How do you define a blind date? What do you think of this form of blind date?

I'm 18 years old and I've been working for a year. My boss used to ask me, why didn't I study and come out to work? I just smiled and said I didn't miss it.

Because my parents are old, I need to support them. I don't have that much time and money to wait for myself to graduate. When I was a sophomore in high school, my brother got married, and the object was a girl introduced by a relative.

That is, a blind date, talked about it for about a year, and got married. Before marriage, all kinds of good, her mother bragged all kinds of things, saying how good her daughter was, how she could cook and do housework, etc. After marriage, the food is raw, the dishes are not cooked, and so on, don't talk about it, it doesn't matter, you didn't marry into our family to cook, you are also the baby of the family.

And you can learn to cook slowly. My family and I ate as usual and didn't say anything. My sister later told me that she had blown it before she got married, and how good it would be after she got married.

I told my sister that you have to give people a chance to adapt, don't be so picky.

Most of the people who need to go on a blind date have good conditions, but they are delayed by work and study, and their social circle is small, so why not find the other half through a blind date. It's just that love is supposed to be magical, and it will suddenly appear on any corner, in a coffee shop on a street corner, on the corner of an alley. Of course, the blind date is also interesting, just to see what grade you are in the eyes of the matchmaker.

I have also been on a blind date, and I used to think that blind dates were a shameful feeling, very disgusted with blind dates, very resistant to the introduction of my parents to let the matchmaker, and felt that free love will have love. As people get older, they get older, and they don't think about blind dates anymore. There are good and bad aspects of blind dates, and blind dates are all about getting married, unlike falling in love freely.

Nowadays, it is estimated that seventy or eighty percent of the blind date is launched by parents, relatives and friends, and most of the "forced" blind dates are young people over the age of twenty-five or sixteen or divorced, the reason is that "the emperor is not anxious for eunuchs", so, on the one hand, his marriage should be his own decision, on the other hand, he should also think about his parents, relatives and friends, and seize the opportunity, after all, this is not only related to their own happiness and filial piety, but also related to the responsibility of the elders.

The advantage of blind date is that you can know each other. They were all introduced by family members or relatives, and even if they couldn't be together later, the two of them could become friends in the future. Moreover, it reduces the time for yourself to meet the opposite sex, and through the introduction of relatives and friends, you can know the hobbies and personalities of the other party.

I, female. An aunt in a village introduced a blind date, met twice, talked from last year to this year, I don't know what the other party thinks, in my place, he still has the prefix "blind date". Some people may be curious, after a year, why do you still need to contact if there is no progress?

Well, I can name no less than 10 reasons, and I've been asking myself why. Maybe it's because of that seemingly impossible possibility, I decided to go back to my hometown this year, and he has been in his hometown, after all, there is no special embarrassment in the chat, but there is no more happiness.

One of my nephews is also filial to his parents, but he has been wandering outside since he came back from the army, not because no one likes him, but because he is a little picky, so he has not found a girlfriend in his thirties, and his brother's sons have already gone to elementary school, so his parents are very anxious, and there are several formal introductions and blind dates, but he finally refused. In the end, his mother forced him to marry an older girl, but he divorced him less than two years after the marriage and went to work alone in Xinjiang, far away from his parents, and his parents regretted it.

My friend's daughter, who studied very well, was admitted to the best university in China, and after graduating with a master's degree, she went to the United States to study for a doctorate and postdoctoral. But due to work, she didn't meet many unmarried peers, and she didn't believe in online acquaintances, so she and her parents are helpless now.

First of all, I definitely refuse to go on a blind date, but I am still sensitive to the following aspects:

1.Think rationally: consider the pros and cons of blind dates, whether you are willing to accept this arrangement, and if not, you need to communicate well with your parents.

2.Respect for parents: Even if you don't want to go on a blind date, you should respect your parents' wishes, express your thoughts about changing yourself, and find a solution together.

