I ve been in love with a girl for four years, and we ve been each other s first love. Now there is a

Updated on society 2024-02-26
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Follow your heart, if your relationship can be maintained even if it is a long-distance relationship, choose your hometown, and with good conditions, your girl can live a good life, right?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As they say, listen to the true thoughts of your heart In fact, many times love and family will conflict It depends on how you deal with it Whether you convince your family or your lover It's up to you Anyway, if it's me I'll do my best to convince my family I'm so old I can't always live under my parents' swaddling clothes The outside world is very big It's time to break through by yourself Even if you lose But! There is never a shortage of faith in starting over, buddy, come on!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Will you be with your lover or your parents for the rest of your life?

    Young people should fight hard, don't regret it when you get old!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If your relationship can be maintained even if it is a long-distance relationship, choose to live in your hometown.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're a very motivated person, and at least you realize that you need to quit your internet addiction.

    1. Serve your desires and make your dreams grow and become a tree.

    2. If you are addicted to playing games, know that games are an educational method of appreciation that makes you fall in love with it.

    3. If you are addicted to information collection, when you know, knowledge is inexhaustible, and there is no end to the collection of information.

    4. As Professor Tao Hongkai said, a computer is a tool, not a toy. People who use computers are smart people, and people who play computers are people who don't have much use. At the end of the day, the people who play with the computer are the ones who work for the people who use the computer.

    5. For us, the most terrible thing in the world is not the terrible individual, nor the terrible country, but the choice of those excellent people who study and work harder than us--- we must realize this!

    6. If you are surfing the Internet at home, then, you can time the alarm clock and let him remind you. If you're in an internet café, then pay less and set a time for yourself.

    7. Surf the Internet at home and put your computer in a common area of your home, such as the living room. Let everyone hold themselves accountable.

    8. Every time before going online, hold on to what your purpose is and set your own time. Accomplish this purpose, and go offline. And think of another thing to do.

    9. Quitting Internet addiction mainly depends on one's own willpower. If you can't command your body and can't control your desires, where is our hope?

    10. There are seven or eight kinds of books on Internet addiction on the market, choose one, look at the cases of those who have been deeply affected, and you will consciously stay away from Internet addiction.

    There's a lot of stuff online about quitting internet addiction. But only for a subset of people. Just like the landlord said. He's a guy who is afraid of loneliness, and if he has a loved one at home, he won't be thinking about surfing the Internet, and someone upstairs said to call a friend to his house. Play together.

    Surfing the Internet doesn't delay your work life. The main thing is to use the Internet reasonably, and to consciously warn yourself that it's time to rest, and when it's time, it will delay your life if you continue to play.

    The main thing is to find a purpose in life.

    May you get rid of your troubles as soon as possible and start a good life!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First of all. Your caption reads:"We spent more than 2 months together and then broke up"?

    It's only been February to talk about engagement and marriage? Human nature has not yet touched the edge, how can marriage be so hasty?

    Secondly, if a man says "when he snubbed me, he said that he was busy during this time", he is basically not interested in you. Imagine how can a man who is really interested in you let go of his dreams so easily? Not available, it's an excuse.

    Maybe even the previous quarrel was planned in advance. "After a while he found another one", maybe it already exists, but it is hidden from you. Now they've gone from underground to public.

    Finally, I would like to say, "Did I miss my favorite?" The answer is an unequivocal no. The reason why you are like this is that I am afraid that it has long been wishful thinking.

    Through the previous signs of change of mind: "not available", "need time to calm down" and "after a while he found another one", I can only regret to say that you have lost your eyes and met people unladylike.

    As for "I can find someone as good as him in the future", the world is so big, so many countries and people, different nationalities, different cultures, different regions, and even different ages, why don't you struggle with the past, why can't you open your eyes and open your mind for your own happiness.

