Is it still the same as the parents? Parents door, husband s door, tomb door?

Young people are like this, unwilling to do rigid work, and you have your own ideals, you can fight while you are old, you can create a world if you win, and you have a chance to correct it if you lose.

Your question now is mainly::

1. It's a little late to rebel, because you've always been submissive, and your family may not be able to accept that you suddenly don't listen to them. Nowadays, it is difficult to find a job in society, and there are many people who are unemployed after graduating from graduate school, and your family arranges this job for you, maybe how many favors will be put in, and you suddenly say that I will not do it, they will definitely not accept it.

2. You have an ideal direction, but you may not really know what you want to do. For example, you are thinking about not being paralyzed, but you don't know what to say I'm going to do. I have a friend who likes movies, she went to work at CCTV after graduation, and she didn't have much money a month, just to get involved with what she liked, and later she did several jobs around her preferences.

I think she is getting a job first and then choosing a career, but she has been working hard around a fixed goal. Do you have a clear goal?

If you consider the above two points, I think you can do it at the moment:

1. First determine what you want to do. You can't rebel for the sake of resisting, you have to have a reason to resist. For example, if you say that I don't want to live a stable life and want to try my own life, what is your own ideal? It can't be that you can't find a job and are displaced, right?

2. After determining the goal, don't leave immediately, look for opportunities by yourself, you must first determine whether your situation, including your academic qualifications and specialties, can make you move towards the set goal. If you want to try what you want to do, you also need the relevant unit to give you this opportunity. If you don't meet the employer's requirements for the time being, and the current job is not so intense, you can ride a donkey to find a horse, improve your ability and then consider other things.

3. Begin to be self-reliant. Self-reliance does not mean running away from home, and you are not a child, there is no need to be so naïve, and your parents and family are also for your good, you should not break their hearts. Now that you have a job, you can move out and live near the unit, you can take care of yourself in life, and you can be financially independent, when you mature, let them know that you are a person who is responsible for yourself, assertive, and capable of arranging your own life, and after believing in you, they are more likely to agree with your choice.

You don't have to run away, that's what children do.

However, if you are confident and determined, then take the courage to run away from home against their wishes.

After all, life is your own, and although they are for your good, they don't necessarily know what you really want and what kind of life you really want to live. Even if you follow the path they arranged completely, when this life is over, if you really regret the uneventful life of this life, then you can't blame them, because although the road is chosen by your family for you, it is you who choose it yourself to obey your family's arrangement.

In addition, since you have a personality, since you have a pursuit, since you want to change, then you must have the courage to take risks, you must have courage, and you must continue to do it in one go until you make achievements to show your family. Otherwise, if you are hesitant and you doubt yourself, you still expect who will support your ideas and trust your decision......

Look at your description of yourself, believe that you are a girl with pursuits, then go for it. Be brave, your family may bombard you and criticize you at the beginning, but as long as you get better and better, your family will definitely support you in the end, because all their starting points are to see you well. Then you can show them.

Personal will cannot be imposed on others, this is the truth that even children know, parents and sisters have the day of birth, old age, sickness and death, they can't replace yourself, your own life needs to be lived by yourself. Now that you are about to graduate from college, the main problem is to make a living, you have to consider the minimum life **, not even the minimum life**, and the rest is simply empty talk, you might as well work in the foreign company they found for you, with the foundation, and then consider the life you yearn for, at least not because there is no minimum life guarantee, there is a saying: people, the most important thing is to live.

Only with a guarantee of life can we live, and without a guarantee of life, it is all nonsense to talk about lofty ideals and ambitions. I wish you the best of luck in what you want and know what you love to do!

You have one idea that is certain, that is, to get your graduation certificate first, and you must endure it during this time, and you can't resign.

As for after graduation, you are a member of society and will have the corresponding power, but the word freedom is synonymous with ability!

First of all, you like hosting, what major do you study? Entering the hosting world, will others want you?

I don't mean being a TV presenter directly, but you have a starting point in that direction. Do you have one?

I think the most basic thing is the professional counterpart!

I'm not afraid of you laughing, I've been an extra! My dream is to be an A-list!

Now I have chosen Anfen to make money, why? Because ideals are shattered, he needs a basic starting point. Especially in this day and age.

Girls, or An An goes to work separately, after having an economic foundation, you can choose to start a business, or you can choose to enter the school to make up for your favorite major (hosting, literature, etc.), and then work hard in the hosting world, step by step to become famous.

But there is one thing, which is to get married and fall in love, which absolutely has nothing to do with ability and economy. This requires absolute freedom, because love is the most wonderful and can be free. Don't listen to their arrangements Blind dates that you don't like and don't feel !!

Otherwise, it will be a lifetime of pain! My wife is the product of a blind date, and now she is as heavy as a wild boar and as vicious as a vicious !!

I can't write anymore, if I don't give her the Internet again, she'll beat people!

It is recommended that you talk to your parents and stick to your own ideas, and you will not only live for others in this life.

Parents love their children, as long as you stick to your own ideas, one day they will understand.

Life is your own, and your parents will never be able to accompany you through all the roads! I think this sentence should solve the differences between you and your parents! Make your own decision, because it is related to your life, whether it is right or wrong, pain and happiness are your own choice, this is your own life!

