What if my boyfriend has a girlfriend of four years

There are so many of these kinds of questions, I really don't know how girls are so stupid nowadays, a guy is dating you and another girl at the same time. You know that you should break up right away. Think about it, does he really love you?

If he loves you, how could he do such a thing? Love is the only one, love can't be given to two people at the same time, and how can that person and girl know your **? I think the girl knows about you, and he's in pain.

It can be seen that your boyfriend also has a lot of feelings for her. If it's an ex-girlfriend, if you don't love it, then it's broken off a long time ago, how can you know your **.

The woman was supposed to be his former girlfriend, and as you can see, what she said to you was clearly despicable, overly selfish. If he doesn't have much to do with him, you don't need to think too much about it. What you need to love someone is trust, and you should also be sensible.

If he is still going to have anything to do with her, it is recommended that you have a long pain rather than a short one. I wish you happiness.

The question is, are you okay with that woman now?

It's not good, what are you sad about?

Hello to you now is the point, isn't it?

And he didn't tell you, maybe he just didn't want to go any further.

Maybe you can ask him indirectly.

You can also tell him that there is a woman who beats ** and tells you that she is your wife or something.

Give him time to sort it out, be strong, and if he can't figure it out, the long pain is better than the short one.

The key is your mentality, if you like him a lot, figure out the cause of the matter, and then choose what to do.

What are you hesitating about this kind of split-leg man, hurry up and break up with him.

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My boyfriend who has been dating for 4 years has a girlfriend living together, can I get it back?

Dear, hello, I'm honored to ask you this question, I am Dabang, a member of the editorial board of Chinese university textbooks, a national registered first-level emotional counselor, a family relationship counselor (teacher), a second-level psychological counselor, good at: love sparrow sense repair and recovery, marriage is the only early crisis treatment, psychological healing, love trouble, emotional management, service time 10000+ hours, service number 10000+ people. I am sorting out the answers to your questions, if you have more information, you can continue to express it, I can better answer it for you.

Redemption is a very methodological thing, the method is not right, the effort is in vain, many people die here, and the wrong method is used to miss the feelings that could have been repaired in vain to Zaoye, it is a pity, in fact, as long as the method stool collapses and shouts right, there will be a chance.

Teacher, he has a new girlfriend and lives together

Is there any hope for me, I was married and he was not married, I was 33 and he was 32, his current girlfriend was unmarried, and we had been dating for 4 years.

<> the first step of the recovery process, you must find a sedan chair to sneak to the root cause of the problem between the two of you, during which it is normal for him to have negative feelings about you, and when the root problem between the two people is well solved, his negative emotions will be easy to dissipate.

The second step of redemption is to re-establish a benign way of communication between each other, at this time, don't criticize him, don't find fault with him, don't want to suppress him, the relationship between the two of you is not stable enough, once you criticize and suppress, it will make him and you have a hand-pin imitation of each other, and it will not achieve the effect.

The third step of redemption, rebuild the trust relationship between the two of you, many times two people come back and think that the relationship has been repaired, in fact, it is not right, the heart of the person comes back may not be able to come back, if the trust relationship is not built Qi up, once he leaves your field of vision, you can easily imagine that he is doing something bad for you, and such feelings will happen to return to the original shape.

Summary. Honey, you mean that your boyfriend has had a girlfriend of three or four years and is dating you again. Isn't this deceiving your feelings?

Good evening, dear, you said that we have been together for more than a year, and my girlfriend has a girlfriend of three or four years, is she gay? If that's the case, then you'll have to make a choice. If you can accept it, you can continue with him, if you can't accept it, it can only be a decisive breakup.

Are you sure that his girlfriend of three or four years is not a best friend?

No, no, no. It's a boyfriend who has a girlfriend of three or four years.

Honey, is the girlfriend you are talking about for three or four years already an ex-girlfriend, or is he still doing things normally with his former girlfriend in the process of dealing with you?

Girlfriend relationship.

But I didn't know it in my relationship with him.

Honey, you mean that your boyfriend has had a girlfriend of three or four years and is dating you again. Isn't this deceiving your feelings?

Did you ask him what the hell was going on? Could it be a misunderstanding?

I asked, no, the three of them sat down and talked, but none of them answered positively.

My dear, it's actually three people sitting together talking, how can this boy be like this? It's split, and I haven't apologized to you yet, but the three of us are talking together. What is this?

And then, tell the teacher, what did you do?

My dear, the teacher knows that you must have your own difficulties, can you talk to the teacher about it?

