Why are there so many men and women left in today s society, and why?

Men range from high and handsome to black and poor, divided into A, B, C, D.

Women from white rich and beautiful to poor soil, divided into one, two, three and four.

1 Under the pressure of the world, women find stronger than themselves, and they have a lifetime to rely on, so women two, three, or four can find something stronger than them.

Male A, B and C of their own.

2 Men enjoy the worship of women about themselves, and they are not even happy to be on a par with themselves, so the women are bypassed by the men, 3 The remaining women are often successful women in the city, white-collar workers in foreign companies, female doctors, etc., men feel out of reach in their careers, their hearts are weak, and they dare not chase, the more developed the economy today, the more successful urban women are, and there are more leftover women, they do not rely on men, and they still live richly, so they are not in a hurry to change.

4 The women are stronger than themselves, the men are black and poor, no one wants to marry in the D-class condition, and there are 340 million more men, and they are destined to be sentenced to death without a wife in this life, and this huge wolf is beyond imagination in the future.

Because I haven't really learned to be free, I don't have such a strong ability to judge and choose, and I don't have the ability to live in peace and in a down-to-earth manner, and I lost the life of my parents, the matchmaker's words, I am actually in a helpless state, and I have to instinctively protect myself.

The vision is high, the girl is too realistic, she wants money and a house, and the boy is very sad! Naturally, it was all left.

Because everyone is more demanding. Always hoping to find the best one, but it's still the same to find it.

Putting money and personal interests first, sexual openness, divorce law needs to be strengthened, what conditions are required for marriage to be divorced. Make it humane.

This is a question that can be written in a book, and it is related to many aspects.

There are several main reasons:

Economic pressures: The economic pressures in modern society are increasing, and many young people will put marriage and family on the back burner while pursuing career and wealth. They may feel that getting married will be an added financial burden and therefore prefer to be single in order to pursue a personal career and financial independence.

Personal pursuits: Modern society places more and more emphasis on personal freedom and choice, and many young people want to pursue personal interests and hobbies rather than being constrained by marriage and family. They may think that marriage restricts their freedom and individuality, and therefore prefer to be single in order to pursue their ideals and goals.

Changing Concepts of Marriage: With the development of society and the diversity of cultures, the concept of marriage is constantly changing. Many young people believe that marriage is no longer a necessity in life, and they can meet their emotional needs in other ways, such as long-distance relationships, cohabitation, free love, etc.

As a result, they may prefer to be single rather than married.

Demographic changes: Population ageing and declining fertility are common trends in today's society, which also affect young people's perception of marriage. They may feel the need not to rush to get married and can also think about it in the coming time.

The reason why the older leftover man doesn't like to find the opposite sex to marry is because he may have suffered a series of injuries in the previous relationship, so he no longer believes in love. In reality, there are many older leftover men who are like this, they feel carefree and free before they get married, but they are afraid that after they get married, they will be managed by their wives, children, and some trivial things in life. Therefore, when they want to do their own things, they do not have enough personal freedom, and they need to report to their wives to do anything, which will make their original life change dramatically in the social circle of friends, so this is not the life they want, and the man's motivation for love is not love but sex.

Driven by sex, men's understanding of love is often very different from that of girls. Especially when that person has good financial conditions, they will have more opportunities to squander the low-quality love provided by the girl, and enjoy it instead of investing in it. After all, this is the innate nature of men, so men who are overly addicted to sex are more likely to lose themselves than women who are addicted to love, and some older young people do not have a little love experience, so they don't know what love is.

Once a man is very slow and shy about love, he will turn his attention to other aspects, and over time, women and life will become a blank in his life. Human beings are very strange creatures, and the richer their experiences, they tend to want the other person to be more innocent. But, in fact, there are very few very simple women now.

If you have money, you feel that girls are coming for your money, and if you don't have money, you are afraid that girls will mock you when you don't have money. Therefore, little by little, he was repelled by his own defensive psychology, so that he would always get used to living without a woman, especially when his parents took care of his diet and daily life, this feeling would be magnified. One is inner rejection.

Many people are disgusted, rejected, and disgusted with the form of blind date from the heart, and feel that they have become a commodity to be sold at a price, and they are picked and picked at will, and they can't get over that hurdle psychologically. In addition, you may meet the opposite of what you like, and even the boys who combine the points they hate, naturally, disgust and rejection go to the top.

Second, the matching degree is too low. Many people have encountered this situation, the introducer always likes to introduce excellent boys and excellent girls, but often to no avail. It must be affirmed that the boys and girls are really good individually.

However, being good doesn't mean being a match. may like and value each other differently, there is no problem with normal communication, and being friends is like-minded, but becoming a lover can probably only be a lover who is not satisfied. Thus, the drawbacks of the introduction are revealed.

However, I would like to point out that even if you are in free love, there are cases where you find that each other is not suitable and break up peacefully, so why should you be so demanding that the blind date must be fate?