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Because there are many such examples around, if the woman thinks about the man and does not want a bride price or asks for a less bride price, the man thinks that the woman is easy to talk and bully, and then really does not pay attention to her.

Because there is this custom in many places now, if the woman asks for less money, or does not ask for a bride price, it will not be valued in the southern family.

Because in many places, the man's parents will treat their daughter-in-law very badly after marriage, so girls nowadays are learning to be smart.

I think that the idea that "no bride price is not respected by the man's family" is probably influenced by previous thoughts.

This is mainly because people nowadays are more inclined to compare. The comparison is especially serious on the major event of marriage.

The idea of this question is a long time ago, and it is only in a relatively remote place that this kind of thinking exists. Now there is no such thought at all.

This is all the thinking of remote areas, and the real new generation of young people will not have this kind of thinking, or the level of education is too low.

1.The man's family is very wealthy, and the reluctance to pay the bride price is a lack of attention to the woman's family.

The man's local custom is not to pay a bride price, so it is understandable. 3.It is understandable that the man is reluctant to pay the bride price if he has family problems.

When I was in college, I had a roommate whose father was seriously ill, so the family was in financial difficulty, and if this is the case, the man is reluctant to pay the bride price, I think it is understandable, and he can make up for it when he is financially rich.

All in all, I think the man is reluctant to pay the bride price, we have to look at the specific situation, if the man's family is relatively wealthy and deliberately does not pay the bride price, then it is a lack of attention to the woman's family, if the man's local customs do not allow it, then it is understandable, in addition, if the family has problems, it is also understandable.

I think so, because in real life, the bride price of the married man is more or less the importance of the woman, and the man is unwilling to pay the bride price, and the woman is likely to be angry after marriage.

Yes, it's not that they don't pay attention to it, but because the man feels that the woman is not worth paying like this, so he is unwilling to pay the bride price.

No. First, I didn't recognize you as a daughter-in-law, after all, the girl is also a little padded jacket raised by her parents for so many years, and she doesn't pay if she is worn away by others, so she doesn't care about you.

Second, the family conditions are not good, and the man's family does not give the bride price because of poor economic ability, unwilling to spend more money, and wants to pick up a daughter-in-law, such a family will not have a good life after marriage.

The first grandson Hansan, the man doesn't love you enough, the bride price is more or less a kind of etiquette, in ancient times, from the emperor to the common people, there were dowry, there were three media and six hires, and eight sedan chairs, which also shows that the man does not take your family seriously, and it also shows that he does not love you enough.

Fourth, don't be blinded by the chicken soup of rhetoric, don't give a bride price and don't want a bride price are two concepts, if you are more nervous now, wait for the reason to give something when you have money, Shen Tangerine is an empty tour of the Kaituan, in the case of more brothers and sisters on the other side, maybe there will be no future.

There are more naked marriages in today's society, but how many are happy in the end. The purpose of asking for a bride price is not the goal, but the purpose is to see how much the man's family attaches importance to him and the guarantee of his married life. But it is not a blind pursuit of bride price and neglect of love and family affection.

Hello! If you love each other enough, it doesn't matter if you give it or not. The point is that after you get married, it's good that you treat people well.

Family conditions are often poor.

Xiaocui and her boyfriend got married in a hurry after knowing each other for two months, and her husband's family conditions are very poor, located in a particularly poor small mountain village, and they still live in a tiled house. My parents didn't have a penny of savings, and they raised a dozen cows and were reluctant to sell them. The boyfriend strongly proposed not to give the bride price at the beginning.

But he still listened to his parents' advice and asked for a bride price of 70,000 or 80,000 yuan, all of which were handed over to his parents and not brought back. My boyfriend had to borrow money from everywhere to subsidize it, plus all kinds of expenses for wine and entertainment, it is estimated that he owes more than 200,000 yuan after getting married, and he has no money to buy a better wardrobe after marriage.

In fact, for such a man, the initiative not to give the bride price is mainly because the family is poor, and it also means that the man has no ability and cannot be self-reliant and self-reliant to start a family. So much so that when he reached the age of marriage, he still had an empty money bag and lived by borrowing money. Although she borrowed money and got married, if she wants to have children and provide for her elderly parents, life will inevitably be tight, so women should think long-term before getting married.

Afraid of women swallowing it privately.

The bride price given by the man and the dowry by the woman are all funds for the young couple's new home. However, many men who take the initiative not to give the bride price are afraid that the woman will not intend to hand it over after receiving the bride price, and will subsidize the woman's parents and siblings after embezzling it. In this way, the money is equivalent to being lost, and there is no return.

But then again, the woman's parents raised their daughter from a young age and spent a lot of money, and when they reached the good age of earning money to repay their parents, they married into the man's family to have children and honor their in-laws. Therefore, there is nothing wrong with the man giving a certain bride price when getting married, and the man should not always be "vigilant" for fear of the woman embezzling it.

Hello, now many people hate the bride price as one of the most important reasons that hinder young people from getting married, and think that some female judges and parents accept the bride price is equivalent to selling their daughters, although this view is a little too extreme, but I personally think there is a certain truth.

Although some parents charge the bride price from the man on the issue of their daughter's marriage, the original intention is not to say how much money they can get, but to let their daughter's future life have a certain material security, or because of the face factor fear that the bride price will be less, and they can't hold their heads up in front of other relatives at home, but they don't realize that this practice is likely to lead to their daughters and their future sons-in-law encountering great obstacles and difficulties in their relationships. Even this practice is a typical stick to beat the mandarin ducks, I personally think that as a woman, parents should be more open-minded, as long as their daughter is looking for a marriage partner, is a real good character, self-motivated boy, then they should actively support, should not let the sky-high bride price become a stumbling block to prevent two young people from falling in love. Of course, for those parents of families with many children, the reason why they have to receive a bride price when their daughters get married is because when their sons get married, they also have to give other women's families a high bride price, otherwise their sons will not be able to get married, but even so, they should not ignore their daughters for the happiness of their sons and the major events of marriage, after all, the palms and backs of their hands are meat, and parents should still try their best to achieve a bowl of water.

Of course, in order to solve such a problem, it is fundamentally necessary to let more female parents realize that it is very wrong to receive a bride price, and compared with the bride price, the happiness of the daughter is always the first.

Good luck.

It is not important not to have a bride price, but it is not respectful to you, you have a bad temper, and machismo is not acceptable.

You are all rushing to get married, since you want to buy a house to cover the light, shouldn't you discuss it together, go to see the house together, choose the source quietly and choose the size and type of house together, after all, you will also be the mistress of the house in the future, your opinion is not very important. I went to buy a house without saying a word, I didn't discuss it with you, and after I bought it, I was telling you that it was a surprise, and the down payment of 1 3 was borrowed, and the decoration money was not.

Second, temper is also a person's character and cultivation. I don't have a bad temper, but I treat my husband and my parents, even if I am sometimes annoyed and want to get angry, but I will endure it, because I know that these are my most beloved people and I don't want them to be sad. Including when I worked later, I never brought my temper to work and colleagues, and digested it myself when I was upset.

Everyone is a baby, and no one can get used to you.

Finally, there is the question of machismo, what is called a house and a car, if you can get married, you can get married, you can't count it as a hail scum. This is the attitude and performance of loving you, if my boyfriend dares to say this to me before I get married, I will definitely reply to him "Then don't delay me", I will walk away without looking back. I'm most annoyed by people threatening me, and I really think of myself as a green onion.