Why do girls find a partner who has no lower education than their own?

Updated on society 2024-04-28
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Mainly because of the following reasons:01. The other party's education is too low, and the happiness after marriage is not high; 02. The other party's education is too low, which is not conducive to the future of the family; 03. The other party's education is too low, which can easily affect future generations. Because the two of you are not at the same level of thought, it is easy for both of you to feel very tired because of this.

    01. The other party's education is too low, and the happiness after marriage is not high;

    If the man has a low education, then it is easy for you to feel unhappy after you get married, because what you think about is poetry and distance.

    What the other party thinks in his heart is firewood, rice, oil and salt, and he thinks that you are hypocritical.

    If you reason with the other party, maybe the other party still thinks that you are relying on your high education and looks down on him, so in this case, the happiness of both of you will be greatly reduced compared to before marriage.

    02. The other party's education is too low, which is not conducive to the future of the family;

    Although both men and women in this society need to struggle, if your education is much higher than that of men, then men will have an inferiority complex in their hearts, after all, the general idea in this society is that men are much better than women.

    Once the man has an inferiority complex, it is easy to quarrel with you, and even give up on himself, because in his mind, he has already tacitly agreed that you are better than him, so he will naturally be unwilling to work hard, which is not conducive to the future of the family.

    03. The other party's education is too low, which can easily affect future generations.

    If you get married, the other party is willing to listen to you, it's better, the most afraid is that the other party is not as good as you in terms of knowledge, and you have to rush to make a decision, feel that you are very powerful, and you are stubborn in terms of children's education, thinking that you can marry a daughter-in-law with a high degree of education if you are not highly educated, so you don't pay much attention to your child's education, which will affect the child's future.

    In fact, the reason why women should not find a person with a lower education than themselves is mainly because it is easy for two people to have discordant views, resulting in a decrease in happiness after marriage, affecting the family and even future generations。Therefore, the woman still tries to find a person with a similar education to herself, so that the two will not have a big conflict because of their academic qualifications in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    For men and women to get married, China has had a saying of "the right match" since ancient times, and it is not outdated now. If a girl has a high degree of education, then she must be inclined to find a boyfriend with an education level no less than herself, not to mention the common topics, and the future development prospects will be better.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because boys have a particularly strong self-esteem, if her object has a higher education than him, he will have a strong sense of inferiority, so girls will also suffer a lot of damage, so girls must find a partner with a higher education than themselves.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because in the future development process, there will be more room for development, if the education is lower than oneself, it will definitely not be good, after all, there will be a certain sense of gap in the heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because it is necessary to have the three views and insights that are in line with them, but the knowledge of boys should be lower than that of girls, so you must not look for those who are lower than yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because his academic qualifications are lower than his own, the thoughts and three views of two people will not be at the same level, and he will not be able to think of many problems.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Many people feel that academic qualifications are very important when looking for a partner. If there is a very large difference in education between two people, then there is no way to communicate together.

    In fact, I think academic qualifications are very important, if the other party is a doctorate, and you are just a person who went to elementary school, there must be a big problem in communication between two people. When the other party talks about lofty ambitions, you are always talking about firewood, rice, oil and salt. Even if two people want to be wronged together, but after being together, they will find that there are too many problems to solve.

    It is recommended that if the educational background of two people is very different, it is best not to be together, because the worldview, values, and three views of two people are different.

    In fact, as adults, we all know that love can't last long. After two people are together, there will often quarrel, and this ridiculous love will disappear, so it is also recommended that when choosing a marriage partner, it is best not to put love in the first place, in fact, love is really not important, the important thing is whether the two people are suitable. When we are in love, we can choose the person we like, but when we get married in our family, we must choose the one who is suitable for us.

    It's not that we look down on people with low academic qualifications, but we all know that if the difference between the educational qualifications of two people is really very big, then the two people have no communication language at all. When the other party tells you that they have fun in school, you can't experience it at all. If the other party has a high degree of education, and the two of them are together, what you talk about every day is nothing more than this dish, which has risen a few cents and that dish has become a few cents cheaper.