I started to think because I didn't know what was going on between them, and I didn't think I was a junior, because I didn't know, but when I found out, I moved away, and I wanted to face it soberly, because I really loved him, and there was a connection behind him, and he said let me wait for him, wait for him, wait for him, and let him sort it out.

My dear, since he said he would solve it, how long have you waited now for him to solve it? The teacher knows that you are struggling and sad. This behavior of the boyfriend is a form of deception. Are you really going to forgive him like that?

The teacher knows that it feels very bad to be cheated on, and he also knows that you are very, very sad and unhappy, so next. Are you going to continue with him?

Summary. Hello, glad you asked, my boyfriend has an ex-girlfriend of three or four years, but he told me that he was only in it for three or four months? It's possible that your boyfriend is a white lie, he doesn't want to talk to you for 3 or 4 years, and he is afraid that you will ask him why he wants to break up.

He might just be preventing you from getting to the bottom of it.

My boyfriend had an ex-girlfriend of three or four years, but he told me that he had only been there for three or four months.

Hello, glad you asked, my boyfriend has an ex-girlfriend of three or four years, but he told me that he was only in it for three or four months? It's possible that your boyfriend is a white lie, he doesn't want to talk to you for 3 or 4 years, he is afraid that you will ask him why he wants to break up, a relationship for several years, and he can break up with the bridge family? He might just be preventing you from getting to the bottom of it.

Kiss, it may also be that I have known each other for 3 or 4 years, and the time that the source has been with him can be three or four months, so he only said that the time to fall in love with him is in the hall!!

No, I heard from his colleague that they have been together for more than three years.

Oh, then your boyfriend tells you for three or four months, and he's afraid that you have an idea.

Kiss, your boyfriend must be afraid of you being jealous! I'm also afraid to tell you that you're in a bad mood.

But it feels like he lied to me.

Hahaha, I can understand your feelings, and no one will feel comfortable in their hearts.

But if your boyfriend is very good to you, you don't have to worry about it, who doesn't have a few relationships? It's just a matter of time.

Got it. Well, as long as the two of you have a good relationship and your boyfriend cares about you, you don't have to care about what happened before he sold it, after all, let the past pass! As long as your future is in the light.

Hurry up and find him to get some money and then break up.

Netizen "Shen Rongmei" said:

In this case, you should slap him twice, tell him that you are not something he can afford to provoke, and tell him that you have seen through his true colors and that you will not like him anymore. This situation of yours is that you were a junior when you didn't know it, although I feel sorry for you in this situation, but I think you must also be firm in your own position. Don't hesitate, the best thing is to run up to his girlfriend and tell her what your boyfriend really is.

Seriously, this kind of scumbag should end up living alone for the rest of his life. Many times, love is just a part of our lives, not the whole of our lives. In any case, when we find out that the other person is not our lover, don't hesitate anymore, choose to leave him, maybe you will feel very painful to leave him, but you must also understand that you will not end well with him.

So you should leave him early and start your life again.

This situation is really embarrassing, what can you do, you can only think about it is to force him to ask who he likes and then either break up or let him and his girlfriend cut it off, I think any smart girl will choose to do nothing and break up directly, this is really a problem of the century, you said that you finally like a person and dated him for half a year but found out that you are the third party, this is really a very helpless thing, I think you can't accept this fact, Then directly punish this boyfriend who put you in an embarrassing situation, beat him violently and leave him without looking back. I think you must stay calm at this time, although it is a little impossible, but you must not impulsively want to kill him or something, anyway, you must run to the other party after your own deep thinking and ask him what he means, no matter how pitiful he is, please forgive him, there are many good boys, this person who deceives your feelings should get rid of him as soon as possible, he is not worthy of your love at all, and you should not intervene in other people's messy feelings as a third party, this is too stupid.

Netizen "Chi Nuan Nuan W123" said:

Generally, such scumbags are lonely and helpless giant babies in their hearts, because they don't know how to survive, so they can only rely on you girls to take care of them, they pretend to be very pitiful to win your sympathy, maybe your boyfriend, what is the rich second generation, the second generation of officials, the second generation of the house, but so what, will you forgive him? Ruan Guan's boyfriend in his youth got the girl in their school pregnant, and the boyfriend didn't know what to do to ask her for help, putting on a pitiful look, I was very disdainful when I saw this scene, but Ruan Guan still took that girl to **, and did a certain **, obviously he had such a good girlfriend, he still had to find another girl, and finally Ruan Guan died for him, so that the boy would miss it once and make a mistake a second time.