Am I saying the wrong thing? How did she strangle?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What she does to you is just to not hurt you, don't take this sympathy and pity as love, if she denies you, it will undoubtedly be a huge harm to you! Now you've hurt her so much that she has a reasonable reason not to continue with you!

    Don't feel guilty, different people will have different understandings of the same thing, it doesn't matter if it hurts! She understands that her behavior is not wanting to hurt you, and you understand that her behavior is hypocritical because the two are from different angles, in short, the purpose is different!

    Don't think about it, let her go, your friendship can be redeemed, and love hasn't started yet, and it won't start, so it's called fate!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It doesn't matter what her status, give yourself a chance to continue dating, wait for it to come to fruition, don't worry. After a long time, I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. Maybe she really doesn't like you now, but she doesn't like it after she doesn't see it, be more patient.

    And being good to her is voluntary, don't expect anything in return, and there's nothing wrong with being friends.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    She said: Actually, I don't like you. I was just. Treat you as a friend. Don't get me wrong.

    I said, "Don't you think it's hypocritical?"

    What do you mean by saying that she likes you, as if girls don't like this very much, even if she likes you a little bit.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    To like is to like, and not to like is not to like. This doesn't mean that just because you like her, she must like you. The so-called feelings cannot be forced.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Emotion is an inner activity that cannot be seen or touched, sometimes it makes people happy, sometimes it makes people worry, sometimes it makes people suffer, sometimes it makes people happy, but some people often don't know the blessings in the blessings, so that the original happiness slips inadvertently from the hands, it may be young and ignorant or unintentionally hurt, in short, this is the experience of love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How can you say that girls are hypocritical!! I think it's a little bit like you, let's be coquettish with you, who would have thought you were more wooden than wood!!

    Then you go and coax her now, and you want to come to the number.

    Really, you can't chase girls.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You made the wrong mistake, let him misunderstand you, you are stupid enough, sometimes you like and sometimes you don't like to block you, let's lose again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It may be that I like you, and I have to take the initiative to fight for my feelings, and men sometimes have to be cheeky to catch up with girls.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Fellow travelers. No matter. Let's change it again. Stay away from her.

    Time to fix everything.

    I support what the 8th floor said. That's right.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You say she's hypocritical, she's upset, haha...

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't know, I'm a man. A woman's heart is a needle in the sea.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course. Your last sentence, saying that you have learned the art of prostitution, is easy to be understood as meaning that you also want to prostitute yourself.

    Speak from the heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe the other party misunderstands your unintentional words and thinks that you are talking about him, or it is possible that the other party is busy and does not reply to you in time, next time you don't say such words, not everyone can accept everything and listen.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm like this too, I always feel that I'm too tired to live, I don't want to be like this, I often tell myself what to do with myself, don't care so much, I understand all those truths, but I really can't control myself thinking so much, I'm always careful with everyone, I'm really tired.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What you said, I don't know the use, I don't know what the purpose is, this is for girls. Say that, ma'am, the child will feel inexplicable.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you didn't say the wrong thing, you may not have read the messages on your phone, or you simply don't want to pay attention to you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Just say it, just pay attention to it in the future, and say good things when you see people.

    [Spring Festival greetings].

    Chinese New Year's Eve, good luck, New Year has a new look; Go well, make more money, and be lucky year after year;The text message rings, blessings are coming, and I wish you a happy life.

    Good omen for the New Year, blessings to report: May you have good luck, all the best and sweet, happy Spring Festival, happy Chinese New Year's Eve. Wishing you a happy and sweet New Year.

    Good luck for the new year, blessings to report:May you never lack money, every year is safe, happy Spring Festival, Happy Chinese New Year's Eve, and I wish you a happy and sweet New Year.

    Good luck for the new year, blessings to report:May you have a wealth to earn, good luck has just begun, troubles have no beginning, career has gone up, happiness has come to your heart, life has a rush, love tastes sweet, and happiness is endless.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you feel like you've said the wrong thing in your dealings with others, here's how you can deal with it:

    1.Admit your mistake immediately: If you realize that you said the wrong thing, you can admit it immediately and apologize. Honestly admit mistakes and take the necessary steps to correct them.

    2.Ease the atmosphere: If you say the wrong thing and cause a bad atmosphere, you can make an ice-breaking effort to communicate with the other party and show your sincerity, hoping to resolve the conflict and improve the relationship.

    3.Learn to reflect: If you find that you always say the wrong things in your interactions, you can recall whether these words reflect your true thoughts and emotions, whether there are certain psychological problems that need to be addressed, and whether you need to learn more effective communication skills.

    In short, in interpersonal interactions, it is impossible to avoid situations where the wrong thing is said. At this point, the best way is to admit your mistakes, ease the atmosphere, and find a suitable solution. At the same time, you should also learn to self-reflect and improve your communication skills and psychological quality in order to better communicate and communicate with others.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not scary to talk, just correct it in time.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you are not a particularly close partner, it is not recommended to expose your state of mind to others, you can reply with a "Hello, I am here".

    Xu Teli's "Stepping Up Rural Work Is the Greatest Guarantee for Victory": "Therefore, some people say: 'The person who wears the long shirt does not go to the army himself, but asks others to become the soldier.'"