    We can think about it, even if two people have to be together, will they be happy and happy in the future? I think you can think about this issue carefully, if you think about everything yourself, and you don't think it matters, it's okay to be together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When looking for a partner, I think academic qualifications are very important, two people will have a common language when they are on the same level, and if the difference between two people is too great, it is difficult to communicate with each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think academic qualifications are particularly important, as the saying goes, the right person is the most important, if the other party's education is particularly high, then the other party will definitely require their own education.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, academic qualifications are not important at all, the main thing is that the three views of two people must be the same, so that two people will not have conflicts when they live together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Education is only a part, it can't be said to be dominant, after all, there are well-dressed beasts with high education and warm men with low education, this depends on whether the other party loves you or not, and then they will try to get close to you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think it matters, love is beautiful, it's good to be happy with each other. Liking each other is more important than anything else.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Personally, I think so. After all, the pros and cons of finding a partner are not looking for a job, and it does not require a professional counterpart and academic ability. However, most families will have certain requirements for academic qualifications, at least they can't bring socks and silver below the college level of the stupid banquet, as far as the current post-95s and post-00s are concerned.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Looking for a partner has nothing to do with academic qualifications! Both men and women!

    It starts with appearance, respects talent, fits the character and is sleepy, long in kindness, and finally character! The "god takes the appearance" here is the sunny and upward attitude to life.

    The "talent" here does not refer to academic qualifications, but the ability to do one thing well.

    And in the end, it depends on "character".

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The answer to this question varies from person to person, and there is no fixed answer. However, some people may choose to fall in love with someone who is less educated than themselves, and here are some possible reasons.

    First, education level is not the only criterion for judging whether a person is suitable for love. A person's level of education and knowledge is not directly related to his personality, character and other characteristics. Therefore, many people may pay more attention to the matching degree of the other person's personality, interests, hobbies, values, etc., rather than the other person's cultural level.

    Second, some people believe that education is not the only measure of a person's ability and wisdom. For certain professions and lifestyles, there may be a greater emphasis on practical experience and skills rather than academic qualifications and knowledge levels on paper. As a result, some people may prefer to choose those who have demonstrated competence and wisdom in practice, rather than judging each other based solely on their academic qualifications.

    Third, some people may be more willing to choose those who are less educated than themselves, because they feel that it will be easier to control and dominate. In a relationship, some people may prefer to take the lead, and choosing someone who is less educated than themselves may make it easier for them to control and take the lead.

    Finally, some people may choose someone who is less educated than themselves, because they think it will be easier to gain the trust and dependence of the other person. Trust and dependence are very important factors in a relationship, and some people may feel that choosing someone with a lower level of education than themselves can make it easier to gain the trust and dependence of the other party.

    In general, it is a personal choice to choose someone with a lower education level than you to fall in love, and many people's choices may be different for various reasons. However, no matter who you choose as your love partner, you should pay attention to the character and character traits of the other person's repentance, respect and support each other, and manage a healthy and stable relationship together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In essence, as long as I like this person, then I am willing to accept the culture, and people who are lower than me fall in love.

    The level of education is only one degree of universal education. The level of education of your other half does not mean anything, but more importantly, it depends on the essence of this person. Many excellent people have not had a high degree of education, and there are many reasons, such as family economic problems and so on.

    Moreover, the level of education can be caught up and made up for later. If the communication is unhindered, the ideas have always been the same, what does it matter if there is so much high level of education; On the contrary, if the other party's education level is high, but you can't communicate and communicate, then what's the use?

    Of course, if you don't understand each other and have no emotional foundation, it's like choosing a mate in the form of blind dates. Then let's take a look at the other party's academic qualifications, after all, the general view is that high education also represents high personal quality. In the absence of other hardware to compare and reference, it is better to choose a higher education or equivalent than yourself, so that you can have considerable topics and ideas, and there will not be too much gap.

    One person reads books every day, and the other chases soap operas every day, and it is difficult for the two to have a common language.

    On the contrary, if the two themselves know each other very well, the emotional foundation is also deep. Then it doesn't matter if the level of education or whether it is a match or not. It's good to love each other, and it's good to understand each other.

    Although some people are not highly educated, they are very cultivated, very emotionally intelligent, and very considerate of each other, so such people are also very attractive and must be very likable.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    People who are destined will fall in love at first sight!

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