My girlfriend doesn t know what to do if I save money, and my girlfriend doesn t want to save money

She may be the good girl of the family, little princess. There is no shortage of money. So there is no concept of money in terms of amount. Anyway, if you don't have any money, your parents can give it. He had no worries.

It's hard to change anyway. Unless she has this consciousness and wants to change. Or grow up after going through something.

You'll have to work hard.

Let a good person live, no one helps her with money, look at what she thinks, she doesn't know much about life, life is not earned and spent.

When she really becomes your person, you will know how to save. Now, bear with me. Accommodate each other.

Hehe! It's good if my girlfriend wants this, and as soon as I get a little romantic, she says it's extravagant

Brother, I feel the same way as you, my monthly salary will be zero at the end of the month, not to mention, I have to lend the next month's salary in advance, my salary is not high, only 1500, depressed, how good it would be if I was a millionaire!

Maybe she's a materialistic girl, so how would she marry you?

I used to be on a blind date, the inexplicable kind, the boy came up and said, "We can save money together to buy a house in Guangzhou." "I'm smiling on my lips, I'm mmp in my heart

Which green onion are you? The old lady promised to deal with you? It doesn't matter, so they came and asked me to save money to buy a house together.

Of course, the landlord's has been determined to be a girlfriend, so I can rule out my kind of situation. There are a few questions I would like to ask the landlord:

First, how much can you pay for a down payment on a house price, and how to pay it (start saving from the down payment, or can the family help?). If it is a family help, will the man's family be all out or will the man and woman share it equally in proportion)? How much does it cost each month?

Second, how much do you get paid? How much is left after the mortgage? Can you go to the movies when you want to, eat delicious food if you want, and even travel every year?

Third, is the purchase of a house considered pre-marital or post-marital property? If you get divorced later, how much will each get?

Fourth, after buying a house, do you still have money to get married and have children?

If you start saving from the down payment, and your salary is not high, there is no hope, let alone a girlfriend, and your wife does not agree to buy a house.

Let your parents save with you, and ask others to save money with you before you get married, so speechless.

It's good to get used to it, sometimes women are more likely to succeed in the workplace, but men can't, so be calm. There is also the need to constantly enrich yourself and make yourself better, so that you can have a better woman. Pressure is motivation, come on.

It doesn't matter, as long as two people are happy together, it's okay, there's no need to worry too much. There is a way to conquer a woman.

It's okay, since she doesn't dislike you, now men and women in society earn relatively equal money.

Be considerate of her, take care of the family more, you can swap identities, you are responsible for housework and the like, the househusband and the like.

Bear it, what else can you do, if you can't bear it, change her or change yourself, if you can't bear it, break up.

Either try to surpass her or be a housefather with peace of mind.

You are completely on your own feet and think for yourself! Why do you buy me this and that, and I don't have a penny! When you go out, you eat, drink, and take the car, you can't go wrong, but have I really never spent a penny for you?

Have you ever thought that I was paying off my debts when I first started talking to you? Before I met you, I owed more than 3,000 yuan to others, and my salary was only more than 1,000 yuan per month, and half of the money used to go to work, car, eat and buy daily necessities every month had to be used, and the remaining half was used to pay off debts, so do I dare to spend money indiscriminately? After paying off the debt, I had to start saving money to pay for the tuition, which was enough for nearly two months' salary, and I had to save up for a few months!!

And during this period, seeing that you were so cold in the winter, I didn't even have a down jacket, so I immediately pulled you to buy you one. More than 300 yuan, have you ever thought that I would have to go back and save again when I was in debt when I was poor and in debt? Then on Valentine's Day, I bought you a sweater for 200 yuan, and a windbreaker for 5 or 600 yuan, how much does it cost me!!

Am I a big guy? But I think I can't help but give you something on Valentine's Day!! After the money is spent, I will save it up little by little!

But what about you? You even have to worry about the money you spend on food and cars!! All of you tell me, am I wrong?

