What kind of plans do you have for your parents retirement?

I think that when the parents are in good health, the two of them can go out to earn money, and when the parents are in their fifties and sixties, one person will accompany the parents at home and go out to work alone, so that they can accompany their parents more, so that they will not be so lonely.

For my parents' pension, the next time I buy some commercial insurance, for example, if they have a problem such as illness, of course I am not willing to spend all my energy alone, the best way is to buy insurance, in addition, in their pension period to spend all kinds of money, I first save some money for them to save.

Earn money, make money like crazy, and then give your parents what they want, so that they don't get tired, you can't let them live frugally, the most important thing is to make them happy, let them feel that they haven't worked in vain, have time to take them to travel, take time to accompany them, when a person is good enough, he will also have time, at least time to accompany his parents.

As a one-child parent's pension must be our burden, I choose this way, first buy a sickness insurance and pension insurance for my parents, when the parents encounter illness, you can share it with the insurance company, and buy pension insurance for them means that their lives will have some ** in the future, and my own pressure will be much less, and then I will choose to live with them, so as to facilitate future care.

My parents have a house that was demolished and replaced a few years ago, and it is quite large, but in the absence of any social insurance, I want to sell the house, and then buy a house with a down payment, and I will repay the loan, so that there is still a lot of money left for them to spend. I don't want to see my parents living frugally in order to leave me a house.

I am an only child, the family is very loving to me, now that I am older, I can also support a family, now my parents are in good health, I don't let them work, take care of the family at home, wait until I am older, take them with me, and I can accompany my parents when I come back from work.

I am the only child of my parents, but my lover's family is three brothers and sisters, and he is the second, so the problem of my father-in-law and mother-in-law naturally falling on the eldest brother and brother-in-law. My current idea with my parents is to let them live on their own while they are still able to move, and I have mentioned the idea of letting him live with me, but my parents have lived in the countryside all their lives, and they don't want to leave that place. So at the moment, I'm just giving them some money every month and going home to see it.

I would never send them to a nursing home.

Father! Mother! When you are old in the future, live with us, and my daughter-in-law and I will be filial to you!

That's what I said to my daughter-in-law on the day I got married. After listening to my words to my daughter-in-law, the corners of my parents' eyes moistened a little. I think they would be willing to live with me, and my daughter-in-law is a sensible person, and she is very compatible with my mother.

Living with my parents is unlikely. Because since I was a child, I liked more private spaces.

Living with your parents will inevitably lead to conflicts and contradictions due to many cultural differences and differences in thinking.

But that doesn't mean I don't take care of them. I hope that China will soon be able to develop some excellent community care models abroad.

Although many families in modern society have given birth to a second child, only children still account for a very large proportion, which may be a bit troublesome in taking care of parents, and even cause conflicts. I think the best thing to do is to get ready and take my parents over to adapt to city life while they are still well. Convince them to accept new ideas while they are still reasonable; Take your parents out for a walk when you're not busy at work; As an only child with financial conditions, it is best to let the house you buy be as close as possible to the elderly on both sides, and go back to accompany them as much as possible. Now it is very popular to have a centralized pension method, I think it is very good, four elderly people on both sides, overcome all difficulties to let them live with you.

Let the elderly help each other, and at the same time reduce the duplication of work in the care of their children, so that they can accompany their parents every day, and they can also take care of each other, which is more convenient. According to the traditional thinking of most Chinese families, they do not want to put their parents in nursing homes; But if you take care of it at home, it seems that it is really a lack of skills. If you hire a babysitter, it's a lot of money.

This situation is really not easy to solve, in some areas, the man and woman of the single-child family each prepare a house, and the two families take turns to live after the marriage eggplant. In this way, the parents' desire to have their children by their side is satisfied. It's also a good way to tremble with grandchildren.

As an only child, there are several issues you may encounter when it comes to caring for your elderly parents:

1.The burden of life care is heavy. An only child is responsible for the care of his or her parents, which can be physically and psychologically burdensome, especially if the parents are in poor health or need to be bedridden for a long time.

2.The economy is under pressure. Both the medical and living expenses of the parents are borne by the only child, which can cause greater financial pressure, especially when it comes to medical expenses.

3.Work-life balance is difficult. The need to take care of both work and parental life can create work-life imbalance, with work and private life interfering with each other.

4.Limited social life. A lot of time and energy is spent on caring for parents, and there are fewer opportunities to socialize with friends, which can lead to social isolation and loneliness.

5.Mental health is affected. Long-term mental stress and burden can lead to psychological problems such as depression and anxiety, especially when the parent's physical condition deteriorates rapidly or passes away.

6.Tensions between siblings. Without siblings to share the responsibility of caring for parents, it is easy to feel overstressed, and at the same time, it is also the loss of support and help from siblings in this regard, which leads to tension in the relationship.

7.Self-development is limited. Investing too much in the care of parents can easily ignore one's own development and life, resulting in insufficient personal growth or self-loss.

Therefore, as an only child, it is necessary to seek a balance between parental care and self-development. This requires a lot of preparation and planning in advance, as well as seeking help and support from friends and family around you. At the same time, we should also pay attention to our own mental health and appropriately reduce the burden and pressure.

As an only child, it can be said that it is difficult to face the problem of providing for the elderly. When the parents are old, they know that they are facing many maintenance problems, and the ensuing pension problems have become a major problem. First, the financial burden is getting bigger and bigger, and with the formation of an aging population, for most single-child families, children usually need to pay part of the relevant expenses of their parents.

