Why am I not very pretty, but there are so many people chasing me? 5

The external beauty of a person can impress people though.

But it's been a long time.

Inner beauty is superior.

Since you don't want to fall in love, just make it clear to the other party.

Love hurts easily.

If you don't handle it well.

It's hard to deal with.

You have charisma, right?

Maybe they find in you what they don't have!

If you don't want to fall in love now, talk to them.

I'm not very pretty, but I have a good personality, I am empathetic, I can think about others, and I am not very tall, 160cm, with an average figure, not fat, nor thin.

Are these the disadvantages you are talking about? What else do you have to say? It's almost like saying you're perfect. So who can not chase you. Are you here to show off or to have fun?

It's a good thing that you have a charismatic personality, but don't act rashly, politely refuse, but leave no room for it, tell them that if they like you, they must be polite and gentle when they are considering it after graduating from college, but be firm, if they like you, they will understand.

A little narcissism, what does it mean to be "not very pretty".

Hehe, it means that you are a good girl in the hearts of boys.

That's because you have a charismatic personality!

Let's talk about it when you want to!

Just be yourself... But if you want to fall in love, you must keep your eyes open and experience it with your heart! And not the outward!

Many times, boys chasing girls are not just about looks. There are beautiful people, but many people can't cover them. But if the girl is gentle, fair, well-dressed, can behave well, speak decently, be polite and generous, and look average, that is what many boys dream of.

You know why, maybe you really meet these conditions, so congratulations, you've become a public lover.

But I don't know how old you are. Generally speaking, a guy likes to pursue something that is slightly inferior to him in every way. For example, he is not as tall as him, his family background is not as good as his, his ability is not as strong as him, etc., anyway, it is comprehensive.

And the girl, who likes to be one level higher than her. Therefore, there will be two kinds of people who are more depressed in this society, that is, the most incompetent man and the strongest woman.

So my advice to you is that if you are still very young and still studying at the lower stage of college, then don't pay too much attention to these, do something meaningful, and it is better to ignore these pursuits, you can tell the other person openly and honestly that you don't want to fall in love, and if he is willing to wait, then let him wait.

If you have already entered college or already worked, you may wish to have more contact, otherwise, it will be a pity that you have not fallen in love at your most beautiful age.

Nowadays, boys chasing girls will generally choose the personality first, you are a girl with a good personality, and you may feel happy and comfortable from the heart.

So looks don't matter.

If you don't want to be in a relationship, you can tell them.

Your communication skills should be good.

I wish you happiness and a speedy solution to your troubles.

Let's identify the picture when it comes out.

1.The number one reason why no one chases after being beautiful: super indifferent to boys.

A lot of the girls around me are very beautiful, and no one chases them largely because of their personalities. In addition to not giving the boy a good face, a cold face gives people a feeling that I am so beautiful how can I fall in love with a turtle like you. They get along with their friends very gently, but it's another thing to treat the living, and write the big living people on their faces, for fear that others won't see them, as long as they come into contact with the boys, they will automatically maintain an indifferent mode.

2.The second biggest reason why no one chases after being beautiful: I don't like to chat very much.

A lot of girls really can't talk, especially pretty girls. I rarely talk to boys in chatting, whether they are familiar or unfamiliar. Therefore, once you talk to a boy, it may be just a few words, it will seem very embarrassing, and sometimes you will even misunderstand the meaning of the boy and deliberately find fault.

embarrassed the boys, causing all the boys' favorites to disappear. But it's different for girls to chat with their girlfriends, they talk about everything, but when they are boys, they feel that it is a luxury to say a few more words.

3.The third reason why no one is chasing after beauty: so good that it's intimidating.

There are many beautiful girls who are very good, in addition to their good looks, they may also be versatile, study well, have a good figure, can sing, dance, and play musical instruments, and they are extremely dazzling under the backdrop of the environment, but no one dares to chase, and boys are afraid that they will not be worthy. Too good will cause people to be discouraged, and the circle of excellent people is also different, there are only a few, and people outside can't get in, so sometimes they can only look at it from a distance and dare not approach.