    Every relationship is an unforgettable experience, and the old fable: "Love at first sight, but first love will eventually break up" is not unfounded. It is also hoped that we will get out of this vicious circle at an early date, draw lessons and lessons, and strengthen the cultivation and training of people and knowledge.

    When you wake up, happiness will knock on your door.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Do you understand why he suddenly changed?

    Now that he has a new love, don't dwell on it anymore.

    Take it easy for yourself. Believe that the one who really belongs to you will appear.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Feelings are not unilateral or reluctant, if he doesn't really love you deeply, then he is easy to fall in love with others, such feelings don't matter, it's not worth regretting.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When a relationship ends, it is generally the girl who hurts the most, and the girl has a lot of things to think about. However, what I want to tell you is: open a little.

    I don't think it's worth it for you to do that to him. Why did he find another one not long after you were separated? That means that he already has a tendency to deviate, and besides, he is not active enough, so why should you say it first?

    Some feelings are dull after they enter the dull, although they are dull, but they have a flavor after the dullness, and some feelings are left to be dull without ripples. So, I think, you haven't missed your favorite, perhaps, the one who loves you is on the way to come. However, let's let everything run as it comes, what should come will come, believe in yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This kind of thing is normal, it is said that love is a matter of two people, but in fact, it is a matter of two families, and the power of family is very great. Since you missed it, let it go, first, it's normal to not be able to let go, but you have to tell yourself to let go, if that man comes to you, don't take care of it, he is not responsible for you and his wife,

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, it can only be said that you don't know how to cherish it, he shouldn't love you, he just can't control you, men don't like it, they can't grasp their wives.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Alas, we are almost the same, he wants to get married quickly, I want to delay for two years. Then he got engaged without my knowledge, and then he got married again in a lightning flash, and I didn't even get composed. If you really love him, grab him, if he is the kind of person who sways left and right, shake it off, you can afford it, don't hesitate, it doesn't taste good when you look back.

    Like me, although it was sad for a while, but after you separated, you know that the world is very vast, and there are many good men. Marry someone to change your fate!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What a little girl, you've only been together for 2 months, how can you know that well? Don't be too anxious about love. It's good to go with the flow. If you run into it, you run into it! The best thing you should do right now is to treat yourself!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You go directly to him and ask him if he really wants to let you go. If he doesn't want to be with you anymore, then separate, a man's previous promises are not something to be trusted. Now what he says is credible ...

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When everything becomes a reality, we shouldn't force it, and I broke up with my girlfriend yesterday... When a person is not in his heart, you are powerless...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you still love her, then you go to him, explain your heart to him, ask him what your heart thinks, and strive for what you want, otherwise you will regret it, and there will be no time for you to sell regret medicine??!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then don't give up and persevere!!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    After a while we were together. We are in a long-distance relationship. In the past two years we have been together, we have been very good, I want to ask you: Do you know the reason why they separated in the first place? If the woman asks to break up,

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Why did she say those words before, and why? You need to know the reason to know what you should do.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I can only say that sometimes too much persistence is not worth it, persistence is okay, but persistence to a certain extent, if it does not work, it is a harm to both parties.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    When the direction is wrong, stopping is moving forward.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It feels like if you love her and she has always loved you, there is no hurdle that you can't overcome.

    It is this kind of love that is always concerned and hard to be interesting. If the love is too bland, some people can't stand the blandness and still have to break up in the end.

    You can't bear her, she can't bear you, now you feel tired together, and you feel tormented when you break up, if you break up with her, will you always have her shadow when you see other girls?

    Calm down and manage it well, the two of them will be more accommodating to each other when they are together. It's divided like this, but if the two of you still have affection, it's a pity to cut off a fate like this, after all, some people haven't even found someone who loves him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It can only be said that there will be a gap in my heart. It's impossible to think the same as before.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    As long as you really love her and insist on touching her, after all, you gave up on others first.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Irony and recitation of many Danfu shares 2

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    She is good with others for half a year and then good to you, can you treat her like the original?

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