Why are the remaining men and women so dragged now?

I'm very dragged.,Left men.,22 just found it.。 That kind of psychology is something that others can't change, and it can be said that we enjoy that feeling very much, and we feel that we are very high and perfect. But others seem to be average, you just need to pull more than one average person to contact him often, see what his reaction is, after a long time he likes it, don't force it.

Because in our opinion, our love is simple and perfect (a little silly, don't laugh at it)!

If Tian Ji races horses, you treat your friend as an inferior horse, and the person you want to introduce to him as a superior horse, and after taking him a few times, he will be hit, and naturally lower his requirements, and then you give him another inferior horse.

Huh. It's just pretentious.

In fact, they're all looking for it, but they just think it's a downgrade to be introduced.

If you want to introduce it, you have to be quiet.

Find an opportunity to bring two people together.

Let the two of them have a topic to talk about.

Because there is propaganda everywhere, even if it is left, be confident. So many people think for themselves, I am good, others have no vision... Do you think that you think.,No one wants the rest.。。

Uh: That means they're naïve... Ignorance.

The requirements will slowly decrease as you get older.

Those who don't drag are robbed, and no one wants to drag them.

More than half of them are pretended, and their hearts are fragile.

Prices will eventually return to their original **, and older young men are gradually reluctant to pay for the premium.

1.The entry threshold is high, there is no car and no house, don't even think about it.

2.After meeting the basic threshold, there are high requirements for personal ability, personal image, and emotional satisfaction.

Under the double high, it is like crossing a single-plank bridge in the college entrance examination, and those who can meet the conditions are human essences, and in the contemporary era of perfect social protection, that is, it leads to a high exit cost and limited options (monogamy), which will naturally pick and choose.

Older young women do not recognize their own value, are unwilling to give up high standards, and abandon the old tradition of being the right person. Relative to men, they always like to be young and beautiful at the age of 18, women always like the winner, the king, and the first place among the lions, and the loser has no right to mate. Perhaps allowing polygamy to coexist with monogamy could be solved.

Profound and rapid changes in society, it is obvious that human society has not evolved a set of good solutions, and the inheritance of genes needs to be changed from generation to generation, obviously the time inheritance of a generation is too slow compared to social changes (20 30 years), and human instincts cannot adapt to today's society.

The requirements are too high, and their own conditions are too low.

They are too discerning.

Now that we have entered the 21 st century, where the market economy is developing at a rapid pace, people's material conditions have made great progress compared with the past. However, there are more and more leftover men and women entering the modern society. Everyone is amazed and looking for the reason for this phenomenon; Everyone is working hard and working together to find a solution to this kind of problem.

Just as in the financial crisis, everyone is looking for a way out, but only a few can find a "way out". Many people are still seeking and wandering in confusion. Why does this strange phenomenon occur, mainly the following points:

Matter determines spirituality. Today, when the quality of the people is generally improving, and in the ideology of rapid and vigorous material desires, there is a thought in their bones: "I want to pursue better, at least tomorrow will be better than today."

The other half I'm looking for is also rightfully better than me, at least in terms of income; Of course, the good conditions are given priority and selection. "After all, with good material conditions, you can save many years of struggle. Most of them can think of this, and they will adhere to this idea, and use it for the purpose of choosing a mate.

But the remaining men and women ignore the fact that the development of society is uneven. The rich are in the minority, after all. Most of them are still real ordinary people.

The development of society is pyramid-shaped, after all, the rich people standing at the top of the pyramid are a minority, but the vast number of people standing in the middle and bottom of the pyramid are the majority. Even if they find such an "ideal" candidate, the rest of their lives may not be "ideal" and "as one wishes." "We're very good at getting it right, because it's not a good thing to have too much difference.

Two people have a common life background, and there are little differences in life experience, so that they can last for a long time. People with this kind of thinking do not mean that they cannot bear hardships and stand hard work, and there are many strugglers with outstanding achievements among them, and there is no shortage of pacesetters in all walks of life. Why can't I find it when the working conditions are good, it should be because I am too picky about my appearance, which is also the second reason.

The third is that some of them have the mentality that they must find a big money and a rich talent, which is understandable. But blindly waiting and looking will only drag out my age. You know, getting older will only make your range of choices smaller and smaller.

For the major event of marriage, I do not advocate prudence, it is not that I do not advocate pickiness, but a moderate "choice" that should be based on prudence. However, if you have the desire to win achievements without labor, and try to achieve it in one step through marriage, it is very terrible, and most of the harm in the end is yourself. Therefore, when marriage is a major event, the remaining men and women cannot be delayed again and again, and they will accept it when they see it.

Life events should not be used as a gamble, desperate bets, and drill into the "dead end". We should face this problem with an open mind and an open mind!!

The vision is too high, the pressure of social competition is too great, survival is a problem, if you get married and have children, then the burden is greater, so there are many people who do not get married.

Economic pressure, who can afford to get married, cohabitation is easy and marriage is difficult, money, house, where to find it.

So there will be more men and women left now, in fact, it's not that they are left, but they don't want to get married at all! Because they are all free, they don't want to be bound by marriage! Although they are not married, they all know what marriage is like!

Marriage is not beautiful at all, and getting married is a very annoying thing in the first place! After getting married, I lost my freedom, I had to report everything I went to do every day, and I had to hand over my hard-earned money, which was the most annoying thing! In the past, you could spend the money you wanted to earn, but after getting married, you often don't have money in your hands, who can stand this kind of gap, so many people will be afraid of marriage, and naturally they will not be interested in getting married!

For them, they would rather be single than live that kind of life, because marriage is really not good at all, they are very smart people who know what is best for them!

Why are there more and more men and women left? These reasons are clear.

Regardless of whether the locals are leftover men or women, they fight at home, they have no worries about food and clothing, and their parents have a material foundation to shelter them from the wind and rain, so they all enjoy life in the quiet years, and they will not consider getting married as a companion for five buckets of rice.

The society is developing rapidly, and there are more and more people whose wages cannot keep up with the demand! If a man can't meet the needs of a woman, of course it's all left! In the past, women relied on men to support themselves, but now they can support themselves, of course, the requirements are higher than before, and women generally look upward, and those at the same level will not choose!

It's hard enough to live on your own, how can you make another person suffer. Bitter bitter.

I don't have the ability, I don't have the responsibility, and I won't marry a man who doesn't work hard to make money.

Self-righteous and high-minded.

To put it simply, it is a high requirement to choose a mate.

You know how to enjoy life, why do you want to get married?

Singles, what's there, it's good to say.