    The countrymen refused to accept what they said. Guo Xiaochuan's poem "Kunlun Xing": "Once there is something in the motherland, we will speak!"

    Deng Youmei's "That Five" 12: "Look at this situation, won't it change the world if you speak?" ”

    Tang Guo Xiang's "The Biography of Gao Lishi": "Every day, the emperor and the Gao Gong personally watched the courtyard be cleaned, the grass and trees were shaved, or the scriptures were discussed, and the speech was changed. ”

    The twelfth chapter of Lu Xun's "A Brief History of China": "The speaker is talking about the shocking things of ancient and modern times, and there were already things in the Tang Dynasty. ”

    The First Moment of Surprise Shooting" Volume 12: "This book speaks in Zhu Zhishan's "Xiqiao Ye Ji". Ming Feng Menglong's "Hanging Branches, Self-Regret": "In the past few days, I have talked to the Liao family, and if he doesn't come, he won't come, and I won't call him angrily." ”

    The Surprise of the Second Moment Shooting Case Volume 11: "At first, Mansheng was at home, and Da Lang drank and sat with him all day long, without speaking. ”

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You do not speak that way. Do you know people well? If you're not familiar, why do people care so much about you?

    I've already greeted you myself. Hello. Right.

    But you have to just use this polite word. People don't think it's interesting. You're idle and have nothing to talk about, and people don't have the time to chat, that's why they say that.

    If you have something, talk about it, and if you don't know it, it's best not to say meaningless things at an inappropriate time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Fetal God. The depiction is already very euphemistic. Reflect on it, why you say that you are a fetal god, and you will understand.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You're right, it's just that you haven't learned how to communicate with people yet, don't watch too much online teaching.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This kind of chat is just small talk to greet each other! There is no good or bad. Let's talk about it first. You can continue to chat! If you didn't say the wrong thing, you can say it any way?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Since it's a chat, it's normal to say hello to each other, it's not good for you to say your reasons and let the other party care, otherwise there is no possibility of chatting.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Your way of chatting is really poor, and people who don't know each other should like it very much.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    When others say hello, you just respond to you lightly, and you don't talk well with others at the beginning, tease others, and others will think that you have something wrong, after all, you are not familiar.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Uh-uh, maybe not your fault. But you should also be polite "hello".

    But I feel that this person is really strange, and the brain circuit is strange.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If a stranger comes to add you, you say hello to the other party, and the person says I'm not good, what do you feel, do you feel inexplicable? If not, it means that you are quite a humorous and open-minded person, and you are a talent!

    Hahaha! However, it is really not polite for the other party to reply to you, if I were him, I would reply directly: Do you have any problems??? I was fine, but the moment I was replied by you was not good!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    That's right, it's just more than half a sentence of speculation.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Yes, then the raider said, "Did I say something wrong?" How to go back.

    When someone points out that you said something wrong, you can respond with a positive attitude instead of overreacting. First, you can use a calm and objective tone: "I'm sorry, I may have been wrong.

    Can you please tell me that I was wrong? Together, we can ** and find the right answer. "Such a non-aggressive way shows that you Sun Sui is willing to accept criticism and shows your maturity and humility.

    If the other person is simply finding fault or finding fault, you can respond in a rational and confident way: "Everyone has a different point of view and understanding, and I respect your opinion." However, my views are based on my knowledge and experience, and if you have any evidence or arguments to support your views, I would be happy to listen.

    This shows your confidence and authority, and gives the other person a chance to provide more specific information.

    In any case, it is essential to maintain a friendly and respectful attitude. Don't get bogged down in arguments and arguments, as this will only make the situation worse. Remember, communication is mutual, not monopolistic.

    Respecting other people's perspectives and being willing to listen and learn is key to constructive communication.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If the other person thinks that you are wrong, you can try the following ways to reply:

    1.Listen carefully to the other person's opinion: First, respect the other person's opinion, listen carefully to what they have to say, and try to understand their point of view.

    2.Prove with facts and figures: If the other person thinks you are wrong, you can cite facts and figures to prove your point.

    3.Make your point of view: You can explain your point of view to the other person and explain why you think the other person is wrong.

    4.Stay calm: It is very important to remain calm during arguments and avoid emotional reactions as much as possible.

    5.Respect the other person: Maintain respect for the other person and avoid using offensive language or attitudes when responding to the problem.

    In short, it is a kind of artful art, which requires a good timing, tone and attitude. Be respectful and rational at all times in order to reach effective communication.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If he says something wrong, he will be scolded directly, and if he is right, then there is no need to be scared.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Summary. Hello, it's okay to be like this I'm not going to talk a little heavy just now, but I didn't mean that.

    How to explain if you say the wrong thing.

    Hello, it's okay to be like this I'm not going to talk a little heavy just now, but I didn't mean that.

    Dear, it has been sent out and there is no way to withdraw it, you said that although I am not at home can participate in the baby's full moon wine is very regrettable, but I want to buy some small gifts for the baby, but I will send a red envelope to you to put away.

    Then send a red envelope.

    I've seen it many times before and I haven't mentioned it, but today I suddenly mentioned it, how to say it to solve the embarrassment.

    Dear, just reply to what I just said, and then send a red envelope to resolve it.

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