In today's society, people pay more and more attention to appearance, but the more good-looking people are chased, the fewer people are chased, I think there are three factors that cause this phenomenon:

1. Lack of security for suitors.

It is of course a happy thing to have a good-looking boyfriend or girlfriend, but if your high-value object is asked to WeChat, do you still feel happy, the answer is, of course, no. Faced with such a situation, we tend to think crankily and then become extremely insecure. These may be the things that suitors will think of when they are pursuing a good-looking object, so even good-looking suitors are not a key reason for many.

Second, the suitor is overly talking in the unexpected world.

When we want to pursue a person, we often care intentionally or unintentionally - whether we are a good match, when the appearance of two couples is too different, it is inevitable that others will talk about it, and it is often the person with lower appearance who is talked about more, which will invisibly increase psychological pressure, which is also a reason why good-looking people are not chased.

3. The suitor doubts whether the good-looking person is serious about the relationship.

I'm sure we've all asked ourselves at one time or another: why did such a good thing happen to me? This kind of question, as the number of fraud cases increases, this kind of question gradually increases.

At that time, when we see a good-looking person and want to pursue him or her, we will also ask ourselves: why is he with me, he is looking for such a good looking partner, is it just a ...... to play with me?and so on, these are all important factors in "dissuading" suitors, and at the same time, this is also an important reason why there are few suitors for good-looking people.

Judging from the fact that there are few suitors for good-looking people, it can be seen that in today's society, the malice between people is increasing, and the trust between people is gradually weakening. But I believe that as long as we all exchange sincerity for sincerity, good-looking people will also have many suitors, and mediocre-looking people can also have high-value partners.

In ancient times, "My Fair Lady, Gentleman is Good" means that "a beautiful and virtuous woman is really a good spouse of a gentleman".

However, the number of suitors for many very attractive women is very small, and I think there are the following reasons for this

Unequal position.

When many boys see a beautiful girl, they will feel that their appearance may not be so good, and they may not be worthy of the girl at all. Therefore, the boy will have some inferiority complex and will not take practical action to chase the girl. That girl can only become a white moonlight in the boy's heart.

2.Partner uncertainty.

How can a beautiful girl lack a boy who likes her! So some boys meet a girl they like, and they don't know if the girl has a boyfriend.

Because if I have a boyfriend, and a guy explicitly says he likes me and invites me to a movie or something, there's no way I'm going to go. So if she doesn't refuse, go play with you and also fall in love with your boyfriend. That guy shouldn't want to be with a girl like that.

3."Action is not as good as heart".

When a guy meets a beautiful girl, he doesn't necessarily take the initiative to pursue her. Perhaps, this girl is just the object of praise that the boys talk about in their spare time, but after considering the time capital and the pursuit of funds, the boy will feel that it is okay to just think about it, and he may not be very happy because of many things after being together. If you just keep this girl in your heart, you may only think of it and bring excitement and joy, but after being together, there will be frequent problems in real couples, and the action is better than only heartbeat.

4.Money

Now the most needed thing in life is money, as we all know, girls are the most expensive group, and beautiful girls will cost money. Clothes, cosmetics, gifts, and much more all require huge amounts. Although not every girl spends a lot of money on her boyfriend, the existing impression still makes the boy a little regressive.

That's why I think the better you look, the fewer people you will be chased.

Generally speaking, people think that good-looking people have many suitors, including excellent competitors, and suitors will have low self-esteem and feel that there is little hope. People will think that good-looking people have high vision, high requirements, and retreat without a fight.

Because he is so good, others see him inferior.

The main thing is that it is too good, so that many people dare not chase it.

No, it could be that you are too beautiful, no one dares to chase you, and you feel hopeless.

This is thought to be very good, but no one confesses it, which is usually caused by the following two reasons.

The first reason is that you really think you look good。It is undeniable that some people are not accurate in their perception of themselves, maybe in their own eyes, they are a very handsome or very beautiful person, but in fact, he is just a very ordinary person.

