My girlfriend and my choice, what if my girlfriend asks me to choose between her and my friend?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-10
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, a man wants to create a name for himself, he doesn't want his girlfriend to help, I think we all have the ability to raise a girl, we have our choice, you are very much like me, I like freedom, I do everything by myself, explain it to my girlfriend, girlfriend is wanted, but I don't want to work.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Really, this kind of thing can only be decided by yourself, and the most emotional thing can not listen to other people's opinions, I suggest you think about it and make a decision, no matter what the result is, calmly say good to your girlfriend, the pain is only temporary, it's good after it, it's better than dragging it all the time, I wish you happiness

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A successful man needs to be good in all aspects. If you can maintain your personality, you can handle your relationship with your parents-in-law very well, and you can make a career, then you are a man. There are all kinds of pressures in any environment, and the key is whether you are a man or not.

    The choice is yours! It doesn't matter how you choose, what matters is what you do after choosing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    As a man, you have to have your own opinions, and if your girlfriend can't even understand this, then even if you don't have problems now, you will have problems in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Look at your personality.

    There are also a lot of melon men, and if you don't have any ambitions, it's not a bad thing to go.

    If you want to have a successful career and want to be a successful man, you would rather not have a wife than have no ambition.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then you have to ask yourself to pull!

    What exactly is your own choice!

    What if she really has to pull to choose you!

    Don't give her the initiative 1

    You have to do it yourself!

    Next, you have to think about what you want, pull 1 fish and bear paws, and you can't have both!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Be sure to choose a friend, because if a girlfriend can make you make that choice, it shows that she is a ruthless person, and she doesn't love you at all.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think I should choose her, after all, a girlfriend is someone who can accompany me for a lifetime, and friends will always be close and different.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course, it's to choose your girlfriend, to make it clear that you and your girlfriend are in a relationship, not with her friends, no matter what is right or wrong, you must be towards your girlfriend.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you should choose a girlfriend immediately, because friends will tolerate you, and if you don't choose a girlfriend, you may run away if you don't choose her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love is pure and beautiful, how to choose a girlfriend is a more complicated issue, first of all, you have to make sure that you really love her, she is the other half that you think is the most suitable for you.

    Secondly, as a girlfriend, being able to understand your mind is the first thing, and the partner on the road of life should be the person who knows you best besides your parents.

    Love doesn't need a reason, as long as you love her and she loves you, isn't it the most important? Your girlfriend also needs to have the qualities that are favored by your elders, so that you can live happily and happily in the future. Be kind.

    Diligence is more important.

    Finish. If you're a lazy woman, your life will be tormented by hell.

    Your girlfriend also needs a spirit that loves you more than herself.

    The family situation should also be considered, and it should not be too bad, otherwise it will become a big burden.

    Love is the most fundamental reason that brings you together, so if you love someone, you must treat her well!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, people should be good.

    In there is a more eye-catching look.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My friend told you not to bring your girlfriend, I think it was because I was afraid that it would affect you, and my girlfriend told you not to go, I think she wanted to spend more time with you.

    And this friend, it really depends on what you think, if you want to be a friend, then your friend is more important than your girlfriend, and vice versa.

    If you choose a girlfriend and you lose your friends, what will others think, and what do your friends think? Now there are many things that we can't expect, think clearly before we do it! And if you choose a friend, you lose the most important person in your life!

    If I were you, I think I would choose friends, because friends are inevitable, and you will meet new friends to **, and losing friends is tantamount to losing yourself, so it's still that sentence:

    And most importantly, what do you think about yourself?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There are 2 reasons to choose B, 1, B is very good to you, I like it very much. 2, b and you are in the present continuous tense If you choose a, then the fact is that you abandon a present continuous tense that is very good to you and likes very much in order to be in the past tense of your general, and you can't say it reasonably, and you don't cherish the good that others do to yourself, often this kind of good is often difficult for you to encounter again, and you think about it clearly.