Then summer was coming, my mother was reluctant to buy an air conditioner, and I started to save money to buy an air conditioner, and I didn't dare to spend money for another three months! These days, these months, am I taking my own salary and being happy? Do you have a conscience?

Who the hell are you? Always remember that you paid for yourself, and always as long as others consider you, I am so poor that I only eat five buns and porridge for breakfast, and I take out so much money from my own savings to buy you clothes, so can't you pay for dinner and car when I go on a date with you? Have you ever considered me?

It's your birthday in September, and I'm thinking about giving you an expensive gift, so I haven't dared to spend money since last month. Did you know? Why?

Why? Why? I'm always the only one who is wrong, you're always right, you're always right, you're always thinking about you, you've never been thinking about me?

You're still going to take this issue out and make everyone scold me? Do you really love me? You just want everyone to scold me with you, don't you?

There's nothing that can be done! In a must save energy crisis, look for opportunities to rise!

Such a woman can't want, she is rich in you, she runs in debt repayment, and she is not worth having.

Leave some personal space for each other, and don't be naïve to think that there are no secrets in the world of the two.

Everyone should have their own privacy, whether it's a lover or a friend.

Ask her directly, where does the money come from? Explaining it in person can be a little misunderstood.

Then go directly to her and ask her where the money came from before making a conclusion.

You need to be careful in your life, but you still have to spend the money you should spend, if two people don't see each other all the time, if you are away from home for a long time, it is easy to have problems, if the relationship is gone, what is the point of so much money.

I'm afraid that all kinds of consumption will waste money when we meet.

Yes.

Your girlfriend loves you very much.

You have to cherish.

Just told her: Follow you, you will never be hungry for her, after all, the teacher is an iron rice bowl. But if you don't teach well, it's also very uncomfortable! Will they be persuaded to leave? So I support your idea!

As far as I know, the teacher's income is also quite good, and the newspaper also says that it is several thousand per month, which is enough and can save a little. Be content.

Besides, it seems that teachers can't have a side hustle, right? Will it not be removed if it is discovered? Our teachers here don't even dare to be tutors, they feel tired, and they are not short of hundreds of dollars.

And if you don't like to socialize with people, it's even harder to find a way. Sometimes it's easy to do white work - people don't pay for it, and acquaintances eat acquaintances!

You can tell her about your strengths (holidays can be spent together, income is stable, people are honest, ...... are honestTell her that she often thinks you have little money, which hurts your man's self-esteem too much, and asks her if she wants to have sex with you! Ha ha! Being a teacher turns out to be disliked!! It's so powerless!!

The two of you may not have the same starting point, her foundation is higher, she wants to get a better life, and from your foundation, you may feel that the current status quo is quite satisfying.

In fact, her thoughts are very normal, even if you are not with her, with other girls, you will also face problems such as buying a house, unless you directly find a girl with a good family background, saving yourself the time to struggle.

You still have to develop your own business, and you can't be too interested in money when you are young, now is the time for potential investment.

I think it's a good profession to be a teacher! And the teacher is a conscience worker, teaching well, not only has their own satisfaction and happiness, but also has feelings with the students That is an unforgettable memory in the student's life, you leave them with me, hehe.

And does the teacher have a welfare house now? What kind of family homes do our teachers have?

If not, being a teacher is also a stable profession, so you can save money slowly. The girlfriend who loves you should work hard with you and support you! But could it be that she is inspiring you and hoping to have a home with you sooner?

In short, the two have to communicate and understand well. After all, when choosing a partner, you still have to live with this person, not with a big house. The house, if you can see it a little bit, wouldn't it be okay to have a place to live, and then strive for it in the future.

In these years, who has such good conditions to earn a lot of money to buy a good house......You still have to cherish your life and the lovers around you, work hard, and be full of hope for life

Teachers can do some academic research on their courses, publish **, publish books or apply for projects...... or somethingI don't know your personal situation, but it's better to go in your own direction if you try. No matter how inert there is, you have to move forward, right, you just don't want to do so much, step by step, it's better than hesitating in place.