Of course, we will live for our parents and friends, but we must live for ourselves, because our lives are very short and we can't stand regrets!!

The outside world is wonderful, and the outside world is helpless. I don't have a relationship at home, I can't go through the back door, I don't have a high education, I don't have high ability, I don't have a high IQ, I end up like a headless fly, flying everywhere, I used to think that I was very courageous, I could fly very high on my own, but I was useless for a few years. I believe in the ability of the landlord, but you have to think twice before deciding, and don't regret many things if you decide, just like getting married.

I hope you can think about it, after all, your parents are from the past, and they all want you well. Many people wish for such an opportunity, but they don't. And you have.

If my words are definitely trying to resist, this time if you listen to them, they will largely intensify in the future, regardless of your feelings, to arrange for you to live a life you don't like, including marriage, so that you will have a psychological shadow, even if their starting point is good, even if the objective arrangement is good, but you are always unacceptable in your heart, the fact that you can't accept it in your heart will definitely not have a good end, for your own happy life in the future, you must be strong this time, I can't listen to them anymore ...

How sad will parents be when they run away? Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, this sentence is not wrong at all, you should understand the good intentions of your parents, they really hope that you can have a stable job, a lifetime of iron rice bowl, right? You can think about it, your hobby and the unit that your parents let you enter, that is more promising, hobbies are hobbies after all, you see if you can play a good role in your future development, you can have a good future, you can examine it and then decide whether you stick to your current hobbies, many things are counterproductive, having hobbies is a good thing, if your hobby can work, can develop, I support you, you can do it, do a good job to convince your parents, Think about the pros and cons of both jobs.

Don't run away, but communicate well with your parents. I used to think that my parents had no freedom to plan everything, but now I find that these decisions that we hate are the roads they have worked so hard to pave. If you have something you like to do and feel that you have that talent, you can go out and tell them in advance that they will understand you, and the parents' decisions are all about wanting their children to be happy and well.

There is a saying that "if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you." After all, parents have experienced a lot of things, so there are some important things that you still have to listen to them.

It's not easy to find a good job now, you are still not deeply involved in the world, and you don't know the cruelty of society.

I don't think that you will be arranged for a lifetime to join a foreign company, maybe you will be promoted or work in other jobs in a foreign company if you do a good job.

Such a restless girl.

Then you have two paths.

One is not to see your current job as easy, but to work your own, and then on the basis of this position, strive to learn more knowledge of other positions, or management knowledge, until you reach the top executive position. It's a fun life. This is called good wind with force.

Another is to start your own business. Inspect a project by yourself, and have sufficient market research and preliminary preparation and confidence. Then I quit my job and tell my family. Then it's up to you.

Bless you.

If you're a girl, you've made the right choice! It's a boy, and your choice is not bad! What is your view of happiness now? Let's ask my sister! If you agree with what she says, then follow their arrangement, if not, say more!

Tell their family to fuck off and tell your former husband that he's not a man Look at what kind of woman this kind of person will find in the future, fortunately he left a person like you If it won't ruin my life, as for the child, why did you beat it down, the responsibility lies with you, you still have the face to come to our door to scold, do you still have to be shameless? Tomorrow you will continue to come if you are still shameless, and if you really can't do it, call the police! Of course, if you still want to marry him, I'll find another way for you!

It's not the closest person anymore.,Even if there's affection.,They treat you like this.,Don't care too much about-for-tat.。。 You scold too.

Or ignore them as the flies are barking.

Or find someone to scare them so that they don't harass you.

Or as soon as they come to your house and scold you, you call the police

Is it all like this, do you remarry? Let's go.

Hehe......It's normal to have this kind of mentality, ......But you have to be clear about one thing, why do they treat you like this and not to people who have a little relationship with them?! Show them how much they love you ......I hope you can make a career ......There is also a good ...... lifeParents always love their flesh and blood ......This requires you to communicate ...... yourselfThink about it! In fact, they should be afraid of your pride or let you know some truths in society......Otherwise, you'll be at a loss......So I advise you to slowly eliminate this mentality!

Like I used to always blame my parents for how hard they were on me! But when they came out to become independent in society, they knew that they were right......Remember, time can change everything......You'll know ...... when you're olderYou're still young, and you'll be ...... with a smileLet your parents know that you've grown up! Go and communicate!

Be bold and go ......Speak to them in the words of a normal adult ......

What exactly is it?。。 It's hard to say whose problem it is at the moment.

Hey, there will always be a small generation gap in the age gap, and even contradictions and misunderstandings.

Maybe they are too inattentive and don't take care of your feelings, or maybe they always "bully" you with an educational tone. But there is no malice, the starting point is to love you.

If you think you really can't talk to them, then say less, but in moderation, and don't ignore them and even be inferior to strangers.

Let's talk to your friends.

Actually, how do you say it? There are no parents who harm their children, but there is a communication problem, a slap does not make a sound, and both parties are responsible, but we are juniors, and we still have to do 60% of our efforts. You can try to communicate slowly, and although it is difficult at first, I think it will be good to take it slowly.