To a certain extent, this will increase the pressure on the children. In today's society, children are facing pressure from all sides, and if there are no siblings at work, in life, and in their own families, it will lead to their inability to provide for their parents. Second, the life care is not comprehensive enough, has been advocating to care for the empty nest elderly, and such a thing, in the family of one child, the probability of occurrence is as high as more than 90 percent, the remaining part, the children give their children to the elderly to raise.

Those with better family conditions may send their parents to a welfare home, hoping to make up for the regret that they cannot take care of their parents. But it is clear that such an effect is not very satisfactory. Parents need not only material, but also spiritual.

Third, the lack of spiritual life, most children will choose to live separately from their parents after they join the work or get married. This phenomenon is even more pronounced in villages, where young people are more interested in moving to big cities, which mean better working conditions and employment opportunities. But this means that the number of times to go home to see their parents is reduced, even if some elderly people are very cheerful and will participate in some social activities, but in their free time, they will still feel lonely, and in the long run, it is extremely detrimental to the physical and mental health of the elderly.

Fourth, one of the core problems of middle-aged children providing for their parents is actually a health problem. In the past, the popularization of dietary intervention and healthy lifestyle was not in place, and in the absence of health reserves, many diseases broke out in the middle and old age, which will exacerbate the pressure of many families to provide for the elderly.

To sum up, the dilemma of the only child is not an isolated case, it is a legacy of the development of a past era. It needs to be solved urgently, and it needs policy guidance, social perception changes, and the practical efforts of each and every one of us.

As an only child, you may face several issues when it comes to caring for your elderly parents:

1.Pressure on human and material resources: As an only child, you need to take care of your parents' material life and spiritual sustenance at the same time, which takes a lot of time and energy.

2.Time conflicts: Many only children have to take care of both family and work, and time conflicts can lead to insufficient or inadequate time to care for their parents.

3.Financial burdens: As parents enter old age, they need to pay more energy and financial expenses, and some families are under great financial pressure to afford these expenses.

4.Differences in opinions with parents: Because you and your parents are in different age groups and social backgrounds, it may lead to difficulties in adjusting opinions and lifestyles, and cause family disputes.

5.Psychological burden: The only child not only needs to meet the material needs of the parents, but also needs to pay attention to the psychological needs and emotional sustenance of the parents, which will bring psychological burden to the only child.

There are several ways to deal with these problems:

1.Community support: The community can provide a form of support and assistance that combines some of the day-to-day care with the advice of the community family to ease the burden of caring for an only child.

2.Staffing professionals: Professionals such as maids and nannies can be hired to take care of parents with the support of a professional team.

3.Adequate coordination: can communicate with other relatives and coordinate relationships within the family by sharing care responsibilities.

4.Inspire the spirit of mutual support: Strengthen family relationships, stimulate the spirit of mutual help among family members, and take care of the life and emotional needs of parents together.

In short, when taking care of our elderly parents, we should take into account various factors of ourselves, our family and society, and take appropriate measures to deal with these problems, so that our parents can receive the best care and have enough time and energy to take care of the family and ourselves.

Go to the issuing unit to get **, and the units of both parents and the neighborhood committee will write a letter of introduction and **stamp. Bring your ID card, a copy of your household registration, a marriage certificate, and a double pair of parents** to the issuing unit for reissuance. 1. The applicant for the replacement shall present the original and a copy of the original "Application Form for Receiving the One-Child Certificate", and if there is no original, the copy shall be signed and stamped by the leader of the issuing unit.

It is written: The legal effect is the same as that of the original omen. 2. Individual application, explaining the reason for loss.

3. If the current marital and childbearing status (indicating whether there is remarriage or overbirth) presented by the husband and wife's units and leaving the unit for any reason, the current unit or village (community) committee shall present the certificate, and indicate when the original unit was transferred to the current unit, and the certificate presented by the community shall be attached with a copy of the certificate of dismissal or unemployment certificate. 4. Marriage certificate and ID card of family members (family of three), original and photocopy of household registration book. 5. The remarried family shall attach the divorce agreement or the court's civil mediation document, the judgment, and the widowed family shall attach the death certificate.

Residents who do not have a unit can fill in the application at the community where their household registration is located with their ID cards, household registration booklets, marriage certificates, unemployment certificates, and "Honor Certificates for Parents of One-Child Children", and receive the one-child fee after approval. In addition, the "Certificate of Honor for Parents of a Single Child" needs to be handled in the community where the woman's household registration is located. After receiving the application form in duplicate, it must be signed and stamped by the family planning specialist of the man's unit (or the community where the man's household registration is located), and a two-inch photo of the husband and wife must be provided**.

Those who meet one of the following conditions can apply for the "Only Child Certificate": 1) The husband and wife do not have children after giving birth to a child, and the child is under the age of 16; (2) The husband and wife adopt a child in accordance with the relevant provisions and no longer have children, and the child is under the age of 16; (3) The husband and wife originally had two planned children, one of whom died unexpectedly and the other was under the age of 16; (4) After the husband and wife are widowed, they only have one child under the age of six; (5) The husband and wife have given birth to a child before the divorce, and the child is sentenced to be raised by the person at the time of divorce, and the child is under the age of 16; (6) One of the remarried couples has given birth to a child, but the other party has not given birth to a child, and the current family has only one child under the age of 16; (7) The remarried couple each had one child before remarriage, one of whom was raised by the other party, and the current family has only one child under the age of 16; (8) Couples who have been approved to have a second child give up childbearing, and the child in the current family is under the age of 16.

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 26.

Parents have a duty to upbring, educate and protect their minor children.

Adult children have an obligation to their parents to support, support and protect them.

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1067.

If the parents do not fulfill the obligation to support them, the minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that the parents pay child support.

Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children.