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How powerful love is, we only know when we experience it. Although love exists on the material, although the material is the basis of love, there is no distinction between high and low in real love, even if the family conditions are different, love may come to the end.
Everyone's origin is different, you may be born in a wealthy family, you may be born in a noble family; You may have been born in the countryside, born in a poor family, but everyone has the right to pursue love, love for love, to be together for happiness, not for money, to live together in luxury. Maybe you are proud of the nobility but met the love of the poor, you may fall in love with him, you don't care about his origin, his family, you can do whatever it takes to love, after marriage, it depends on the joint efforts of the two of you, not by the family to bring you too many things, the family conditions are good, can bring you some better material things, but we are on the road of pursuing love, the future life is our own, not the family can support you for a lifetime, the road is your own, love is your own choice, Family conditions are different, but for the sake of true love, your love will also last, true love is supreme, it can cross everything, even with opposition from the family, the words of others. But true love doesn't care about how much money you have, what matters is how much I love you and how much you love me; What matters is how hard you work and how motivated you are; What you care about is how hard you can work and love for love; What cares more about how happy we are together.
Happiness is the highest pursuit of love for each of us, and it is also the most important thing in our lives. When you meet the right person at the right time, that's the best thing. When you truly love each other, true love can break all the ups and downs that come from outside of love.
As long as we believe in love and give love a high respect, we are together for love and happiness, not for the good or bad of family conditions.
Presumably many people have watched the TV series "Xue Pinggui and Wang Baochuan" more or less, when we see the birth of Wang Baochuan, she is a nobleman, and then look at Xue Pinggui's birth, he is a beggar, many people think that their love cannot go to the end, but it is not like that, Xue Pinggui went to Xiliang to become the king of Xiliang, Wang Baochuan did not hesitate to cut off relations with his father for love, and went to guard the cold kiln with Xue Pinggui's beggars for 18 years, and finally got a lover and finally became a family.
Although our love is not as great as in the movie, but we come from society, from the greatness of reality, we always believe that a lover will eventually become a family, true love spans eternity, believe in the power of love, even if your family conditions are different, born different, insist on love, pay for love, be happy for love, your love is the driving force for your progress, and you can also go to the end.
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If two people with the same family conditions are likely to have many common topics, their ideas may be very similar, and if two people are together, they should be happier.
In most cases in our real life, it is very likely that two people who are together have different family conditions, but there are still many people who can live happily. Because can love go to the end? Can marriage be happy?
It's not just about the family backgrounds of the two people. What's more, if in the end, you get married together, and you form a new family.
So if you and your lover have a different family situation, you don't need to worry too much. To focus on the two of you, can love go to the end? The key is to see if the two of you are suitable, whether you can appreciate each other, and whether you can work hard to be better for each other.
If the family conditions are the same, it is very likely that the two people will have great similarities in their ideological concepts, and if the family conditions are very different, the two people may have differences in many things. However, this kind of disagreement does not necessarily mean that it is not good, and sometimes there is such a contradictory disagreement that can make each other grow more.
On some small things, if the two of you can handle the differences of opinion well, then for some big things, when you have some disagreements, it is easier to deal with them. On the contrary, those two people with very similar family conditions do not have too many contradictions when they are together, but once there is a relatively big problem and two people have differences, then it may be more difficult to deal with this contradiction.
Therefore, when two people are together, the family conditions are very similar, and they all have their own advantages and defects, so there is no need to care too much about this kind of thing. The point is to see if the two of you can get along well.
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Family conditions are not the sameIn today's complex social relations, love can go to the end, whether love can succeed mainly depends on whether two people are willing to adhere to love, as long as both people want to have results and work together, then even if the family conditions are different, it can not hinder you.
In the past, family conditions were the same, but in that era, the social structure was simple, the social relations were also very simple, and the content of social life was not diverse, so the family was more acceptable to each other's families.
But in today's society, obviously, the right person has limitations, now the social relationship is complex, people's lives have changed dramatically, and family conditions are no longer the main factor affecting two people together.
If two people really like each other, don't care too much about the material conditions, one party with good conditions to pay more material aspects, and the party with bad conditions don't feel unworthy of each other, if both people hope to be able to harvest love, hope to blossom and bear fruit, then, let go of those worldly concepts, let others say, they go on bravely.
If the adults in both of your families are against you being together, the party with good conditions should have a lot of dissatisfaction, you can explain to them that your situation shows that you must be together, and you are inseparable, and at the same time, it means that you are still young now, there is a lot of room for development, and you will work together in the future, as long as the two intentions are the same, you can be separated. Of course, you can't confront the elders too fiercely, many times what they say also has their own truth, and you must talk to them calmly.
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I think that love in this society has really become very cheap, and many things are no longer based on love, but tend to be more realistic, whether it is for love, friendship or family. This kind of atmosphere has gradually spread in China, but I think this is not all phenomena, and we can't generalize, if you really find someone who can accompany you for a lifetime, then you must know each other very well, he doesn't care about you You can also feel it, love is not certain, and nothing can be changed. Whether you can make it to the end depends not on your parents, not on your friends, not on other material things in the outside world, but on whether you are fully prepared to resist those difficulties together, those seemingly insurmountable difficulties.
