What to do if you are married but still love the girl before 10

You and your first love have been separated and reunited before, and the situation is not very stable.

And, according to what you said, it was your first love who first proposed to break up and said that he would not be with you anymore.

Now that you're married, and your current wife is very nice to you and has a good temper, I think you should try to like your current wife. Cut off contact with your first love. To get married, it's better to find a stable one.

Besides, getting married is not a family wine, and you want to break up the wine. Even if you are divorced and plan to marry your first love, you still have to consider whether your first love's family agrees. Will their family accept a man who has only been married for 1 month and is a child's play when marriage

As LS said, don't have children for the time being. It's best to try hard and like your own wife. If there is really no way to control your feelings, then you will quickly cut through the mess, let go of other girls, and divorce.

Women are duplicitous. You are really, marriage is not child's play, how can it be done because of a momentary impulse. If the current wife feels good, and the life can continue to live, then continue, after all, many relatives and friends must know about the marriage at that time, and it will only be a month before leaving.

The influence is not good among relatives and friends, and if you can pass it, you will have more.

If you really can't get along with your current wife, and then you feel that you still love your former girlfriend, and you are sure that she also loves you, then divorce and still have no children. Hurry up and make a decision, it's good for everyone. If you choose your current life, don't keep an ambiguous relationship with your ex-girlfriend and be friends.

Dude, your heart is too greedy, now that you are married, your wife is still very good to you, but you have been thinking about the woman in the past, and you are very unfair to her.

In my opinion, life is like this, love is not the whole of life, at a certain time, nature will all return to peace, and living a good and stable life is the true meaning. Besides, it's a fact that you're married, do you need to divorce and marry your former girlfriend?

I think you should cherish the person in front of you. You are used to the fact that your wife is good to you now, you are a little numb, you only know that your wife should be good to you, but you think about your past girlfriend. When one day you lose the kindness of your current wife, you will miss your current wife, which is the selfishness and greed in people's hearts.

If you're a man, you should be responsible. Be good to your wife, feelings are cultivated, marriage is not a game, not only love can be happy. There are a few who can marry and have children with their true love.

If you love her, bless her, and of course, love your wife well. I hope you are happy.

It's up to you to decide this kind of thing, and no one else can decide it for you. In fact, I think marriage is marriage, love is love, and the two don't have to be combined ......But I suggest you try to love your wife! After all, it's impossible for you to think about it, and the more you think about it, the more painful it becomes.

Since you always quarreled before, then you can't accommodate each other, that is, you can't accommodate each other, so you have to find an introvert, otherwise you will live to old age and quarrel until you are old. The reason is not to be said, it is a cliché.

Your ex-girlfriend is extroverted, and your current wife is introverted, right?

Let's go, go again and the previous knot.

If you can get married, you naturally have reasons to get married, so cherish these reasons.

Or you'll be able to have an extramarital affair at most.

Let's live well when you get married Marriage is also a kind of responsibility, and if you don't grasp it, take it as a good memory and miss it quietly

Chase whichever you like, your own love is only in your own hands.

It's so unfair to you to your wife like this, no matter how good the girl was before, it's a thing of the past.

There could be a variety of reasons why you still like your ex-girlfriend after getting married, and here are some possible explanations:

1.Unfinished Emotions: Some people, after breaking up with their ex-girlfriend, may feel emotionally unfinished and still have emotional attachment to their ex-girlfriend. This can lead to emotional attachment to your ex-girlfriend even after being married.

2.Regret: Some people, after breaking up with their ex-girlfriend, may feel regret that they didn't make it to the end with her. This can lead to emotional attachment to your ex-girlfriend even after being married.

3.Freshness: Some people may have new feelings about their ex-girlfriend due to the lack of freshness in their married life. This freshness can give the false impression that you still have an emotional attachment to your ex-girlfriend.

4.Comparison: Some people may use their ex-girlfriend as an object of comparison because they don't get along well with their current wife, thinking that their ex-girlfriend is more gentle, considerate, etc. This psychology of comparison may lead to still emotional attachment to the ex-girlfriend.

Whatever the reason, if you are married, it is not appropriate to have emotional concern for calling your ex-girlfriend. It is recommended to deal with your emotional problems first, avoid causing harm to your wife Zheng Fang, and also avoid your own inner trouble. If you feel unable to deal with your emotional problems, you can seek help from a professional counsellor.

Maybe she still smells of your obsession.

In fact, sometimes people may not really understand their hearts, and sometimes there may be some factors such as loneliness, regret, unwillingness, etc. in the so-called love.

I just watched a set of dramas recently, and I was quite impressed. Female 1 and male 1 fell in love at first sight, everyone is a perfect match for people who are very serious about their feelings, and many small things seem to be pulling their fate, but then they couldn't be together because of each other's misunderstanding.

Then, each has a significant other, and a lot of things have happened during this period, although neither of them wants to delve into it, but in fact, they both feel that they haven't let go of each other yet.

Later, Male 2 (Female 1's husband) died in a traffic accident, and Female 2 (Male 1's girlfriend) also broke up with Male 1.

At this point, male 1 and female 1 finally have the opportunity to continue their relationship, in the place where they first met, it was very romantic, until the moment the two kissed, only to find that it was no longer the original thing, at this moment male 1 remembered his girlfriend who had broken up, female 1 also remembered her deceased husband, and the two realized that the person in their hearts was no longer the one in front of them.

Hehe, it seems like a lot of nonsense, in fact, I just want to say, you should first figure out what you really want? Think about it, if both the ex and the current one leave you, who do you want to get back the most? (Keep in mind that you can only choose one and you have to give up the other.) ）

If necessary, meet your ex-girlfriend, maybe you can find the answer in your heart when you meet her.

Don't contact your ex-girlfriend anymore, love just love, sincerely bless her, and then live your life well.

Anyway, I'm not married, everything is a good choice.

Everything will pass, everything will fade, and we will all grow old. Only alive has not changed. But in the end, they will all die, and I don't know how many years it will take to repair before we can meet again. At that time, will it be cherished?

You've all felt like this...So why do you need to get married? Was it child's play? Think clearly, figure it out, figure it out, what marriage and responsibility are, and love can't be compared with marriage Marriage and love are two different things.

Are you sure you love him yourself?

Does he love you too?

Thanks for having me! Everyone has selfish intentions.

Even if the person doesn't belong to you anymore, but.

There is still some sustenance in my heart, and she will care a little bit about her life, so when she learns that she is going to get married, she feels very sad, and there is a feeling of "I can't get what others can't get."

Let's be honest. When it comes to this, I will be overwhelmed at first.

You've pierced the paper.

You have to worry that she will leave you because you love her.

So you want to have her.

But I think it's necessary to make it clear that if she loves you and loves her and is afraid of losing you, she will try to convince you to ask you to forgive her, and you can also see if she really loves you. In fact, a smart woman will not tell you about her past, and a wise man will not ask a woman about her past, and you know her past because of external reasons.

There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love.

If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied. When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness?

Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love can be happy.

Think clearly, if you love each other, then stick to it and give her a warm home.