Parents give advice on breaking up, will your parents agree to your breakup?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-05
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Parted. There are many good men in the world, so why should you let yourself be wronged.

    Girls must know how to improve their worth.

    However, housework is something that needs to be learned.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should have a good talk with your boyfriend.

    Say what you think.

    I really don't want to see you so frustrated.

    I hope you are happy for the New Year.

    As long as the relationship between two people is good, although the family is also a problem, the relationship is mainly a matter of two people.

    Be happy and you will be happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, I'm not the kind of girl who can do housework and work hard like his parents, but I'm still not good enough for his parents than for my own parents.

    When I saw that, I felt a little bit of it. Everything else is from spoiled kids. Let's just say, you may be too bad for your own parents.

    Let's start with your own parents. If you can't treat your own parents well, how can you be kind to other people's parents?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When you get married, do you live with his parents? Or you like two to buy a house outside! ·

    If the two of you are out there, two people living in a two-person world! I think it's better to reconcile! After all, it's love! ·

    If it's with his parents! Then divide it! So picky before you even enter the door! How will I get along with my in-laws in the future! Definitely break up unhappily, the most loss is still you! ·

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hey, why do you love him, so why break up? Why should you care, why do you have to care about those things? Parents are also good for their children, but they may sometimes hurt some people.

    This is also unavoidable. My mom was adamantly disapproving of me being with my girlfriend and even said that if I was with her, I wouldn't recognize them as parents or something. My girlfriend was very sad when she heard it and kept crying But I know that she loves me, I know that our future is very long, and some things can be changed, so I try to work hard, but if I really want to choose one, I will never give up the person I love, because she is the person I love the most in this life, and I can't lose the greatest happiness in my life because of the ignorance and ignorance of my parents.

    She is strong and caring. I was also touched by her efforts again and again. I thought that one day I would be independent and I would marry her, even though my parents were against it, but it was just talk.

    Parents are still parents, and I will still take care of them. Even if they don't recognize themselves as sons. The happiness of children should not be ruined because of the feudalism and ignorance of the older generation.

    Don't be impulsive. Everything can always be solved.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    ...Same as I am now. Very bummer.

    I wish you happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After reading so much, it's very strange why we all have to fall in love for our parents, we are all the ones who want to marry and live in the future, why we must accommodate the preferences of our parents, just because the elders and younger generations have different concepts and attitudes towards marriage, how many pairs of mandarin ducks have been dismantled, of course, no matter what the reason is to break up, since you can separate from each other, it means that you don't love deeply enough.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Do you really love him? If you love him, why can't you put up with his parents for him? Why don't you make more efforts to get his parents to accept you?

    You may think that I don't have a backache when I stand and talk. However, this is the case, what is it to really love him and suffer a little? You really find it difficult to be with his parents, so you can move out after you get married.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My boyfriend's parents also thought I was lazy. However, I gave up a lot and worked hard for my boyfriend. To truly love one person is not something that can be easily given up.

    Perhaps, I think this is unrealistic in the eyes of many people. Often, love nowadays is based on reality. But I always feel that two people have to live one life, and I think it's the main thing.

    The idea of the elders is that of the elders, and the main thing is ourselves. After all, it's the two of you who want to live together. There are some deficiencies, you have to use:"Love House & Wu"to ask yourself to change, provided that you still love your boyfriend.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's too early to get married after graduating from college!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Children, take a long-term view, be a good person, and talk about friends from the heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I always feel that it's a pity that people who love each other can't be together!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think that after the breakup, under normal circumstances, the parents already knew, and it can't be said that the parents broke up without knowing it, and generally the contradictions before the breakup have been very intensified, not to say that the breakup happened to one thing, so the parents have heard about it, and they already know it.

    1. Parents will know sooner or later, and when parents know instead of knowing from you for the first time, what kind of situations and phenomena do you imagine will appear.

    2. Parents are the people who know your character best, from childhood to adulthood, parents are the people who have been with you for the longest time, and they can see at a glance what you are thinking. So when you communicate with your parents, you can get more comfort from them.

    3. Parents will communicate with you verbally, help you relieve the sadness in your heart, analyze the reasons for your breakup, analyze the inappropriateness between you, and avoid the same mistake last time when you are dating.

    So as to sum up the experience, instead of being sad for someone who does not belong to you.

    4. Sometimes, there is still a certain generation gap between you and your parents, and they don't understand your current life, so when you communicate with your parents, try to be easy to understand.

    5. If you don't want to disappoint your parents too much, you can re-associate with someone who is suitable, and as a parent, I just hope that you will start a family as soon as possible, and I hope you can find a reliable person who suits you, and it doesn't have to be with anyone.

    If you don't know something, you can tell your parents directly, and there is no need to hide anything, because sooner or later they will know.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The breakup is your own business, why do you have to have parental consent?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Do you want to listen to your parents' opinions when you are in love?

    Personally, you can listen to your parents' opinions, because the vast majority of parents in the world want their children to live well, so you should listen to their views and refer to them.

    Many people think that listening to their parents means that they have to do what they say. Please, you are already an adult, and your parents can listen to their opinions and choose for yourself. Love and marriage are related to the happiness of your own life, think carefully and make your own choice.

    All love can listen to the opinions of parents and consider how to do it yourself.

    In fact, most of our parents' opinions come from their life experiences, and our thoughts are just that we feel happy to be with him at the moment, and we think too much about the future and too simple. The opinion of your parents is definitely a factor that cannot be ignored, but the most important thing is to listen to your own heart, because it is not your parents who can accompany you until you grow old, but your other and you.

    Do you have to listen to your parents when you fall in loveIn real life, most girls will not listen to their parents' opinions, even if their parents strongly oppose it, they will only turn into an underground relationship and no longer open to their parents. But such a relationship is often difficult to get to the end, and it usually takes several years to finally break up. So, what's wrong in between?

    Is it really the parents' judgment that is right? Not really. The core question is:

    The pressure from your parents makes you neglect to observe each other, and instead focus on confronting your parents, trying to prove that your choice is correct. And the more you want to prove it, the less you will look at the other party's shortcomings, the more you will not look at the other party objectively, you will look at him with a filter, and you will not be able to listen to the negation of others about him. You will feel that when others deny him, they are denying yourself.

    So, should you listen to your parents in love? Parents' opinions can be consulted. But in this process, you must see your partner's shortcomings, run in with him, get along normally, and find out whether you are suitable in time. Don't let the pressure from your parents blind you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Of course, if your parents don't agree, you can't break up, because the two of you have gone through a lot of hardships, and you have experienced a lot of difficulties since you started chasing her, because the girl you like must be very good, and there are many people chasing her, and you chase her from so many people, it must mean that you have spent a lot of time and energy, and there must be a run-in period between the two of you together, the two of you have gone through the run-in period, and the two of you will cultivate the same interests and hobbies, and then fall in love, At this time, you will definitely not easily want to give up your hard-won love, and the two of you have experienced a period of time and feel that you can take her to meet your parents, which must indicate that you have made a lot of determination to date yourself with this person, grow old together, and go to the end of your life together, no matter what it is, hinder the two of you. should not break up, because love is more valuable than family affection. Love is completely a magnetic field reaction between two people, the two of you are together simply because you like yourself, and you support you through your life because of your love for each other.

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