saying goes: flesh and blood are the closest. When you are wronged, think about it, or love your relatives, will take the initiative to stand up and be your strong backing.

Therefore, no matter how our parents have treated us, we must not hold grudges against them, and there is no resentment in the world that can compare to the hard work of our parents who conceived in October and left us. Brother, I hope you can realize this while you are still young, while your parents are still alive, leave behind the troubles and sorrows of the past, be filial to them, and experience life well!

Family affection is important. But love can't be parted with. Your future needs to be created by yourself.

Look less at what others think. Remember, you are who you are. You have your own ideas.

Have your own future. Don't care what other people think. Reward them with your actions and let them know that you made the right choice.

I hope that you can hold hands and walk through any ups and downs in the future. Prosperity makes friends, adversity tries them. Then you will understand whether she will accompany you to the end.

If you really like to really choose her, I'm sure your parents won't object. Because they want you to be happy, too.

If you really love each other, you must learn to endure loneliness. True love can stand the test, you should be optimistic, take this time as a test of your love, if this difficulty can't be overcome, how can you be together for a long time in the future.

You can continue to be in a relationship without letting your mom know. There are two more years, study hard, and when you have a job and a career, you will have the ability to take care of her, be able to give her promises, and be able to afford to promise, then you will have a showdown with your parents, I don't think any parent will ruin the happiness of their children! Come on!

I understand you very well.,Maybe your mother isn't used to her.,,College is to meet new people.,Can't be a nerd all the time.。。 If you think you and her are really in love and don't regret it,,You can do what you want,,Some things are always listening to your parents may not be a permanent good thing,,Make your own decisions to bear your own,,Mom is also for your own good, although she is also a little feudal,,But believe me,,If you break up because of this,,,I believe you will be unhappy for the rest of your life.。。 That's how my ex-boyfriend broke up with me.,,The power of love is really great,,So I think we're very similar,,I support you,,I'm sure your mother will understand.。。

As someone like your girlfriend who left the country, I also deeply understand your difficulties. Mine and him are also in a dilemma, but we both know it, so I stand on the united front with him, now is to get along well now, waiting for the opportunity. Besides, even if we can't enter the wedding hall together, we have no regrets.

Because we always think that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an important issue of family harmony, we used to cry like a child when we mentioned this, and we were all reluctant. Besides, we are only 2 years old, you are a boy, in your mother's heart, you are still early to talk about marriage. You don't have to make too many promises, just love and study hard, and you should also understand that we are still young and have many variables.

If the relationship is stable, everything will be easy to do, work together, and wait for the opportunity... Look at it from a distance, and you will be more rational and see more clearly. I just realized it, and I said it... Bless you all.

Since you love her, don't give up, as long as you study hard, you will definitely be able to find a good job in the future, but the family will not disagree, it is best not to cut off contact now, just don't be found by the family. I'm also from Shanxi, and the girls in Shanxi are good, really! Good luck!!

Now there are still two years to go, you can love each other well, and when you work, you will take her over to work together, of course, you can rent a house if you work a little far away from home, and when the money is earned, the job is stable, and you are not young, your experience can solve the matter, and when you are older, if you don't go on a blind date, basically your mother will not be too opposed (as long as you remember not to mention your girlfriend's marriage, so that your mother does not intensify the rejection psychology, and then it will come naturally).

Your own path is your own walking, not your parents helping you to walk, and you will not regret it after you are determined how you should do it! As for family problems, you can temporarily move your relationship underground, try not to let your family know, work first (if your girlfriend loves you, she will learn to spend it together)! When I get almost at a certain point, I will mention it to my parents, and I think they will understand!

Isn't she willing to go to Zhejiang with you, if you do, you can only slowly move your family with your heart. There are no parents in the world who don't want their children to be happy, so you can start with this. Sometimes this kind of thing can't be rushed, and my parents are not a little against my boyfriend, but I like it, what can they do, the road ahead can only go slowly.

As long as you know that you are not wrong with your choice!

Why should you let go, since she loves you and you love him, don't let go! Your mom isn't actually against you being with her, she just doesn't want you to fall in love so early... She hopes that you will talk about it after you have a successful career, you can just date like this, and wait for your career to succeed and then come to get your parents' consent, isn't it better, neither hurting your parents nor hurting your girlfriend...

We encountered the same problem, the difference is that we both have worked, I am from Langfang, Hebei, he is from Shandong, although it is not very far away, but my family just disagrees, I am the eldest daughter in my family, many things need me to come out, I told my mother that she became popular all of a sudden, let me immediately cut off relations with him, I also had to follow her first, behind my back I didn't really break up, we have lived together for two years, I'm sure I won't give up, we will work together, You two are still young, don't give up, come on!

You don't even have the most basic now, how do you love her, you're still young, you haven't graduated! There is no economy**, you should study hard, society is complicated, this girl is so good, don't give up, if you really love her, you have to be responsible for her! You can take your time!

Learn it first, step by step!

It's absolutely impossible to break up with her, how can you live up to the person who is sincere to you?! You can make some achievements to let your mother know that you are very capable, and you can also find a way to let your mother know that she is good, so that your mother likes her from the bottom of her heart, so that she will not hate her too much.

You can temporarily go underground and not let your family know, work first, and then mention it to your parents when you have saved enough money for marriage, I think they have no reason to object.

Discuss well with your family to express your position, there are some things that you need to insist on, after all, life is your own, and I believe that a family will always support you.

After you graduate, you will officially mention it to your family when your job is stable, but life is very realistic, and I don't know if your relationship will be so resolute by then. Time is scary.

I think if I had to choose, it would be better to choose my family!

My mother won't let me find outsiders, and I don't think her family will be satisfied with you if you're with her.

You're cute, alas, everyone knows that there is no poverty and beggars if there is a good way, what a good way, I tell you, live happily ever after with your beloved woman.

A person's life needs to be surrounded by various emotions in order to have fulfillment and happiness. If family affection is like a great river, it has been nurturing and nourishing you since you were not born, and has been with you for a lifetime; Then love is like a trickle of spikes, warmly infiltrating every inch of your skin and reaching your heart. People who have both love and affection are happy and happy.

But when love meets affection, how will we choose?

On the one hand, there are parents who are as kind as mountains and have nurturing feelings, and on the other side are you and I are deeply in love with the lover who can't wait to be together every day, for yourself, both sides are very important, just like the back of your hand, no matter which side you give up, it will be heartbreaking. People are not plants and trees, who can be ruthless? Filial piety comes first, and the first of many emotions should be family affection, because our parents not only gave us life, but also nurtured us to grow.

Family affection is selfless and great, after all, blood is thicker than water! "Pity the hearts of parents all over the world", a simple sentence interprets all the love of parents for their children, as children, how can they bear not to listen to their persuasion, and to break their hearts? However, the Buddha said:

500 times of looking back in the previous life, in exchange for the passing of this life, and a person you like to know and love, is how many times in the previous life to look back to cultivate the fate, how can you be willing to give up? Is it necessary to wronged yourself for the sake of the laughter of your parents, let this unforgettable love melt into a regret that will last forever, and marry someone you don't love, and go over the life of the year? Is it worth it to spend a lifetime of pain to go to the wishes of your parents?

I believe that the original intention of parents is to hope that their children can live a happier life, but they interfere with their children's marriage and love in the name of love and by dismantling their standards, but it may bring their children a lifetime of pain, which may not be what they have thought of, and they do not want to see.