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Anonymous users2024-02-08It's best not to explain when the other person misunderstands.
1 This is important. When you are misunderstood by a friend, the other party's emotions are still very intense, and if you explain, it is difficult for the other party to hear clearly, and it is difficult to agree with what you are explaining. At this point, the best thing to do is not to explain.
2. Give each other a time to calm down.
When friends misunderstand you, each other's hearts will not be very calm, and it is difficult to solve the problem when two people are in contact. In this case, be sure to give each other a time, which can be long or short, at least when the mood of both parties has dropped a little before coming forward to explain.
3Do you need help from other friends?
Friends misunderstand you, and sometimes when you go to explain to him, he doesn't see you at all, or simply refuses. At this time, you need to ask other friends to help, ask them to come forward, let each other meet, only when they meet, can they have a chance to explain, this effect will also be very good.
How can misunderstandings be explained?
1. Clarify in person.
When the two parties calm down, you can ask your friends out at that time, solemnly explain the reason for the matter, and when you communicate face-to-face, you can directly see the other party's emotions, and you can naturally know the other party's attitude, which is very direct and effective.
2. Do you want to consider the occasion?
In fact, there are misunderstandings with friends, many times when they go to eat together, drink a little wine, or go to a café, or go to karaoke, and soon the misunderstanding between each other will naturally be eliminated. This is also a method recommended by many people, if you are misunderstood by a friend, you might as well give it a try?
3. It is not recommended to use ** information email and other methods of explanation.
Why? Friends care about each other's feelings, and if they play falsely, they can't be called friends. Sometimes when we use **, send a message, or email to explain a misunderstanding, we can't see the other party's attitude at all, even if the other party's reply is generous.
I can't even judge. Personal advice, if you care about this friend, just make it clear in person!
Of course, sometimes it is very useful to use explanations such as playing ** and sending messages.
There are some things that can't be explained, so choose to be silent!
1. Believe in time.
Time is a terrible thing. In life, we are misunderstood by another friend because we promised it, and we have no way to explain it. In that case, don't explain, learn to be silent, keep being yourself, time will always explain it all!
Of course, you're going to have to bear something!
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Being honest with your friends comes first. Why bother if you talk too much about feelings and too little, you can't help but say a thousand words, just like a mosquito buzzing rat. Words are born from the heart, and just a few words are like the friends of three autumns.
The second place is, don't force it. The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, not that the friendship of gentlemen is shallow, but that there is no turbid desire in the friendship of gentlemen, clear, clean, and free to come and go. When you meet and get acquainted, you can become a confidant, or you can pass by.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Communicate more, communicate face-to-face, and resolve the misunderstanding.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Find a chance to get drunk, half-laugh and half-drunk to make it clear.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Explain clearly, or directly state your own point of view, so that the other party does not misunderstand.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03First of all, you have to tell me if you are chatting between people of the same sex or between people of the opposite sex.
Secondly, what kind of misunderstanding is the misunderstanding you are talking about?
In the end, did you have a misunderstanding in person or online?
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Anonymous users2024-02-02Misunderstandings don't happen all at once、At this time you need to think about when there will be contradictions.,And then...
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Anonymous users2024-02-01There must always be someone who puts down the shelf first, don't be like me from now on, the two are strangers from now on, when they meet after a few years, they have long forgotten why, but it is still impossible to become friends again, so cherish childhood friends, and when they are lost, they cannot be owned.
It is really uncomfortable to be misunderstood, and it is this feeling that is a little like a hundred words, sad, and helpless! But that's how we feel, but are we thinking about our friend's situation? We are sad because our friends have been misunderstood, but friends, do they also have the feeling of being betrayed by their friends, and will life be different because of this, and what problems will they encounter? >>>More
Of course, it depends on what your girlfriend likes. You can say anything. >>>More
First of all, I also met my boyfriend in college and then split two or two years We have always had a good relationship, haha We also belong to the level of handsome guys and beauties I have always believed in the words of Lu Xun's death Love is to continue to create and renew growth, you have to have the confidence to manage well, but if you can overcome the region, try to be together I came to Shanghai from Henan for my boyfriend Come on, believe in yourself, believe in you, there is no regret if you work hard.
Be calm, calm down, if you don't want to lose, it's best to take the initiative to approach, and then apologize, as a boy it's much simpler, apologies may not be spoken, and the contradiction between gags is solved, as long as it's not the kind of cautious man, as for the girl, apologize, be sincere, it's not a big deal, uh, I read the question you added, this, in fact, I think it's likely that you little girls don't talk through the brain, sorry, please forgive me, I just want to say that sometimes I don't think about it, as for the breakup, it may be serious, it's best not to be very stiff or embarrassed between friends, although it may be just an ordinary friend, if you don't like him, you just slowly stay away from her, and break up the relationship openly and openly, it will be very difficult to get along in the future, and even some other problems, so what, if you are very angry about this matter, so that you no longer like them, you can slowly alienate them, and you will be very embarrassed or uncooperative after breaking up, If you really want to be friends with them, then you can only forgive them for their recklessness and disrespect, and don't make the same problem next time, I really don't know what to say, and it can be seen that you are not particularly good bosom friends, but you can play together, and you won't have a deep heart-to-heart relationship, if it's a really good friend, you won't be so disrespectful to other people's mothers, deal with this problem indifferently, and you can't be too extreme in interpersonal relationships.
Retrieving a relationship is a technical job, I will teach you how to save a relationship, not 100 percent, not 0 percent, everything is in yourself, everything is in your mentality, when your mentality is not strong enough to re-examine the relationship, well, just when I didn't say it! In fact, I think the best recovery is actually not to recover, and of course I can't do it. >>>More