My girlfriend s father has been abroad for ten years and has come back, and I want to buy a set of g

The health stuff is the most pleased.

Fitness equipment is suitable for mother-in-law, and 100-year-old good wine is suitable for father-in-law.

Collectible stones, preferably with meaning.

Let's send flowers.

Flower Basket" has your needs.

Just prepare yourself and be ready to face all kinds of cross-examination. -

You have to know that you are more important than things, and bringing things is just politeness.

Answer: Send a silk scarf.

It is better to be natural and simple, health and beauty and the like, or elegant and tasteful.

The courtesy is light and affectionate, and goose feathers are sent thousands of miles.

It doesn't have to be expensive, but it must be sincere.

There's no need to send valuables, just come out and have a generous meal.

1. Send cigarettes, wine and tea.

Although the other party's parents may not smoke or drink, they should also express that because the rules in some places are like this, you can't think that they won't buy if they don't smoke or drink, that is a big taboo, and it will be regarded as very impolite by the other party's parents.

2. Home-prepared specialties.

The other party's parents know that it is a special product prepared by your parents themselves, which can show your respect for the woman, and you are very sincere and attach importance to this meeting, so that the woman can have a good impression of you, feel that your family is very concerned about this matter, and you will feel that you will also be very attentive to their daughter in the future.

3. Fruit milk.

On a normal day, you can send some fruit and milk, which is more common, and it will not make the other parent feel rude because of choosing the wrong thing. The first time I go to meet the woman's parents, I should buy cigarettes, tea, alcohol, special products prepared by myself, fruits and milk, etc., which are all good gifts.

4. Practical gifts.

Give TV, microwave oven, soy milk machine and other electrical appliances, these gifts are more practical and will be needed by ordinary families. This requires understanding what is lacking in the woman's home.

5. A gift to please your mother-in-law.

You can choose to send cosmetics, just send them to the better, send them to the more expensive, be sure to do what they like, and say a few good words. If you get the mother-in-law first, your business will basically be done.

The first time I went to visit the woman's house, the man could relax and believe that he would leave a good impression on the second elder with a sincere and natural attitude. When visiting the woman's family, don't just talk to your girlfriend and ignore other people, keep in mind the purpose of your trip.

Respectful and humble:

I once went to a girl's house, walked in with my head held high, greeted people with my eyes looking down at people's posture, and then ignored people, and concentrated on being close to the girl, and when I went again, people were extremely unwelcome, so I had to ask the girl to borrow the walkman as an excuse, and after taking the object, I hugged my head and ran away, and never came to the door again.

Trick: "call" when you meet people, you must bring "you" when you open your mouth, and you must say "please" if you have something, you really don't want to bend over and hunch over to cater to the slightly rickety old man, you might as well nod your head and smile.

Etiquette is not to blame:

Once had a girlfriend who had been talking for two years, she was about to talk about marriage, and she was finally forced to talk""drove out of the door, beat the mandarin ducks with sticks, and from then on they were separated.

Trick: The door, not in vain, should come to the door to its liking, bring some gifts, as long as with their home"Mole"(Your girlfriend) has a good total,"Plotting"Two fifty-year-old comrades are still more than enough. Tobacco, alcohol, tea, automatic mahjong machine, chess, ***, jewelry, ......, give what you like, and give what you lack.

Diligent and shrewd:

To take the initiative to find out where other people's families need strong labor to help, you might as well move your mouth when you don't have physical work, how stupid I used to be, I have never washed dishes and mopped the floor or anything, the most terrible thing is that I didn't mention it, and others won't really want you to do it, even if you do it ten times or eight times, and trick someone's daughter back home, won't she do it for you in the next ten or eight years?

Bold and not pompous:

When ordinary people marry daughters, they will examine the strength of the other party, and they should seek truth from facts and avoid bragging. It's not terrible to have no capital, it's terrible to feel unrealistic, you can have no money, but you can't be unstable and reliable. It is enough to do some small things on a reliable basis, and it is enough to show your sincerity, and there is less to do than move the bench and queue up to buy tickets for others.

Trick: At the beginning, if you blow up the cow, there is no room for the end, even if you are really capable, you have to show it slowly and inconspicuously, and the old man marries a daughter not to beg for money, but to ask for peace of mind.