    In addition, you said that age and background are relatively secondary, and you should distinguish priorities in relationships and marriages and wish you happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Marriage is a lifelong thing, and to maintain it for a long time, the most important thing is the relationship between two people. Listening to your description, I think you are more of a candidate for an ideal wife, which feels like because she is in the same place as you, you also know the family situation, and the age is about the same, which is more like the calculation of the mechanical matching index of two people. But you seem to have more feelings for B, you think she is young, and you want to get married in two years, how to say, I think B may be more suitable, A You also said at the beginning, she is generally good to you, B is good to you.

    Your wife is not only hurt by you, but more importantly, she also knows how to hurt you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Choose A, because A you know better and are also suitable for marriage, so choose A detailed reason: the road ahead is still very long, and you need to be with someone who can get married and live. You can't have both fish and bear's paws. So you have to let go of what you should let go, and I wish you happiness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If aIf you really like you, then you can choose A, I also think B is very small, very unsuitable for marriage Too young, There will be a lot of small contradictions when you get married in the future, not to mention that she is small. Choosing B is the best, mature, and B doesn't also propose to compound by himself, a good opportunity to seize!

    I wish the landlord happiness.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    A, I personally think that the 6-year gap is nothing, but it is possible that the girls in 94 will be more squeamish and not very easy to serve. As for 23 years old, it will be better, and you are now on the premise of getting married, so it is naturally better to know the roots. What's more, how long does the love last?

    Sooner or later, it will fade, as long as both parties have a good feeling.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This kind of thing asks netizens, are you okay with your brain? You are also embarrassed to ask, are you sure you want to choose after netizens have chosen? Did she do with you or with us?

    Do you still need to ask netizens for help with this kind of problem? Since you can't let go of both, work your own! Marry both!

    It's best not to choose any of them, so as not to hurt people!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I suggest you choose a job, I think the most important thing for a man is work, that is, career. A man with a successful career will not lack love at all. If you have a girlfriend who has to make you choose between work and love, be sure to choose work.

    Just imagine, if you choose love and give up your job, then what do you do to support your love.

    Nowadays, people in society are more materialistic, you don't have money, two people's lives will be more tight, to consider the expenses in life, the quality of life will be very low, all day long for some small things to worry about. This kind of life is a life that we don't want, if you choose to work, at least your life is guaranteed, and you don't have to worry about these trivial things every day.

    But you can also get joy and a sense of accomplishment from your work. Now the material of society is very important. On the other hand, if your girlfriend can make such an unreasonable request, it means that she is not so perfect and may not be very suitable for you.

    I think it's very naïve for someone to ask such a question, so you should reconsider whether you are still suitable between you and whether she can accompany you all the way.

    If you choose love, it may be very risky to be with her, and if you break up in the future, you will have nothing to offer. But choosing a career can at least get the same, and it can ensure your quality of life. I think that a person without a career, no matter how loyal he is to love, will not be recognized in this society, and will only become a lever for others to laugh at.

    If a boy is a boy, he should still make a career and make a name for himself, and don't be bothered by his children's affection.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can choose to work, because for men, career is a very important bargaining chip, only a promising career will meet a partner who will make you happy in the future, she can't sacrifice herself for your work now, which means that she can't share the weal and woe with you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Choosing a girlfriend, of course. Work can make do, but love can't, and it's really hard to meet the right person.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You should sit down and talk to her about it, and try to do both, because these two will be the most important people and things in your life.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Then give up work, life is just a few decades, it is very difficult to meet a true beloved, you can find a job again, and true love is not said to be able to meet.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you really love her, choose her, because maybe you will never meet such a girl again in the future, and the job can be done by another company.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then break up with her and choose a job! When your monthly income exceeds one million, you are afraid that you will not be able to find a girlfriend, but you are afraid that your current girlfriend will regret it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Choose a job and give up your girlfriend. For a man, career is very important, if the career is successful, he will meet better people, and the girlfriend wants you to make a choice, which means that the girlfriend does not understand you at all.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I will choose a girlfriend, it is not easy to find someone to love, you must cherish it, reason with her, work is also very important, and you can only support her if you have a job.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you have true love for your girlfriend, choose a girlfriend. You can find a job again, but if you miss it, you really miss it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you love your girlfriend very much, you have no hesitation to choose your girlfriend, you can find another job if you don't have it, but there is only one girlfriend.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If I were you, I would choose to work. Because I don't think that if you really love me, you won't ask me to make such a dilemma.

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