Buying a house, depending on what you are in, some first-tier cities, housing prices are so high, not that ordinary people can afford to buy, and you are not married, your age should not be very old, and you are not the main subject, which is also good for you, as the main subject and class teacher, the work task and psychological pressure are only greater.

Stick to your own ideas, you are right, some women like to ask others to give them material, some women, like to pursue material things by themselves, and your girlfriend belongs to the former category.

If she sees your potential, you talk to him, how far you will go, if you can't meet her requirements, don't force yourself, you may meet the right person for you. That person may make you more motivated, and you will go voluntarily. Not forced to go.

However, generally men are more realistic than women, and your indifference may also be rare. That's what I appreciate, too.

I don't think there's a problem with your girlfriend, it's your problem. Because no matter how far society develops, no matter how capable a woman is, she hopes that she will have a man she can rely on. Whether this man can be relied on or not, both parties largely depend on how much you earn at the beginning, so you have to earn money is the last word.

As for the lack of direction, it's because you don't want to struggle. Think about the people you love, think about your family, you will work hard to earn money, think about your age, I believe that as long as you work hard, you will definitely have a different ending than now, this includes a lot, think about it, don't say anything without direction.

I think, your girlfriend is right, a woman marries her husband in order to have a dependence, and the most important thing to rely on is to make money and live a good life, in this society, who doesn't want to live a better life, do you see the beggar on the street Will anyone marry him Think about the housing prices now, it is really not ordinarily high.

The average salaried class calculates that it takes decades to save to buy a house, but a woman's youth can afford to wait for you for decades.

If a woman really loves you enough, then, you can discuss it well, get married and rent a house to live in, and then work together to buy it in the future.

In fact, to be honest, there is nothing wrong with not buying and renting a house for a lifetime, a few hundred yuan a month, how can you be so tired, it depends on what she thinks, the so-called affection and love, everything is good to discuss and bless you.

It's easy for women to compare themselves, donor, your problems are very common in real society, money plays a leading role in real society, you are all teachers, usually the income is not high, plus you don't like to go out, your wife will definitely have opinions. Women like men who are aggressive. Remember "willing", maybe you gave up Teacher Shan and bravely went out to explore, even if you failed, you also tried.

Having this spirit is what women appreciate... There is no bitterness in a man's heart, only whether he dares or not.

You want to live an ordinary life! You are so easy to be satisfied with the status quo! But your girlfriend is different, she likes to compare, she likes luxury, and she wants to be envied by others!

The two of you have different outlooks on life! It's hard to change, if you love her, then you do what she says you do! Calm down and don't burden yourself!

It's all about love! Hehe, otherwise your future is worrying, boy! If you want to live a comfortable life, I'm afraid you can't.

Boy, struggle! If you are tired and don't die, you have to take more money.

There is a young man who just got married, and when he meets people, he says: It's good to get married, every day when I go home, my daughter-in-law brings me slippers, and my dog surrounds you, screaming wangwang, happy!

After a few years, this young man said to everyone: Alas, it's not good to get married, now when I go home every day, my wife no longer takes slippers for herself, it is the family dog who brings the slippers to you to wear, and when I return to the room, my wife yells at me again, thinking that I make little money and can't be promoted.

When a master heard this, he said to him, "Friend, you should be happy, when you go home, your wife will no longer bring you slippers, but the puppy will give you slippers to wear, and it is not the same as wearing, and when you go back to the bedroom, the puppy will not bark at you, but your wife will bark at you, and it will not be Wangwang's bark."

The world is impermanent and changing, it is impossible for this world to remain unchanged, what remains unchanged is our heart, as long as our heart is loving, as long as our heart is wise, compassionate, and affirmative, then everything is good, everything is lovely, why bother?

In life, as long as one door is closed, other doors will be opened, and the only way to achieve happiness is to ignore the closed door.

Believe in yourself.

Believe that you must give your wife the most beautiful love!