He was very active before he was in love, and passive after confirming the relationship

This is normal......

Think about it from his point of view. He can't chase you forever, always be centered on you, and always revolve around you :)

He also has his own business, his own studies or his career.

Maybe it's the first love, and you can naturally accept it in the future

You think, if he plays with you all day now, doesn't enrich and improve himself, doesn't work well in the future, can't make money, and can't live a happy life with you, then you have to blame him

So he's going to have to hurry up and fight hard now :) Of course, I don't know if he doesn't contact you if he's busy with his studies and work, and ......If it's a game, it's very wrong, educate well :p

Of course, you should also talk to him and tell him that you want him to contact you more, otherwise you will be unhappy.

Over time, he will also know ......

If he doesn't contact for a day, you will be angry, and he will have to spend time coaxing for a long time, and it will not be cost-effective for him @@ So he will take the initiative to contact ...... in the future

Or you simply have to be contacted every 12 hours ... Over time, he will become a habit

If you can't do it again, you will cold him. You don't contact him, bear with ......Although I know it's hard to ......

See how many days he can not contact you......

If you don't contact him, he's gone, and he doesn't contact you for many days......Then it's good to ......

Liberated ......

First, it is possible that you regret it and find something better.

Second, I was afraid that I wouldn't get it before I fell in love, so I took the initiative, and now I will slack off if I get it.

3. It's possible that she just wants to use you to practice.

Your countermeasures. 1. Be kind to him and let him know that you are the best.

2. Go with the flow and properly show him what you think, and ask him to care more about you.

3. Dump him decisively.

Of course, the premise is that you have to determine exactly which situation it is.

This is a harbinger of a breakup.

You'd better be mentally prepared in advance.

Usually when you are in love, you should be very close. Nothing alienates this statement.

This is indeed a harbinger of a breakup. Don't take the initiative to find him. I can't get it.

Good love should be interactive.

That's the case, so is my boyfriend, I am so envious when I see other couples sticking together every day, but every couple has their way of getting along, give each other more space, and you don't have to stick together every day if you really love each other, change your mood to ask him to dinner, tell him what you really think, good luck!

Alas, I guess men are like that, as if I'm in a similar situation to you.

I don't understand what a man's thoughts are.

Did you break through the last line of defense.

When you fall in love, after determining the relationship, both men and women must go out from time to time to make an appointment for a meal, so in the end, should they be active in love, and who should be passive? My point of view is that it is advisable for the man to take the initiative.

1.The man took the initiative and looked gentlemanly. The woman is passive and reserved. In the traditional concept of the Chinese nation, the man should take the initiative and the woman should be reserved. Although the old traditions of the past are not popular now, the man can take the initiative and show a more gentlemanly demeanor.

If two closed-camera people fall in love, and the woman has always taken the initiative, the woman will have other ideas, and will think that the boy doesn't like her, otherwise why not take the initiative to invite. will suspect that it is wishful thinking.

2.Whoever is quick to lose his temper will take the initiative. When two people fall in love together, it also depends on their temperament.

Some people are born slowly, and their feelings and actions are relatively slow, and if you let him take the initiative, he will think about it for a long time. People with a more impatient temper can't wait for him, and would rather take the initiative to speak first.

When I was in Beijing, I met a pair of lovers, the boy is from the south, the girl is from the northeast, this boy is more shy, what is not good at speaking, and his personality is slow. The girl in the Northeast is more vigorous and resolute, doing things neatly, just do it, if it doesn't work, if it doesn't work, it's not good, and the woman always takes the initiative when the two people are together. Therefore, the man's initiative or the woman's initiative is also related to the personality.

Today's society is very open, and it is not surprising that either side takes the initiative, whether it is a man chasing a woman or a woman chasing a man. If both men and women are willing to return to the wheel, I still advise boys to take this step boldly and take the initiative.