Every boy has to see his girlfriend.

In Beijing--

Two barrels of tea "preferably Wu Yutai or Zhang Yiyuan's barrel *2, the total ** is not less than 150-200 yuan catty".

Pastry "Generally a box from Daoxiang Village - more than 100 yuan".

Fruit mentioned "Fresh Spirit".

Wine--two bottles of "No need to Maotai, five grains, 200 gift boxes".

Whether the old man likes to drink or not, it is a must to take two bottles of good wine. Moutai, the whole two bottles of Wuliangye are OK. Actually, take.

Two bottles of good dry red are no problem. 1.It is recommended that you dress more casually, not to meet customers, you need such a formal suit and leather shoes, you go to meet your parents-in-law, so that they think you are neat and neat.

2.The first time you go, it's best to be comprehensive, and generally smoke, wine, sugar, and tea are four-color ceremonies. A cigarette, a bottle of wine, a box of honey or coffee, plus a fruit or tea, four gifts are enough, two are OK, and the Chinese taboo three gifts.

Depending on your ability to afford to buy cigarettes and alcohol, too expensive makes you a little sophisticated, too cheap feels too insincere, and your mind is the most important.

First ask your girlfriend about the hobbies of the other party's parents, you can cast what they like, choose gifts in a targeted manner, choose gifts do not have to be deliberately expensive and high-end more than their own burden, just delicate and dedicated, if the girlfriend is not clear about the hobby, or the hobby is more difficult to choose gifts, then choose some health products or clothing, choose clothing needs to inquire about the size first. When meeting for the first time, politeness and sincerity are the most important, show some conversation, be diligent, be polite, you can talk about topics that the other party's parents are interested in, and the focus should be on being friendly to women, so that the other party's parents can rest assured.

It's the best gift if you go, it depends on how you use it, just bring some homely food, there's no need to be too grand.

Ask your girlfriend, she knows her parents best, what they like, and how they fit.

Replace things with money, so it is the best, decent, how they want to spend it by them, affordable.

Hello, it's best to look at your girlfriend's advice, because she knows his parents best.

Ask ...... you like itBest!

It's best to discuss this with your girlfriend and ask for her opinion.

In order to be polite and affectionate rather than icing on the cake, first find out what the other party's parents really need, so as to play a role in getting things done.

Since there is no definite relationship, then go with the etiquette of an ordinary friend.

Fruits, pears, peaches, bananas, apples, seasonal fruits can be brought with a little, and the rest is not necessary.

If his father likes to drink, bring two bottles of good wine, if her mother is not in good health, bring some supplements, and ask your girlfriend what his parents like.

Targeted belt, it is best to figure out what the elderly like, and then deliberately take it out when you send it, and say more intimate words to reflect your concern for the elderly.

This is still up to your girlfriend to discuss, after all, she knows her father.

In addition, the average old man does not have particularly harsh requirements for young people, as long as you treat his daughter attentively, he will be relieved.

Bring some nourishment, if the elderly drink alcohol. You can also.

In terms of gifts, don't buy too expensive, no matter how good the economic conditions are, the woman's parents will think that you are very bad at stepping on money.

My advice, first time to buy these things:

Fruit: within 30 yuan; Of course, you should buy good quality fruits, apple can be wine, it is recommended to red wine, Great Wall dry red or Changyu dry red can be, so that you can open and drink it when you eat,。。

So that you can pour more wine for your girlfriend's parents... Toast. to enhance emotional communication

Sugar: Within 30 yuan, Xu Fuji, those sugars are good. There are more varieties for all ages, remember to buy corn candy crisp candy, most mothers like to eat this.

If you think it's easy, buy a box of dried mountain delicacies such as black fungus, bamboo sunflower, or mushrooms.

You can't go wrong with such an outfit,。。 It's all practical!!

But if you're going to stay with your girlfriend for a while,,, it's a good idea to give your parents gifts separately, such as a pearl necklace for your mother and a bottle of good liquor for your father. Because it's the first time I've been there. If there are still small siblings,,,No special preparation this time。。。

Unless you want to celebrate the New Year at your girlfriend's house, you have to prepare some red envelopes!!

