I belong to that kind of lively character, my husband is silent and tired every time I quarrel, how

Updated on psychology 2024-04-22
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You are outgoing and often impatient; But your husband is introverted and can be sluggish, right? Then, don't be too anxious when you encounter things, have more respect and understanding for him, and don't quarrel, because you will be very strong when you are an extrovert, so you need to learn to show weakness, restrain your edge, don't be aggressive, and don't always quarrel with him, that will make him bored and avoid! Do emotional psychological counseling in time, learn how to use wisdom to manage marriage, keep love fresh, it will be of great benefit to you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since you belong to that kind of lively and cheerful character, why quarrel with a husband who doesn't like to talk loudly? Quarrel once or twice, forget it, if you quarrel often, it will affect the relationship between you, when you quarrel your husband does not quarrel with you, which shows that he is very patient, very tolerant of you, and also loves you, you must cherish, do not because you often have nothing to do, so that two people often quarrel, and both feel very tired, so that your life will be affected, and your marriage will be challenged. You must know that people's patience is limited, and if it really gets into trouble, it will be too late to regret it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you meet such a husband, you steal the fun, there is no good thing to quarrel with, if it is a-for-tat quarrel, there will always be some hurtful words that pop up, and there will be cracks in the relationship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This should be individualized! Maybe what you've seen is the kind you said, and there are no absolutes in everything! I'm very cheerful, but I just like guys who are just as sunny as me!

    Energetic and energetic! Have fun when you play together, too! Isn't it?

    Turnip greens have their own love! You don't have to change your original personality for the sake of the other party, your true self is the most charming!! Personality can't be changed!

    No matter how much you change, it's false, and it's torture for yourself! Isn't it? That's who I am!

    Wouldn't it be better to find someone who suits you and has similar interests?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This problem does not need to be solved.

    Only by complementing the personalities of husband and wife can the relationship between husband and wife continue, which is conducive to family stability.

    If the two people have lively personalities and quarrel with no one else, it will inevitably expand the conflict, and if this is the case for a long time, the relationship between the husband and wife will be easily hurt, and eventually lead to divorce.

    Complementary personalities between husband and wife are the best ways for husband and wife.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's better to communicate and communicate more, and if he doesn't speak, you have to talk to him, and both parties have to calm down first, and then say all the psychological words.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You are too strong, too unreasonable, too nonsense, he reasoned with you, and you were unreasonable with him, so he didn't bother to pay attention to you, because my wife is like this.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is normal for husbands and wives to quarrel, as long as one person is willing to give in, it will be a big thing and a small thing.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Isn't it good for my husband to be silent? Do you want your husband to quarrel like you? Those two people will fight, and there will be no way to live.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't know your age, and the answer may not be ideal.

    1. People's emotions are affected by psychology, and they will be very irritable if they are in a bad mood. Your husband's usual performance is very good, which means that you are generally very satisfied with your husband.

    2. If emotional sensitivity only happens occasionally, maybe your husband encounters some pressure at work or in life, and you are his closest person, so I send this irritability to you.

    3. People are often accustomed to leaving the good side to others, and their backlog of dissatisfaction and unhappiness are brought back to their families, because he knows that home is his back strength, his harbor, and home is the only place in the world that can tolerate him, so he will not scruples. You can have a good talk with your husband, and if you find the reason, you will have a solution.

    4. If your husband's sensitivity and emotionality are frequent, it is recommended to see a psychiatrist and let the doctor help your husband find the reason and overcome such emotions, our personality and temperament will be affected by genetic reasons, but we can transform it and change it through acquired efforts.

    5. See a psychiatrist, this is not to say that we are sick, but that some of our emotions cannot be smoothed out on their own, and we need to use professional methods and means to make our mental health.

    6. If the husband in the question is an older man, emotional, sensitive, and short-tempered, it is necessary to consider whether it is the cause of menopause, if so, consider going to the hospital and taking medicine according to the doctor's instructions. Menopause is something that each of us has to go through, whether it's a man or a woman, keep an optimistic attitude, smile often, and everything will work out.

    7. Many problems have to be faced and solved by themselves, and we are just making a suggestion next to us, to overcome this emotional problem and not let it become a habit, we still need to be determined to change, and it also takes time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can try to persuade him and tell him that complaining too much is too strong to prevent intestinal breakage, and the scenery should be long-term.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Guidance: Your husband's condition is considered to be a mental disorder caused by alcohol, and hospitalization** is recommended.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Should be divorced.

    Living with a grumpy person is like carrying a dynamite bag, and you can't tell when you will blow yourself up, in the face of such a marriage, women should no longer endure it, because living with such a person every day, a woman's spirit will always be in a tense state, and the brain and body and mind will not dare to relax for a moment. Home is a place for everyone to rest, a warm harbor for two people. If a person still has to endure such mental pain at home, then it is better to have such a marriage, but to let himself find new happiness as soon as possible.