This kind of person often doesn't know what his correct position is, that is to say, in the process of interacting with others, he may still have a bit of a condescending attitude in it, and over time, everyone will definitely stay away, instead of pursuing you and confessing to you. At this time, you can actually listen to what the people around you really think about you.

The second reason is that you are so good that others are afraid to confess to you。I remember He Saifei said in a show that he had never met a suitor, so he married his first love, of course, there must be some jokes in it, but it is undeniable that if you are really good, people will not think that you have no object.

So many people are actually very good-looking, but everyone doesn't think that he will lack a partner, but they will not think of him as a goal that can be developed. It sounds a bit sad, but there are a lot of them. At this time, you may need to take the initiative, so that the chances of success will be high.

First of all, everyone has their own opinions and feelings about how they look, but remember that physical appearance is not the only factor that determines our worth and attractiveness. Appearance is only a person's hidden characteristics, and our value and attractiveness also include internal quality, personality, interests, talents, etc.

If you feel that you are ugly and unworthy of pursuing someone you like, here are some suggestions:

1. Cultivate self-confidence: Self-confidence is the key to attracting people. Believe in your own worth and uniqueness, learn to accept your appearance, and show inner confidence and positivity. A confident attitude will make you more attractive.

2. Pay attention to internal quality: appearance is only the tip of the iceberg, and internal quality is more important. Cultivate your hobbies, learn new knowledge, develop your talents, and show your unique charm and wisdom.

3. Make real connections with people: Connecting with people you like isn't just based on your appearance. Make an effort to establish deep communication and emotional connection with the other person, showing that you are kind, considerate, and understanding.

4. Pay attention to personal image and health: Although appearance is not everything, it is also important to maintain a good personal image and healthy habits. Take care of your body and image to give a positive, healthy and energetic impression.

5. Don't set limits on yourself: Don't be too obsessed with the impact of your appearance on your feelings. Everyone's definition of attraction and beauty is different, and feelings are complex and individualized. Don't set limits on yourself, be brave enough to express your feelings and pursuits.

Most importantly, you learn to accept and love yourself. Don't rely solely on your physical appearance for your worth, but show yourself by cultivating inner qualities and self-confidence. Everyone has something unique about appealing, believe in your charisma, and look for those who can appreciate and like you.

There should be no shortage of people who are good in all aspects, and it is easy to catch up with people, but there are exceptions, such people are generally extremely rare, and this kind of thing is really there in real life, and the reason for this, according to my opinion, is generally the following situations.

First: He is too beautiful and outstanding, and his personality is arrogant, which makes the opposite sex around him feel ashamed and dare not look away. This is the first kind of beauty, beauty is beautiful, but it lacks vitality and is not easy to get close to.

Even if a man with commendable courage dares to chase it, he will definitely chase it very hard, and even if he really chases it, he will feel very boring and boring after getting along for a long time. And usually, men's patience is very limited, and few people can make it to the end.

Second, he is impeccable in terms of appearance and figure, but he has a lot of life experience. an unbearable past; dazzling past; Shameful smudges.

This third point is a bit heart-wrenching, but this is also an objective existence, and people must understand themselves correctly. But some people don't understand themselves at all, look at themselves in the mirror, and always pity themselves for looking good from head to toe, a typical beauty! Now there is a beauty camera, a retouching filter down, but anyone with complete facial features, everyone can become a beauty, if the reality and the P picture become chaotic, then the evaluation of their appearance, naturally, will be seriously deviated.

You think you are a beauty, but in the eyes of others, you are just an ordinary person with an ordinary appearance, or even a slightly uglier woman, ordinary women and ugliness are not sins, obviously not beautiful, but think that your beautiful resentment and sighs are ridiculous and sad. Even if a man who doesn't pay attention to his face chases you, this man who sells "work" will run away in fright.

Whether it is a handsome beauty or a fake beauty who pretends to be amazing, in fact, you should understand: no matter how beautiful the appearance is, it cannot last forever, and it is superficial and sad to only use hue as capital and have nothing else. "Life is dark and long, only the soul can illuminate the future."

After a few years, you'll understand that this isn't chicken soup, it's the truth.