In fact, the family conditions you said are different, this is really not a too serious problem, good family conditions can only mean that you can struggle for a few years or more than ten years, but for two people together, as long as each other is positive, have a goal or motivation to struggle, I believe that your future life will be very exciting, because after all, you want to live your own life, not the same family life before, you can make the life of the two of you more meaningful, As long as you are with each other, you are happy. I think first of all, you must believe in your love, as long as both of you have faith, I think the problem you are thinking about is not a problem at all, your hearts must be together, and you can see the truth through hardship.
In fact, there are really a lot of complicated problems in love, but the problem you are worried about is only a small problem, as long as you are positive and you can use your own efforts to prove that you can live a good life with your other half, then I think his parents will also entrust him to you, many parents want not their children's other half of the ability and high achievement, They just want their children to live a stable and happy life, so if you really want to be with him, Be sure to try not to give up easily.
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Love has nothing to do with family conditions, if it is said that the love of two people is affected because of different family conditions, then I think there may not be love between them, because in essence, love will not be kidnapped by material, there are so many lovers in this world with different backgrounds, didn't they come to the end.
In fact, there are many couples in love who are not bound by family conditions and are together, and there are many in ancient times, although it is said: the words of the matchmaker, the life of the parents. But after all, it's your own love, do you see the person you like just because of different family conditions and let go, I think there will still be some people who will stand up and fight, often see on TV those costume dramas where two people who love each other break through the worldly concept and get together, but this way is that the two people go away and fly high, and I have never seen the kind of head-on conflict with the feudal family.
In today's society, basically every family lives a good life, but it does not mean that all families are the same, so in some unequal family conditions of love, two people sometimes feel that love will be unequal, but this is not the decisive factor, there are many two people with far different family conditions will choose to be together. An uncle in his hometown had a very good academic performance that year, and in such a family environment, his natural character was also relatively good, and then he was admitted to the national key university he wanted to go to in the college entrance examination that year, and his grades in school were also very good, and he also won the title of the top ten outstanding young people in that province. <>
After graduation, it was also very easy to go to work in a good unit, and then the director saw that the young man was really good and promising and married his daughter to him, which makes people feel like a fairy tale, but this is true, and now the relationship between the two is also very good. In fact, it was from them that I saw the hope of two people from different families being together, not the shackles of traditional concepts, but the decisive factor but whether you are good enough.
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There are bitter and sweet, bitter and sweet, this is the taste of love, like chocolate, but it is not tasted by eating chocolate. We talk too much about love, and family conditions are an important factor that many people consider.
We always say that love must be the right person, which refers to the situation where the family background and family conditions are similar. For example, our college students' views on love often do not consider family conditions.
College love is more pure, not as material as in society, if two people have a good impression of each other, if one of them takes the initiative, there will be a story. Everyone only considers the goodwill and personality or something, few people will make too strict requirements for your family conditions, college students are together just because of love, beautiful and pure. Two people can do a lot of things together, and they can also work together and go on together after graduation.
When you step into society, it's a completely different feeling. It is mentioned more frequently that it is difficult to have love without money, without a house, without a car, no, this is a difficult problem in front of many people.
If two people have very different family conditions, one is rich and the other is poor. So the consumption concept of two people, some things must be very different, this is caused by the family environment, and the relationship between the two people has nothing to do with it, but this is a hidden danger between the two people, it may break out at any time, once it breaks out, the two people will come to an end, go their separate ways.
This kind of love is indeed difficult to go on, not because both parties are unwilling to go on, but because some irresistible factors have become a barrier between two people, affecting the further development of two people.
Everyone is born with different family conditions, and we can't be harsh on anything, just be ourselves.
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Hello friend, love itself is happy and sweet, but the process of pursuing love can be affected by various factors. Among these influencing factors, the subject's family status is one of the most important. Many people choose to break up because of the partner's family.
The reason why this situation occurs is that the gap in family conditions will affect the love between each other, the opposition of the other party's family will directly lead to the breakup of both parties, and the poor family conditions of the other party will have a great impact on the relationship.
1. If the gap between the family conditions of the two parties in love is too large, it will directly affect the outcome of the relationship.
The two parties in love are the same or similar in all aspects, and the most ideal results can be obtained, and the communication and feelings between the two people are more likely to reach a harmonious state. If the gap between the family conditions of the two parties is too large, the impact on this relationship is very large, and there are very big differences between two people in terms of living habits, thinking and concepts......It will be difficult to form a common language this time, and it will be difficult for such a relationship to last long, and both parties are likely to break up because of this.
2. The opposition of the other party's family will directly lead to the breakup of both parties in love.
For two people who are in love, if the families of both parties are strongly supportive, then the feelings between each other will be deeper, and the relationship between the two people will continue to develop. But if the other party's family objects to the relationship, it will have a very big impact on the relationship between the two parties, and many lovers break up because of this. Therefore, family reasons have a great impact on ...... relationshipBoth parties in a relationship must carefully investigate each other's family conditions in advance to avoid breaking up due to family reasons after falling in love.
3. If the partner's family conditions are too poor, it will have a great impact on the relationship.
In real life, it is not uncommon for two people to fall in love and find that each other's family conditions are very poor, so they choose to break up. Although this kind of thing feels a little impersonal, the reality is that way. In the process of falling in love, if the other party's family conditions are superior......Then the chances of success in a relationship will be greater.
On the other hand, if the other party's family conditions are too poor, ......Then the parties are likely to break up because of this. This situation shows that family reasons have a very direct impact on love, so when falling in love, we must pay attention to the factor of both families.
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