Then there will be three things to keep in mind about politeness, which you just need to keep in mind

Be sure to make people more energetic and eat more!

Don't worry about having nothing to say when you eat.

Parents will definitely ask about your family situation, such as your family's **? Are your parents working? Are you at work? Are there any siblings,。。 These and so on ...

You're in your mouth for dessert! The eyes are a little sharp, and when I see my girlfriend's parents' cup running out of wine, I pour it!

Don't be burdened with thoughts. You know in your heart that you truly love your girlfriend ... Will love her family too!! Pour some wine for your family... It's good to talk!!

Brother, since you also know that you are not as tired as her, why should you please her family, so that they will look down on you in the future, if I were you, I would not be humble or arrogant, I would be friendly to my daughter, friendly to her family, parents should give tea, sisters and the like should not give gifts, there is no need. You give her all your love is the best gift.

Brother, eight words of advice:

Do what you like and do what you can.

In fact, you can discuss this directly with your girlfriend.

Be courteous and affectionate, and let them know that your heart is the best.

Parents' words Buy skin care products, never go out of style;

Her sister can send skincare products and the like;

You can start by asking her brother what he needs ......

You can discuss it with your girlfriend first, and then find her sister and brother to please each other, haha. It's okay to have a meal or something.

It depends on your financial level, both decent and generous. You knock on the side to see if there's anything she lacks in the house. Solutions are then generated based on economic conditions.

You can buy good wine for your future father-in-law and some supplements for your mother-in-law, and you don't have to please others too much, so you may be looked down upon, do your best. But be humble in front of your elders, but not overly flattering! Just buy more good stuff.

In fact, the gift is not important, what matters is your sincerity!

Depending on what their family likes, they will give it away.

If you have a baby at home, you must bring milk powder If milk powder is too expensive to bring, you can buy genuine maternal and infant products from the United States. It depends on the age of the baby.

Brother-in-law buys electronics.

Parents-in-law can buy American American ginseng, if it is too expensive, in fact, mother-in-law can also buy facial care products. My father-in-law can buy electronics. For example, mini apples, not too expensive, the United States.

If you have a girlfriend, you can buy cosmetics at the airport, which are genuine and duty-free. Get it done in minutes. Perfume is also available, and girlfriends can show it off.

Anyway, can the landlord help me bring cosmetics?

It's cheap to buy an Apple tablet over there.

The first impression is very important, dress neatly, don't be sloppy, be polite, say hello when you meet, speak naturally, not humble or arrogant, show your temperament and literacy, talk civilly, and don't swear words. Talking to your parents-in-law should be close to the wall, not one foot in the sky and one foot in the ground, clouds and mountains and fog, fluttering. Listen patiently to your parents-in-law's opinions on your future development, and follow your orders.

If necessary, communicate your plans to your parents-in-law and let the elderly have ideas.

As for gifts, in fact, when you meet for the first time, you don't know their hobbies and needs, so the gift can be given to be "popular". It doesn't have to be too targeted.

If you want to be more detailed, it's to ask your girlfriend's opinion. Discuss with her what to buy. Let's see if your girlfriend's parents have any special hobbies and needs.

If your girlfriend lets you make your own decisions, then I think the gifts you can choose are: milk (you can choose middle-aged and elderly high-calcium milk, soybean milk powder, soybean milk powder, walnut powder, middle-aged and elderly oatmeal, etc.), fruits (a wide variety, you can choose yourself), tea (better tea may be a little more expensive), alcohol (this requires knowing whether your girlfriend's father likes to drink), dim sum (to be packaged more delicately, the taste is more positive), food (to be packaged, with local characteristics of food, such as Texas grilled chicken, Pingyao beef, Nanjing duck, etc.), drinks (don't carbonated drinks, take healthy drinks such as almond milk and walnut milk).

Personally, it is not recommended to send things like brain platinum, there are many such things now, and it is not too late to send them later.

In fact, no matter what you take, it will not be rude. Because it's your own, no matter what you take, I think your girlfriend's parents will be happy. Because for the first time, it's your people who you value more than what you take.

There is a saying that the lover is out of the eyes, and the same is true for interpersonal communication, if the parents-in-law fall in love with you at first sight and appreciate you, others like no house, no car, no money, and not tall are not inclusive. Will love you.