    Although such a man will occasionally care about you, this kind of goodness will only stay on the surface, once you touch his bottom line, he will scold you, and will not take your face and dignity into account. A man's true kindness to you is not just about saying that he cares about you, but he should prove his care and love for you with practical actions. A person who truly loves you will know how to respect and take into account your feelings, and such a man will always take care of his own emotions, and when he is dissatisfied, he will pour all his dissatisfaction on you.

    Such a man is a typical soft persimmon pinch, that when he is angry outside, he will not dare to say a word, he will only go home and scold his wife, if the wife is also the same hot temper, the life of the two people will be restless, making people feel that the home is a big battlefield, specially for the husband and wife to carry out the scolding war. And if the wife is a weak character, she will be pinched by such a manThey will feel that their wives are very easy to bully, and even if their attitude towards the other party is very bad, their wives will not fight back and scold back.

    Women don't feel like they are an individual who has no ability to protect themselves from the heart, even if you are weak, you must have the right to protect yourself, and don't let a person full of violent tendencies bully you at any time. If you really don't want to live like this, try to find happiness again.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This kind of person can not be tolerated, you have to give some color source to see, clothes bai does not wash him, food does not make du, baby does not bring, see how long he can stand, it is best for a woman to have economic independence, not completely dependent on men in money, otherwise he will have the capital to restrain you, men and women are equal now, don't take machismo and the idea of male superiority and inferiority.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it's better for you to separate from him as soon as possible, otherwise you will have a hard time in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can cycle through the cycle and slowly recuperate. Communicate with him more. Try not to touch his bottom line. Give him more warmth and care, and he will be influenced by it slowly, and he will not be short-tempered and unreasonable.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Divorce, there is no way to communicate with this kind of person. Let him die alone.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Communicate well, if you really can't choose to divorce, you will be very painful to face his temper and unreasonableness every day.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    That's not easy to divorce him, this kind of person is a dog who can't change eating, and he will never be able to change it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hey, I really don't know when bai

    What did you think about it at first?

    duh him. You are still married to him for nothing, so I wonder if your version is too watery. I think that he must have his good, and his good must be much stronger than his shortcomings. Otherwise, how could you marry him? Besides, if a man has no shortcomings, isn't that a god? Calm down, think about his goodness, and live quietly.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You yourself are blind to find a husband who is looking for this model, and for the time being, you can only marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog, and your old du's temper has come up with you.

    zhi can't back down,: give him a dao to call 110** for help, he is unreasonable, but there is always a place to reason and judge, in this case you have to shout loudly, can't be soft-hearted, to surpass him, can't let him become a habit, he loses his temper you have to be more interested than him, let him know that he can't fight you, you are more fierce than him, he won't dare to lose his temper casually next time, because after a few practices, let him realize that you are not a good bully.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Countering violence with violence, communicating and reasoning more, and changing gradually in a cycle.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Such a husband has nothing to be nostalgic for, hurry up and divorce.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You remember this kind of person who is fiercer than him, more unreasonable than him, and he himself tastes that kind of taste, and he probably will change it, and if it doesn't work, he will divorce it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    How did you fall in love with him in the first place? If that's the case, stay away from him and protect yourself.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Either endure or leave, it is impossible to change.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The above situation, first of all, we must consider whether it is caused by endocrine disorders, or it may be because of the symptoms that women have before and after menopause after a certain age, or when menopause arrives, there will also be some such symptoms, showing low mood, or it may be caused by excessive liver fire.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The temper grows bigger and bigger, and it only hurts your own body. One has to learn to inhale. Don't lose your temper over a small thing. Hurt yourself and hurt others.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I guess your husband is worried about something, and I'm afraid that you will be worried, so I didn't tell you. But he can't adjust his temper well, so he often quarrels with you. You can take the initiative to talk to him, comfort him, and believe that you will soon be able to return to your previous peaceful life.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The maintenance of the relationship between husband and wife requires the joint efforts of both parties. But you can lead by example, be a good wife, and influence her with practical actions.

    The secret to a successful marriage: Respect each other's differences. Be considerate, understanding, and tolerant of each other.

    Men and women are from different planets, men are rational and women are emotional.

    It is ridiculous to wish that two people have the same thoughts, the same opinions, and the same desires, and this kind of thing is impossible and unpopular. To adapt, not to transform your spouse.

    Many romantic dreams were shattered! More than 50 are unhappy in marriage. One reason: useless, yet heartbreaking criticism. To maintain a happy family life, remember: don't criticize.

    Communication between couples is important! Find a communication style that works for both of you; Communicate openly and straightforwardly; Remember, if emotions arise, stop and avoid harm.

    It is also necessary to learn to listen, which requires considerable maturity. Listening means patience, openness, and sincerity in wanting to understand the other person, which are mature personalities. On the other hand, it is much easier to talk to oneself and disrespect others.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Then you should be aggrieved and tell him well, let's sit down and communicate well.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Husbands and wives should learn to be tolerant, tolerant and understanding of each other!!

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