My girlfriend and I are separated by two places, and my girlfriend and I are in two cities, and we

Long-distance relationship, please love deeply!

Love needs the management of two people, and happiness is for two people. So the two of you discuss and choose the best option! Don't just look at your own future, after all, if you decide to be together, then you have to spend the future together. Hope, happiness!

Bread and love are choices that many people have to face, but now one of you needs to make a sacrifice and must follow the other to follow him; Otherwise, I believe that if you are separated from the world, you will inevitably find another half and hurt each other in the end.

I think this kind of thing depends on your thoughts, which is the most important, career or girlfriend? I'm sure you already have the answer in mind.

Collect a few pieces of clothing and bring money to kill them

Sometimes you can't have both love and career, it depends on your own outlook on life!

Only with basic material guarantees can you have happiness, otherwise let your beloved live a hard life with you? I'm sure you won't do it, it just takes time, it's like chocolate, it has a bitter taste, and it warms your heart when it's sweet.

Now transportation and communication are very convenient, mobile phones and computers are very convenient to communicate.

As long as two hearts are together.

You are not afraid of the barrier of distance.

Henan is not ambitious?

"Chengdu".Lyrics: Zhao Lei.

It's not just last night's wine that brings tears to my eyes.

Let Quezhou I be reluctant to give up more than your tenderness.

How long do you have to go You hold my hand.

What struck me was the freedom to struggle.

Separation is always scattered in September, and memories are the sorrow of longing.

The weeping willows of late autumn kissed my forehead.

In that rainy town, I never forgot you.

Chengdu can't take away only you.

Take a walk with me on the streets of Chengdu Oh...

It doesn't stay until all the lights are out.

You'll pull my sleeves and I'll put my hands in my trouser pockets.

Walk to the end of Yulin Road and sit at the door of the tavern.

Separate always in September Memories are the sorrow of missing.

The weeping willows of late autumn kissed my forehead.

In that rainy town, I never forgot you.

Chengdu can't take away only you.

Take a walk with me on the streets of Chengdu Oh...

It doesn't stay until all the lights are out.

You'll pull my sleeves and I'll put my hands in my trouser pockets.

Walk to the end of Yulin Road and sit at the door of the tavern.

Take a walk with me on the streets of Chengdu Oh...

It doesn't stay until all the lights are out.

Take a walk with me on the streets of Chengdu Oh...

It doesn't stay until all the lights are out.

You'll pull my sleeves and I'll put my hands in my trouser pockets.

Walk to the end of Yulin Road and walk past the door of the tavern.

If you really love him (her), go to her (him), don't leave regrets, you can make more money when the money is gone, but if you miss it, you will be able to live and be frank, maybe he (she) is the person you call to destroy the destined person?

This is a tricky question. Whether or not the wrong relationship should be insisted on, my personal opinion is that this needs to be weighed against the pros and cons and judged on a case-by-case basis.

First of all, if the relationship is already very deep and the two love each other absolutely sincerely, then even if the door is not the right one, the relationship is worth continuing to insist on. After all, true love does not distinguish between families, and feelings are the most important. However, the premise is that both parties must have enough courage and determination to face all kinds of pressure and resistance, and be able to resolve the opposition of their families and society.

Secondly, if the relationship is still in its infancy and has not yet been fully established, then the wrong door can become a huge obstacle to the relationship. The pressure of opposition from family and society will shake both parties, and if the relationship is not strong enough, it is easy to fall apart in the face of these external forces. In this case, it may be more rational to let go, saving you the pain of breaking up in the future.

In addition, you can consider finding ways to improve the current situation, such as whether the opposition of the two family members can be resolved through communication, and whether you can seek help from other relatives and friends. If the situation improves after hard work, then there is a possibility that the relationship will continue to develop. The key is to see if the person is willing to make an effort for the relationship.

Generally speaking, I think that whether the relationship between the door and the wrong household can continue to persist still needs to be comprehensively judged according to the specific situation. If the relationship is strong, both parties have enough courage and determination, and there is hope that the situation will improve, then the relationship is still worth persevering. But if the relationship is unstable and the reality does not allow it, it may be wiser to let go and avoid anxiety in the future.

Of course, this requires the parties to face the reality rationally and weigh their own feelings against the various practical dilemmas they face. We should not be blindly pessimistic and disappointed, nor should we avoid problems and insist on going our own way. In the face of feelings, bravery is just as important as reason.

Only on the basis of rational judgment and courageously struggle for feelings can feelings finally win the beauty. If the parties can do these two things, then even if the door is not right, it is possible to rewrite the ending of this tragedy.

Love needs to be brave, but it also needs to be wise. I hope that my point of view can give some inspiration to friends who are in a similar predicament, so that everyone can neither lose their sense nor give up hope when facing emotional problems. A good ending often requires the joint efforts of the parties involved to achieve.

I'll be honest! In fact, most people are not suitable for long-distance relationships for three reasons

1. There is very little time together, and it is difficult to understand some ordinary things about each other, such as trivial things at work, maybe you don't want to say, but the woman is entangled, the more you don't say that she is getting harder, it is more difficult to understand each other's feelings, if you are together, at least she understands your working environment and the like, of course, you can understand through **, but not all things and all feelings can be expressed in words. But if your girlfriend is the kind of person who is very sensible and understands you, except for that.

2. You may have this feeling, when you are very lonely, or when your girlfriend urgently needs your help and comfort, but you are 3 hours away, maybe you are wronged and only need your hug and shoulder, that feeling is irreplaceable by any language, but you can't give it to her, right? Except if your girlfriend is the kind of stronger one.

3. Let's talk about it for a while, if both of you feel good, it's worth it, and you're sure it's your lifelong partner! Then you can wait for him to transfer the relationship to Chengdu after he turns positive, after all, together can you really understand each other and lay a solid foundation for your future married life.

4. Buying a car is not an idealistic thing, it can be as little as tens of thousands or tens or two hundred thousand, of course, it is impossible to buy a car with tens of thousands of dollars, it is a waste.

5. However, there are some things you haven't said, so we can only give you a rough suggestion. In the end, you have to rely on yourself to make up your mind, otherwise your girlfriend will have to say that you are "immature", hehe, just kidding, don't mind!

If the affection is 100 percent, 1 plus 1 equals 2 at the expense of one party

2. If the love is long, it will beg in the morning and twilight.

If she really loves you, you can support her, she can give up everything for you, or she doesn't love you enough,,, you should have made a break early, otherwise it will hurt more. First of all, you have to understand whether she is your true love, and secondly, you have to show that you are his true love, and you must love her very resolutely, so that she can undoubtedly believe that you are a person who is really good for her ,,, for a lifetime...

Then you say that you want to give up your career,,Sell the house for her,,, naturally if she loves you and feels sorry for you, she will definitely not ask you to do this,,, if she says yes, you buy it, it means that she is really not your love,,, she doesn't have a whole new love for you,,, leave room for it,,, because once you leave, you have nothing...

But she will have other choices,,, or she is not willing to sacrifice herself, even a little benefit,,, if you get married,,, it is you who will suffer in the future, she will only share the joys and sorrows, good luck to you!!

Be sure to show your sincerity and determination to love her before you say your decision! Don't talk about your decisions usually.