3.Choice: If you are willing to go on a blind date, you should also pay attention to your feelings and needs, do not be swayed by your parents' expectations and arrangements, and choose the right person independently.

4.Adjust your mindset: Blind dates are not a bad thing, they can be seen as an opportunity to expand relationships, relax your mindset and face it positively.

To sum up, blind dates are not a bad thing, but they need to think rationally and make independent choices, while respecting the wishes of parents and communicating well.

Nowadays, blind date is no longer a symbolic form of traditional marriage. Its existence, with more expectations and concerns of parents, is also the external embodiment of young people's self-positioning and pursuit. From the self-field to the concept of family, the blind date in this era has been endowed with more personalized demands and life meanings.

What exactly is a blind date for young people? How should it be viewed?

For me, the word blind date is like a treasure, silently hiding in my story, but also in the stories of important people in my life, and blind date is inextricably linked to me. But I also used this topic to think deeply about my understanding of emotional marriage.

For the arrangement of the family, I will take into account the other party's identity, economic status, habits and hobbies, etc., if there is a match with me, I am willing to go on a blind date. In my opinion, the family is actually in a "commonplace" and "fixed sea" existence. On the one hand, certain habits formed within the family subtly affect our lives; On the other hand, young people also aspire to be different, pursuing self-development and individuality.

In blind dates, I try to understand each other's attitude towards life, respect their right to choose, pay attention to their inner self, understand their experience and background, etc., rather than directly denying each other's differences. Of course, this is based on the premise that we all know a lot about each other.

Feelings need to be managed, and this kind of management needs to be done really and sincerely, this is my attitude towards blind dates, and also my attitude towards feelings.

In short, the process of blind date is not just to satisfy the family, to find the right person to marry. I am willing to really know and understand a person through blind dates, establish our own interpersonal network, and maybe I will accidentally find my own happiness in the process.

Blind date is a traditional way of making friends, usually with introductions from family and friends. Before a blind date, both parties usually don't know each other very well, so they need to get to know each other, communicate, and reach out to each other to decide whether or not to enter into a relationship.

In the process of blind date, the two parties can talk and get to know each other to assess whether they have something in common, whether their interests and hobbies are similar, and whether their personalities and values match, so as to decide whether to further develop the relationship. In this process, if no serious inappropriate problems are found, then you can take a step forward to develop a relationship with Yuyan Sun.

However, a blind date does not mean that a relationship must be confirmed. If two people find that they are not suitable for each other or have no feelings for each other after communicating and contacting each other, then they can choose to end the relationship without having to force themselves into the chain of love.

In conclusion, a blind date is a form of making friends whose purpose is to allow both parties to get to know and contact each other better in order to decide whether or not to enter into a relationship. However, a blind date does not mean that a romantic relationship must be confirmed, and both parties should be free to choose during the blind date process and respect each other's thoughts and feelings.

Blind date is a way to meet someone new in order to find a suitable partner for you. During the blind date process, both parties should maintain an open and honest attitude, carefully understand each other's situation and wishes, and make choices on the basis of respecting each other.

Whether a blind date needs to confirm a romantic relationship depends on the specific situation. If both partners feel good and willing to get to know each other further, you can try to build a relationship, or you can keep in touch as friends if both parties are not interested, it all depends on the wishes and feelings of both parties.

Under the traditional concept in China, blind dates are often considered to be for marriage, so it is necessary to confirm the relationship through mutual understanding and determine whether it is possible to get married. However, in contemporary society, personal values and lifestyles are becoming more and more diverse, and the purpose of blind dates has also changed, and some people may just want to make new friends or find a short-term romance rather than a marriage partner.

Therefore, in the process of blind date, both parties should respect each other's wishes and choices, do not forcibly distort the relationship between each other, and should not press the marriage in the process of blind date. Be transparent with each other, really communicate with Wang Congcheng, contact more, communicate more, don't be too eager to judge, and don't pursue quick results too much.